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My target is to try and move her to a different place (ie. the bar), get a shot together, have a laugh, and try build some comfort.

At the same time qualifying her will help justify to her that you are NOT desperate. Therefore she can backwards rationalize why she went home with you.

Hey mate,

I have exactly the same problem. I can make out with a girl on the dance floor very easily, often without even talking. Its fun, and I assume it helps that im fairly good looking. It almost seems as if you are missing a stage though. There is a lot of attraction, but no comfort. It almost feels quite seedy and desperate to take her home without even talking to her.

My target is to try and move her to a different place (ie. the bar), get a shot together, have a laugh, and try build some comfort. At the same time qualifying her will help justify to her that you are NOT desperate. Therefore she can backwards rationalize why she went home with you.

Just a thought.....

When it comes to kissing girls on a dance-floor, good-looks are more something that enable you to do this, not something which slightly helps...

There is a lot of attraction, but no comfort. It almost feels quite seedy and desperate to take her home without even talking to her.
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My target is to try and move her to a different place (ie. the bar), get a shot together, have a laugh, and try build some comfort.

What you are saying is that your goal is to get the girl on a insta-date. Not sure it is very effective on a night club, most girls wont like the ideia of leaving the club to go to another place. Now, in day-gaming, it is very good.

When it comes to kissing girls on a dance-floor, good-looks are more something that enables you to do this, not something which slightly helps...

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There is a lot of attraction, but no comfort. It almost feels quite seedy and desperate to take her home without even talking to her.
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Agreed - thats the main problem I have. I wouldn't complain if she wanted to go home before even talking but it feels a bit wrong.

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My target is to try and move her to a different place (ie. the bar), get a shot together, have a laugh, and try build some comfort.

Think he simply meant the bar in the club, just to move on a bit. Thanks though- I'll stay clear of qualifying for now, although it probably could help a bit.

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When it comes to kissing girls on a dance-floor, good-looks are more something that enables you to do this, not something which slightly helps...

I know plenty of people who prove that wrong so stop thinking like that. Seen some of your other posts and you clearly have these self esteem issues, if so and your not happy with whatever change it. Aim to do one of those cheesy makeovers they do on mystery's show. Then try out the newbie mission, don't expect to f - close from it, just get someone to say hi. I know your aiming to sleep with a hot girl, but try and work your way up instead of having this goal all the way at the top straight away.

Basically my question is, how to go from making out on the dance floor to having her back in my room.

Author:	matleh [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 4:17 pm ]
Post subject:	Dancefloor game - F closing help
Basically my question is, how to go from making out on the dance floor to having her back in my room. I'm 18 at uni and go out with some friends (guys + girls) and have no problem getting a girl to dance with me and then making out, using just my natural game. But I have no idea how to escalate it from there. I think some of the problem is the fact that from starting to dance to making out takes like 10 minutes, quite often before I even know her name, At that point no girl is going to go home with a guy but there isn't much more I can do. Seems to be worse when I do it early on in the night. Should I just keep dancing etc, get her phone number then after a while try to move her on - possibly to get some food then back to mine? or just leave her for the rest of the night and try to find her later? If I need to keep dancing with her for like another hour I would, but honestly I do kinda get bored of just dancing with one person not talking etc when all my friends are there as well. Gotta take into consideration its freezing cold outside(north of england) and it's really really hard to chat since there is loud music and very limited seating and so gaming like that doesnt really work. I know its alot of writing - thanks guys.

Author:	John Spartan [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 7:23 pm ]
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Hey mate, I have exactly the same problem. I can make out with a girl on the dance floor very easily, often without even talking. Its fun, and I assume it helps that im fairly good looking. It almost seems as if you are missing a stage though. There is a lot of attraction, but no comfort. It almost feels quite seedy and desperate to take her home without even talking to her. My target is to try and move her to a different place (ie. the bar), get a shot together, have a laugh, and try build some comfort. At the same time qualifying her will help justify to her that you are NOT desperate. Therefore she can backwards rationalize why she went home with you. Just a thought.....

