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Author:  malt&salt [ Sun Jan 29, 2012 3:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Hard to get?

Hey fellow PUAs!
This HB9 is giving me lots of IOIs (eye contact, kino, laughing at jokes when they aren't really funny, her number, qualified herself to me, brought sex in conversation), she even invited me for a drink, but we didn't set the date. When we talk on facebook, she responds fast, but when I try to ask her out, she ignores the question. This happened 2 times now. At first, I thought I was too needy so I started freezing her out. She re-started the conversation and gave me bunch of IOIs outside the facebook.
Is she just playing hard to get or uninterested in me?

Author:  Danage [ Sun Jan 29, 2012 9:30 pm ]
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could be a number of answers. She could be flirting with out out and about to get to someone thats an option. She may also just want attention but nothing further but in my head I feel that she has maybe just gotten out of something and is unsure. Dont worry about facebook and gaming on facebook, if in person you are getting a crap tone of IOI's then she is interested. That's my opinion anyway. I was in a situation that got me in the community where I had oneitus for a girl that gave me loads of IOI's and I did nothing about it and when one night I went in for the kill and she friend zoned me.

In my opinion just get an answer out of her, be direct and if she isn't interested well then just move on.

Hope i've helped.

Author:  malt&salt [ Sun Jan 29, 2012 10:34 pm ]
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Thank you, good sir :)
I think you might be right with attention seeking theory, because when I ignore her, she does all kinds of things to get my attention back. Anyway, will go for the kill tommorow, will post how it went.

Author:  malt&salt [ Mon Jan 30, 2012 9:25 pm ]
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I didn't get the girl, but I'm still having a feeling like she is toying not only with me, but with guys in general. Well, who cares. I decided to have some fun with not getting her and friend zoned her (actually told her that she is officially friend zoned so hands off the merchandise) :) She can still be a great opener tester and a hot friend to make other girls jelous.

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