Hello all,
I'm new around here and I would firstly like to say I'm glad I've found this place, I hope that once I'm well equipped in the PU department I will be able to contribute and advice as much as I hope the more accomplished PUAs will help me along my journey. Started out my interest my picking up my friends book ''The Game'' when he was out, and haven't been able to put it down or stop researching PU wherever I can since. I've never been bad with women, or good either, I'd say I'm very average. At the age of 21, I've slept with 10 girls and had 2 long (over 18 months) relationships. But throughout all my life I've been known as the goofy one, fun to be around because I do silly things, often without meaning to and seem to be buzzing off life, but I want to prove to myself I can portray myself as somebody different; confidence, swagger, the man
. You know what I mean.But enough about me, Let's move onto my first 'Target' as such, my first problem solving task. I shall call her Polish Brunette 8 (PB8), a fellow Uni student. Now the background of the situation is that she is a friend of group of friends (all play sport together) and we have previous history, KC waaaaay back in October, no numbers exchanged, didn't really give her the time of day afterwards (spent a fair amount of time in her presence).
However, since coming back we've had another couple of hook ups. Went out on a night out with her in our group of friends, notice her looking at me all night (IOI, although at this point that just came from my own instincts rather than actual PU knowledge). When we were in our group in the night club, I whispered to her "It's a shame we're surrounded by our friends, because I'm sure there are many things you would like me to do to you". Reflecting back on that it seems as though I handled that pretty well, particularly as when we all got back to her block of flats at halls and our friends were out of side she launched herself at me :shocked: (If thats not an IOI I don't know what is!). However she also made it clear that it was all I was going to be getting that night.
We hooked up a few days later at a house party. Man this girl is kinky (well, compared to my experience), she don't me she likes to get the adrenaline running, and to do this we should see how far we could go while our friends were in the room. We did this while sustaining a 'normal' conversation with them and masking what precisely we were doing. Que plenty of fondling. Went back to her room and this carried on, but she insisted that FC was not going to happen. i did however view a very sexy masturbation show, nothing I'd ever experienced as good as that before
. I tried to convince her for a little while by trying to put it in her mind that it was what she wanted from the outset, but she was having none of it, so i settled for what I got and that was that.Well since then we've been flirting a lot through facebook/text, not seen her in person since. She's definitely a girl who loves to be in control. But, I need to regain that control, too much power for her, how do i do this?
Also, I'm definitely interest in the FC, I have a feeling she will be a very good lover from the tasters i've had so far
and for it to occur more than just the once. She's already ruled out relationship and stated she's just up for fun, which suits me perfect. But, what to you recommend in securing the FC and how do I keep her hooked? (Literally)I have a couple of other girls (HB7s) on the horizon as well, but she's my no1 target, and I feel through working through this 'problem' and spending as much time as I can researching PU skills and developing a mental library, I will gain the confidence and knowledge to then test my artistry on the target demographic of HB 8+.
Before I go, a couple of lines I used while flirting with this girl that she seemed to enjoy, critique at will:
Me: Yeah, you strike me as the workaholic type
PB8: I'm not;) I just don't ming doing things that seem useful...
Me: Oh, i thought you had the work hard play harder mentality
PB8: I deffo have "play harder" mentality:P
Me: we will see about that
PB8: i thought you've seen a sample already;)
Me: i played the demo
PB8: did you like it? willing to play the full-version?;)
Me: graphics...tick....game play...tick...enjoyment level....tick....
Me: But is endurable and can I replay the levels I enjoy the most?
PB8: i take it as a 'yes'
but for now we'll have to pause the game...
it's bedtime
Me: It's a maybe. Ciao, Sweet Dreams. x
And one from a couple of days earlier, examples of negging to and from her (Shitslut is an in joke by the way)
Me: Shitslut :p
PB8: Are you that drunk or are you just rude?
Me: Fraid I'm the second option tonight!
PB8: That's the wrong answer I'm afraid
Me: I'd never be rude
PB8: Yeah, yeah
Insert conversation and mention of injury impeding important training tomorrow.
PB8: I hope you'll be fine tomorrow, See I'm nice even if you're not to me
Me: How am I not nice?
PB8: Calling me a shitslut for example
Me: I wouldn't call you one if you actually were one. Now that would be cruel.
PB8: I know I'm not one but it would be nice to hear a compliment from you every once in a while :p
Me: Compliments only come when least expected
PB8: Not only do I ''suck'' and I'm a ''shitslut'', cause I may believe it can become one :p
Me: You don't fall into the shitslut category by any stretch of the imagination
PB8: See. It's not difficult if you try xxx
me: I wouldn't have said thats a compliment, its just not an insult.
PB8: Oh. Its a start.
Thanks for taking the time to read this
critique away!