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Author:  jurupa [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 10:08 am ]
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While this girl seems to be a temp employee, are you willing to loose your job over this girl? That is if you don't own the company. Secondly when it comes to hot girls and their bosses I be very very careful about what their goal is. As this girl may be working an angle here and want a full time or a permanent job with your company and once she gets what she wants she may just cut you off.
Author:  danthedan [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 11:17 am ]
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I'll soon hire 14 girls to be hostesses for a beach party that my company is organizing. One of these girls, and also the first one i hired because of her looks, has been coming onto me very strongly the past few weeks. Me being a good future "boss" ignored this and also explained to her it would pretty much be wrong to be with her and unfair to the other girls.

However she is hot as hell and i have been thinking about being with her a lot lately, not as in a relationship but just as FBs for the sheer fun of it..

REALLY need some opinions on this from you guys, WHAT SHOULD I DO?!
This is not even a question. If a sexy girl ever offers you sex, the answer is always emphatically yes, regardless of who she is! Are you really asking or are you just boasting about how wonderful & perfect your life is? Of course you realise that every single guy at the party will want to fuck that sexy hostess, and most of them will get turned down because they're not sexy/alpha enough, and yet you actually have a chance with her and you're looking a gift horse in the mouth? :S
Author:  danthedan [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 12:21 pm ]
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This is not even a question. If a sexy girl ever offers you sex, the answer is always emphatically yes, regardless of who she is! Are you really asking or are you just boasting about how wonderful & perfect your life is? Of course you realise that every single guy at the party will want to fuck that sexy hostess, and most of them will get turned down because they're not sexy/alpha enough, and yet you actually have a chance with her and you're looking a gift horse in the mouth? :S
Trust me brother im not trying to boast with anything since im really breaking my balls over this one, id do her right now but its just that i have 13 other chicks who she SURELY will do a tell-all about having fucked "the boss" and all that shit. Just not sure if i want that kind of exposure.

Also i've said to 2 of my male employees that the hostesess are not to be touched or there will be disciplinary measures for everyone. Now i have the choice to fuck this insanely hot chick and do myself that favor while at the same time losing face in front of all the people i trust to make that party a success.

Im getting like 5-6 messages a day from this chick on Facebook, she didnt want to sigh her contract at work becase she obviously needed an excuse to come to my home because "she forgot" I blew her off both times but she isnt giving up and im starting to givein to the temptation more and more.
Mate I'd give up my entire career & life just to have a sexy girl passionately in love with me, yet all you're worried about is losing a bit of face. Spoilt brat
Author:  Cointoss [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 12:36 pm ]
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This is not even a question. If a sexy girl ever offers you sex, the answer is always emphatically yes, regardless of who she is! Are you really asking or are you just boasting about how wonderful & perfect your life is? Of course you realise that every single guy at the party will want to fuck that sexy hostess, and most of them will get turned down because they're not sexy/alpha enough, and yet you actually have a chance with her and you're looking a gift horse in the mouth? :S
Trust me brother im not trying to boast with anything since im really breaking my balls over this one, id do her right now but its just that i have 13 other chicks who she SURELY will do a tell-all about having fucked "the boss" and all that shit. Just not sure if i want that kind of exposure.

Also i've said to 2 of my male employees that the hostesess are not to be touched or there will be disciplinary measures for everyone. Now i have the choice to fuck this insanely hot chick and do myself that favor while at the same time losing face in front of all the people i trust to make that party a success.

Im getting like 5-6 messages a day from this chick on Facebook, she didnt want to sigh her contract at work becase she obviously needed an excuse to come to my home because "she forgot" I blew her off both times but she isnt giving up and im starting to givein to the temptation more and more.
Just make a reasonable analysis of the situation and the costs and benefits (een kosten-batenanalyse :D).

You must have a clear idea of the expected outcomes and their probabilities, i.e. how likely is it that everyone will hate you for it (do you care?) and that you will lose money (you care) and how much. You must also consider the fact that there are a lot of pretty girls, that there is a good chance she wants to do you cos she expects something in return (ie she's a filthy whore, but I'm guessing that makes you even more likely to want to do her, at least that would be the case for me lol). So when you've done all that just make a decision, don't doubt. If you doubt or overthink it you're going to make the wrong choice.

Off-topic: Do you need an assistant to help you deal with the hostesses (and stuff)?


