Moving on will be the best possible move here
If she restarts contact you can still take it from there.
| PUA Forum https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| Blew it with AFC Behaiour https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=126777 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | Neo Kerouac [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 2:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Blew it with AFC Behaiour |
Sorry if this is in the wrong section - or is something that has already been covered elsewhere, please advise if this is the case. I thought id start my first post with a story, my story. I read the Game back in February last year and thought it was awesome, I started online dating and by March was texting and seeing a plethora of women, i think at one point i was seeing six and texting another eight. I wasn't really seeing girls i was particularly attracted to and I let most of them slide and have become "friends" through my own choice with one or two. I Still have Approach Anxiety in the field especially if i am attracted to someone, and here is my sticking point. I joined another dating site in November and within two days had 12 women messaging and texting me, however one woman particularly caught my eye and when we met i thought she was awesome. I used all the things i learnt from the game to win her and we started seeing each other exclusively, however complications arose due to her having children which made seeing each other difficult and I had caught a serious case of "oneism". I think i reverted to my AFC ways, and she lost that attraction that i had created in the first place. She basically told me three nights ago that it wasn't working for her. I am gutted by this and can't believe i blew it, I had been attentive, generous moved things in my life around so that we could make it work and she blew me out, when in the beginning i was doing my " I'm doing you a favour even talking/hanging out with you stuff, she was all over me. I have cut off contact now although i agreed to be friends, not really sure of my next move as I really liked this girl we had so much in common i thought that would carry me through. I now know that game is not for just the start of a relationship but needs to be maintained throughout, but would love any advice on next moves. Do i Just forget her and move on as i am already chatting to some women on dating sites again, or is there a way to salvage this ? |
|
| Author: | P-Style [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 3:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Moving on will be the best possible move here If she restarts contact you can still take it from there. |
|
| Author: | meetjoeblack [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 3:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | |
Quote: Moving on will be the best possible move here
Awesome. I really think it could turn around cause, the rules don't apply but, just keep learning man. I saw a Jeffy allan video saying, even during a blow out, he tries to take something away from it.
If she restarts contact you can still take it from there. |
|
| Author: | EddieFews [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 4:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | |
There is always a way to salvage something, however, moving on is better for your mentality toward women.. Just let one go, you'll have bigger and better opportunities really soon once you learn to just let go.. There are soo many women out there, no need to stress.. We all fuck up from time to time, some keep thinking about it, others create a new scenario with a new women to fuck up with... You catch my drift? |
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|