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Author:  itapua [ Sun Jan 29, 2012 6:52 pm ]
Post subject:  How to proceed? Need your expert advice
Hey guys I need some advice on how to proceed with this HB I've met at uni a couple of weeks back. Sorry if this is a bit too long.

Mostly following the 'extended' emotional progress model which works better for people in your social circle and going through the models fine. She's giving me crazy IOI, qualifies her self without me even trying to make her do so, etc. So something seems to be going well.

Trying to get some kino as well (although I need some tips on this as well, as low-energy situations (university) need something a bit more subtle).

Anyway, told her to join us for drinks last Friday with a few friends of mine and she came along "mostly because we had a common friend" (or so she said).

The way the bar was set-up, some guys were with our common friend, and me with the rest of my friends were a bit further away. So she arrives at the place, greets me nicely and sat with our common friend (which was further away). I just continued talking and drinking with my friends and after 30min or so she comes over to me.

I introduce her to the rest of the group, and as before, she gives me crazy IOI, got some nice Kino going on too (higher energy environment was a good opportunity), teased her a bit yadda yadda and she went back to 'our common friend'.

Then a friend of mine tells me that the guy she walked in with was her BF, which she never mentioned (her fb status tho is 'in a relationship' but who pays attention to fb?). I then tried noticing their interaction and I was baffled. It was as if they were complete strangers. She had more fun with me and my friends than she was with her BF.

Anyway, my question is how do I proceed from here? Seeing that she didnt even mention her BF up to now, it's hard to run a Boyfriend Destroyer routine on her (as I "dont know" she's got a BF).

Thanks alot for the advice in advance!
Author:  Lava [ Mon Jan 30, 2012 2:55 am ]
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First of all, wether she has a boyfriend or not, thats not your problem. The only girls giving me IOIs that I wouldn't hit on are girls who my guy friends having feelings for or been intimate with. Having said that, she will clearly want to be in a hush quiety quiety to not be discovered by her boyfriend. You carry on your game as if she's single EXCEPT you figure out a way of assuring her that anything she does with you is kept on the low. Once successful, don't show emotional attraction but physical sexual only, its her boyfriend's job to love her and take her out. Tell her "I would so kiss you if none of our people are her", to show that everything will go privately, carry on doing what you're doing til sex.
Author:  itapua [ Mon Jan 30, 2012 6:23 pm ]
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you figure out a way of assuring her that anything she does with you is kept on the low
How would you do that? If I try do what you're saying then then I would have to declare my interest in her, and we all know that wont work.
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Tell her "I would so kiss you if none of our people are her", to show that everything will go privately, carry on doing what you're doing til sex.
Is that really wise though? What if she says no just because on the back of her mind she's got a BF. Surely just going for it would be better? Not sure about this..

Although I guess if I k-close before-hand that would work.


Otherwise, appreciate the feedback! Agree with what you said above except those 2 points if you could clarify them for me. Cheers![/quote]
Author:  papichulo818 [ Mon Jan 30, 2012 6:34 pm ]
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Act like she doesn't have one. If she tells you she does you can try and ignore it like many of the creepos on this board would suggest, or simply respect it and move on.
Author:  EddieFews [ Mon Jan 30, 2012 6:47 pm ]
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Act like she doesn't have one. If she tells you she does you can try and ignore it like many of the creepos on this board would suggest, or simply respect it and move on.
So i'm guessing your ignoring my facebook offer? lol
Author:  itapua [ Mon Jan 30, 2012 7:29 pm ]
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Act like she doesn't have one. If she tells you she does you can try and ignore it like many of the creepos on this board would suggest, or simply respect it and move on.
Well, I would have assumed that she would already brought him up if she wanted me to know right? There were countless opportunities but she just seems to choose not to let me know.
Author:  Lava [ Tue Jan 31, 2012 1:20 am ]
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1- Simply be the only person who knows whats going on between you and her, don't tell anyone if you kiss or fuck her.
2- yea, you could just go for it, as long as both of you are alone and no one knows.

What more can you do?
Author:  itapua [ Tue Jan 31, 2012 10:27 am ]
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Just got the perfect opportunity.. It's a bit far away (in a month) but assuming I don't fuck up, and keep attraction high this should do it. Or should I try go for my move earlier?

SHE asked me to join her on a charity competition run by our uni, which involves 2 people and whoever gets farthest (in distance from starting point) within 36 hours (without using a penny) wins. On one side I can use this to DHV showing that am adventorous and whatnot, and on the other side it's the perfect opportunity we 2 are alone.

However the only issue here is that if those 36 hours are too much to be together although to be fair we will be quite busy! What do you guys think about being 36 hours with a chick?
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