Edit: Oh, by the way, keep in mind you can always lie and deny it. I mean, I'm sure other girls have noticed she's after you and she could easily be lieing to protect her image. If she blabs about it, just fire her and say it never happened. Problem solved.
Author:  Cointoss [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 1:35 pm ]
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Yes she is a filthy kut-hoer but a hot one none the less and im sure i could fill her up like a stuffed turkey and she wouldnt mind lol :D
I can't wait until I'm the boss of something with hot chicks...

So basically everyone who you could potentially piss off with this is not only expendable (right?) but they also need you to make their money. Do you know how much shit some people take from their superiors? Banging the hottest chick in the group is a pretty light offense in that spectrum. Not to mention that if she really is that hot I can't imagine that your male employees won't forgive you. However, you can be sure they will be less disciplined (but then again if they wanted to hook up with a hostess real bad they probably would anyway). Just helping you out here placing the costs into perspective.

Furthermore, like I said you can just lie about it. But then again I have no ethics :P

Off-topic: pm sent.
Author:  Stylite [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 1:45 pm ]
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Don't shit where you eat.

Part of being a PUA is knowing there's millions of other girls out there and thousands better than your target.

Be the bigger man and let this one go. No use putting your career in deep water over some lay. Show her and all your workers that you don't need her and it will only make you look better.

- Stylite
Author:  Reo [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:38 pm ]
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Also i've said to 2 of my male employees that the hostesess are not to be touched or there will be disciplinary measures for everyone. Now i have the choice to fuck this insanely hot chick and do myself that favor while at the same time losing face in front of all the people i trust to make that party a success.
Why are your male employees banned from the the girls that's not fair they're not even the girls boss you are. Why even make that rule in the first place other than to throw your weight around or power tripping. Anyhow you're thinking about breaking your own rule bad example. Plus you know this girl is going to talk if you do anything with her.
Author:  Cointoss [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 3:25 pm ]
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The two guys are both management and will be planning and evaluating the girls performances during the parties. This is exactly the reason they cant touch the models because it would impair their judgement like it almost did mine. Hell i even put it in their contracts, no messing around with co-workers :)
Well in that case it's probably best not the best idea.

Nice good concience vs. bad conscience though. I guess good won for now...
Author:  jurupa [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 12:10 am ]
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Mate I'd give up my entire career & life just to have a sexy girl passionately in love with me, yet all you're worried about is losing a bit of face. Spoilt brat
Giving up that much for a girl is the stupidest thing you can do. No girl is worth giving up your life for.
Author:  jurupa [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 12:13 am ]
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Thanks for your post man! My problem is that i DO own the company which makes this an even bigger dilemma ...
Fuck her when the jig is up, problem solved and not hire her again so you can keep on fucking her. Or fire her and fuck her.
Author:  silverito [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 12:23 am ]
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Don't shit where you eat.

Part of being a PUA is knowing there's millions of other girls out there and thousands better than your target.

Be the bigger man and let this one go. No use putting your career in deep water over some lay. Show her and all your workers that you don't need her and it will only make you look better.

- Stylite
Could not have said it better. Hot girl is just hot girl, you don't lose much by not banging one in your life.
Author:  jurupa [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 2:10 am ]
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Thanks for your post man! My problem is that i DO own the company which makes this an even bigger dilemma ...
Fuck her when the jig is up, problem solved and not hire her again so you can keep on fucking her. Or fire her and fuck her.
I love how subtle you are man! :) Nah but the decision is more or less made that im not gonna touch this girl no matter how hot she is. There is just too much at stake and i need reliable people around me who find me to be trustworthy aswell.
Sounds like you be better off firing her or letting this girl go if you need such employee's. As this girl may not stop pursuing you until she has you in bed, which then you be able to do her guilt free and without damaging your business.
Author:  jurupa [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 10:21 pm ]
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lol. Sounds like you have a short window to fuck her. Better take it when you still have a chance too......
Author:  silverito [ Thu Jan 26, 2012 1:59 am ]
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INSTANT UPDATE:

Just got a text from the chick in question asking if she is allowed to leave the project because of the ongoing "situation". I replied that i understand what she means and that if she wants to she can leave without any obligations towards the company. Next reply that came from her:

"I cant believe you are letting me go this easily"

WTF guys?!?! I didnt write anything back because i have no idea what to answer to this...
Why would you even have to answer that?

You already gave your answer in the previous message - yeah you can leave.

Thats it.

I doubt it, but still have very small hope that you did not reply to it.. :)
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Thu Jan 26, 2012 10:48 am ]
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in response to the title question of this thread:

oh so wrong
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