Author:	LocoPuaBr [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 8:09 pm ]
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Quote: My target is to try and move her to a different place (ie. the bar), get a shot together, have a laugh, and try build some comfort. What you are saying is that your goal is to get the girl on a insta-date. Not sure it is very effective on a night club, most girls wont like the ideia of leaving the club to go to another place. Now, in day-gaming, it is very good. Quote: At the same time qualifying her will help justify to her that you are NOT desperate. Therefore she can backwards rationalize why she went home with you. Do not qualify her. It is against all of the philosophy behind PUA. You should get her to go home with you using other methods. Both of you should read the Gunwitch Method and the Mystery Method. See what suits you best and use it. If done correctly, should get you some nice results.

Author:	danthedan [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 9:13 pm ]
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Quote: Hey mate, I have exactly the same problem. I can make out with a girl on the dance floor very easily, often without even talking. Its fun, and I assume it helps that im fairly good looking. It almost seems as if you are missing a stage though. There is a lot of attraction, but no comfort. It almost feels quite seedy and desperate to take her home without even talking to her. My target is to try and move her to a different place (ie. the bar), get a shot together, have a laugh, and try build some comfort. At the same time qualifying her will help justify to her that you are NOT desperate. Therefore she can backwards rationalize why she went home with you. Just a thought..... When it comes to kissing girls on a dance-floor, good-looks are more something that enables you to do this, not something which slightly helps...

Author:	LocoPuaBr [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 9:17 pm ]
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Quote: When it comes to kissing girls on a dance-floor, good-looks are more something that enable you to do this, not something which slightly helps... Man, you should read "The Game" by Neil Strauss. It will change the way you view pick-up.

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Author:	matleh [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 10:07 pm ]
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Quote: There is a lot of attraction, but no comfort. It almost feels quite seedy and desperate to take her home without even talking to her. . Agreed - thats the main problem I have. I wouldn't complain if she wanted to go home before even talking but it feels a bit wrong. Quote: Quote: My target is to try and move her to a different place (ie. the bar), get a shot together, have a laugh, and try build some comfort. What you are saying is that your goal is to get the girl on a insta-date. Not sure it is very effective on a night club, most girls wont like the ideia of leaving the club to go to another place. Now, in day-gaming, it is very good. Think he simply meant the bar in the club, just to move on a bit. Thanks though- I'll stay clear of qualifying for now, although it probably could help a bit. Quote: When it comes to kissing girls on a dance-floor, good-looks are more something that enables you to do this, not something which slightly helps... I know plenty of people who prove that wrong so stop thinking like that. Seen some of your other posts and you clearly have these self esteem issues, if so and your not happy with whatever change it. Aim to do one of those cheesy makeovers they do on mystery's show. Then try out the newbie mission, don't expect to f - close from it, just get someone to say hi. I know your aiming to sleep with a hot girl, but try and work your way up instead of having this goal all the way at the top straight away.

Author:	danthedan [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 10:23 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: There is a lot of attraction, but no comfort. It almost feels quite seedy and desperate to take her home without even talking to her. . Agreed - thats the main problem I have. I wouldn't complain if she wanted to go home before even talking but it feels a bit wrong. Quote: Quote: My target is to try and move her to a different place (ie. the bar), get a shot together, have a laugh, and try build some comfort. What you are saying is that your goal is to get the girl on a insta-date. Not sure it is very effective on a night club, most girls wont like the ideia of leaving the club to go to another place. Now, in day-gaming, it is very good. Think he simply meant the bar in the club, just to move on a bit. Thanks though- I'll stay clear of qualifying for now, although it probably could help a bit. Quote: When it comes to kissing girls on a dance-floor, good-looks are more something that enables you to do this, not something which slightly helps... I know plenty of people who prove that wrong so stop thinking like that. Seen some of your other posts and you clearly have these self esteem issues, if so and your not happy with whatever change it. Aim to do one of those cheesy makeovers they do on mystery's show. Then try out the newbie mission, don't expect to f - close from it, just get someone to say hi. I know your aiming to sleep with a hot girl, but try and work your way up instead of having this goal all the way at the top straight away. How do I improve my face though? :S Plastic surgery never works out right.

Author:	OG_Kdub [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 12:11 am ]
Post subject:	Re: Dancefloor game - F closing help
Quote: Basically my question is, how to go from making out on the dance floor to having her back in my room. It sounds like your over thinking things, i f your making out you've already escalated sexually, if it's early in the night maybe you can pull the girl to the bathroom. If it's late in the night ask her if she wants to get out of there. For quick tips you can also check out the lay reports section of this forum. Remember if your goal is to F-close, why the hell are you worried about having a conversation?

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