PUA Forum :: I'm only 18 so what the hell can I do?

The majority of the stuff on this forum is related to going out to clubs, bars, etc. I live in california and you have to be 21 to drink. I live in a small boring town and there aren't any places I can go sarging. It's not like I can order drinks and have a good time. I'm stuck living at home 2 more years before I transfer from community college to UC so I can't bring a girl home and bang her. My v-card is long overdue and it's killing me.

I see you guys are from New York city and Orange County- places where things are going on. Try the nation's most miserable city, Stockton. Our malls suck, the only good movie theater is in downtown, but it's dangerous down there. I have school, a part time job, and I'm busy with things I gotta do. Hardly have time to hang out with friends anymore after high school and it's like I have to start from scratch. Where do I find the time to meet chicks besides at school? And it's not like I can have sex AT school, there are no dorms.

Sounds like excuses to me. Your city has population of roughly 300k and your like an hour or so from Oakland/San Fran as well as Sacramento. So to say there isn't anything to do is bull crap. And if you want to meet girls you make the time to meet them. It is really that simple. And who says you can't have sex at school?

There is always Facebook and dating sites. My buddy is living in twentynine palms and he was raving about gaming the dating sites. He sent me some pics of a few hotties he's gamed off the internet and they're damn near model quality... Just another thought.

You have a car? Get a fake ID or homeless guy to buy you some beer. Take a chick out to a drive in movie. Drink while watching the movie or just go to a park at night and have a few drinks while getting to know each other... then wear her out in your back seat. I had so many stains in my car before I had a place of my own. Gotta get creative.

Author:	deltakrisp [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 12:55 am ]
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The majority of the stuff on this forum is related to going out to clubs, bars, etc. I live in california and you have to be 21 to drink. I live in a small boring town and there aren't any places I can go sarging. It's not like I can order drinks and have a good time. I'm stuck living at home 2 more years before I transfer from community college to UC so I can't bring a girl home and bang her. My v-card is long overdue and it's killing me.

Author:	EddieFews [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 12:59 am ]
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uh.. Malls, sidewalks, walmart... Those are all great places to sarge

Author:	deltakrisp [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 1:09 am ]
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Community College, is way different than High School. This semester just started and I'll see how it goes, but I have had classes where you just go to the lecture hall, sit, listen, and leave. It's like super quiet, everyone's silent, and people just wanna get the hell out of there. I have some AA, not gonna lie but it's almost gone.

Author:	jurupa [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 1:23 am ]
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There are 18+ clubs but you have to be in a big city to have those. Other than that think outside of the box. Is there a pool hall or an arcade place? Also what city do you live in?

Author:	Muze [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 1:25 am ]
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Your biggest limits are self-imposed, my man. Surely there are some decent looking girls in your town/at your cc. Just practice talking to people, being more confident in interactions, and approaching strangers. Building these skills will help you later when you can get more into the club game. Sarge on! (PS: this coming from an 18 year old who also lives in a small town.)

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Author:	deltakrisp [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 2:50 am ]
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I see you guys are from New York city and Orange County- places where things are going on. Try the nation's most miserable city, Stockton. Our malls suck, the only good movie theater is in downtown, but it's dangerous down there. I have school, a part time job, and I'm busy with things I gotta do. Hardly have time to hang out with friends anymore after high school and it's like I have to start from scratch. Where do I find the time to meet chicks besides at school? And it's not like I can have sex AT school, there are no dorms.

Author:	EddieFews [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 2:54 am ]
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I went to a community college and had sex in the bathroom plenty of times, I also had sex in empty classrooms and the janitors closet twice. Excuses are the nails that build the house of failure, so stop making them. Women are every where on earth and if you care enough about getting laid you will make a point to get somewhere where there are women. simple.

Author:	Kieran Black [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 3:00 am ]
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Quote: The majority of the stuff on this forum is related to going out to clubs, bars, etc. I live in california and you have to be 21 to drink. I live in a small boring town and there aren't any places I can go sarging. It's not like I can order drinks and have a good time. I'm stuck living at home 2 more years before I transfer from community college to UC so I can't bring a girl home and bang her. My v-card is long overdue and it's killing me. Yeah you're right, you're screwd you may as well just give up now. Just kidding, be creative bro, there are literally women EVERYWHERE every second person is one. There is no designated pick-up spot(s), you can pick up anywhere you just need to put yourself out there.

