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Author:  Arrow_Sheen [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 1:26 am ]
Post subject:  girl with boyfriend
i will keep it quick, been speaking to this hb7 on bbm for the last two days, know her through mutual friends, in the past she has told said friends how attractive she thinks i am

she has a boyfriend, been with him just over 2 months, however, she has complained about him almost none stop over the last 2 days when we have been speaking, saying he 'always falls asleep' 'doesn't do things that bf/gf should do' 'would rather play fifa than see her' 'always lets her down' couple this with almost all of her statuses being about how he has let her down.

i handled this by trying to say she deserves better, basically try and comfort her whilst still trying to get my foot in the door also, yesterday, she has basically split up with him, so im ready to swoop ended up saying i should take her on a drive but not round where she lives cause her boyfriends mates will see, so i agree and say we'll go out sunday, now the conversation is getting pretty sexual, she then says shes going to his tonight, and comes back in a completely different mindset? she is now completely against cheating on him, and doesnt reciprocate any of my flirty banter

my questions, how do i handle this? can i comfort her without being put in the friend zone? she may be out this saturday, could i do the dirty and swipe her from under her boyfriends nose? Any help welcome guys!
Author:  motownsoul [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 1:29 am ]
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Tell her that you feel bad that she feels the need to put up with that crap, and if she ever wants a man to treat her right to give you a call....

then cut off communication and dont hang out with her as much

the longer you're her shoulder to cry on, so to speak, more likely you will end up in the friend zone
Author:  EddieFews [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 3:06 am ]
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Tell her that you feel bad that she feels the need to put up with that crap, and if she ever wants a man to treat her right to give you a call....

then cut off communication and dont hang out with her as much

the longer you're her shoulder to cry on, so to speak, more likely you will end up in the friend zone
Please don't do this.. Sorry motown lol

To the OP... You have not created any attraction, your already friend zoned she just hasn't had the need to tell you yet.. Your her cushion, she needed someone to vent to and you welcomed her with open arms. You also comforted her and made her feel she does deserve better.. Not you, just better. The one telling her that can't be what she deserves because he'd be out getting what he deserved.

Your flirting with a girl in a struggling relationship and trying to capitalize off of the fact they broke up..that is not attractive..

Your best bet would to honestly text her... " Need a rebound? :)" Its a risk but it plants the seed and you never know.
Author:  Shyy [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 5:29 am ]
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Your in the FriendZone bro.
You need to break out by being more bold in your actions.
I say... If she comes around trying to vent again, I would make my move.
Get touchy, and see how she reacts, you got nothing to lose.
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