Author:	jurupa [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 4:18 am ]
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Quote: I see you guys are from New York city and Orange County- places where things are going on. Try the nation's most miserable city, Stockton. Our malls suck, the only good movie theater is in downtown, but it's dangerous down there. I have school, a part time job, and I'm busy with things I gotta do. Hardly have time to hang out with friends anymore after high school and it's like I have to start from scratch. Where do I find the time to meet chicks besides at school? And it's not like I can have sex AT school, there are no dorms. Sounds like excuses to me. Your city has population of roughly 300k and your like an hour or so from Oakland/San Fran as well as Sacramento. So to say there isn't anything to do is bull crap. And if you want to meet girls you make the time to meet them. It is really that simple. And who says you can't have sex at school?

Author:	kenstheman01 [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 4:35 am ]
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meetup.com is a website that has events set up by people locally. Like sunrise watching and running groups, or yoga, any type of hobbies really. Check it out, might help.

Author:	deltakrisp [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 4:45 am ]
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Quote: Sounds like excuses to me. Your city has population of roughly 300k and your like an hour or so from Oakland/San Fran as well as Sacramento. So to say there isn't anything to do is bull crap. And if you want to meet girls you make the time to meet them. It is really that simple. And who says you can't have sex at school? San Fran is more than an hour drive and once I get there, what, I still can't drink. I could go to a strip club(I think) and pay money to get blue balls but for what? I'm NOT rich. I go there often with family, but I'm not gonna just drive all the way down there after school by myself are you kidding me. I'm not making excuses, I'm being practical. I spend like $80 a week on gas just from commuting to/from school- that's a lot from a student.

Author:	Shyy [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 4:48 am ]
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Lol bro i'm 17 which means i can't even go to clubs. I say go to parks, you can meet women easy. Or try coffee shops. Pick up can happen anywhere imo.

Author:	hardkink [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 5:44 am ]
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I'm pretty sure my town is more lame than yours. And I got tail without clubs before I was 21. One of the girls back in CC would give me a BJ everyday before class. One of my Bens right now I picked up at McDonald's and is in nursing school. I picked up half a dozen girls off the lake last year. I picked up a girl at my buddy's bachelor party and took her off-roading, I've picked up girls from Walmart, applebee's, the mall, my God daughters daycare and even the hospital. I may be 23 but a lot of the girls I fuck are between 18-20 meaning I'm not picking them out of bars. So yes bars make it easier... but there are tons of other venues to sarge. There is always Facebook and dating sites. My buddy is living in twentynine palms and he was raving about gaming the dating sites. He sent me some pics of a few hotties he's gamed off the internet and they're damn near model quality... Just another thought.

Author:	waty19 [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 6:05 am ]
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You have a car? Get a fake ID or homeless guy to buy you some beer. Take a chick out to a drive in movie. Drink while watching the movie or just go to a park at night and have a few drinks while getting to know each other... then wear her out in your back seat. I had so many stains in my car before I had a place of my own. Gotta get creative.

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Author:	deltakrisp [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 6:12 am ]
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Quote: There is always Facebook and dating sites. My buddy is living in twentynine palms and he was raving about gaming the dating sites. He sent me some pics of a few hotties he's gamed off the internet and they're damn near model quality... Just another thought. Huh, maybe I'm just picky about girls. I'm aiming to get HB10's that I can't get yet, when I really should settle for 6's and work my way up. Personally I think online dating sites are pathetic and for pathetic people. May I ask which sites your buddy used to pickup those "model quality" babes? Online may be the only way to go if I'm desperate enough. Quote: You have a car? Get a fake ID or homeless guy to buy you some beer. Take a chick out to a drive in movie. Drink while watching the movie or just go to a park at night and have a few drinks while getting to know each other... then wear her out in your back seat. I had so many stains in my car before I had a place of my own. Gotta get creative. Yes. I'm gonna drink and drive park outside a walmart and bang the shit out of her in the backseat of my small-ass benz sedan. Gimme a break.