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Author:  max383 [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:50 am ]
Post subject:  ex gf back in the picture after 2years! help!
so my ex an I broke up almost 3 years ago. we were both young when we got together and I started heading out to experience life and she dumped me.. I took it really bad but with time, got over her.
last Easter we got back in contact and slept together once and things went down hill after that however, she called a few months back and apologized for everything and we've been spending at least 3 nights a week together if not more and talk almost everyday via call or texts..
we've slept together and fooled around a few times but now I'm confused about what she wants and this is what I need help with!

when we're out she's always affectionate as am I and she's always putting my arm around her and resting her head on my shoulder, tellin me that i love her and i want her etc.
we recently spent a night out in a hotel room and had a few drinks when she decided to open up and tell me how I was the only bf she ever had that she loved, I was always the nicest to her, I always treated her right, she loves me so much and so on....
when I told her the next day I asked her if she remembered what she said and she played dumb and i told her i cam have her if i want (being cocky) then later that night said "disregard what I said, this is only sex"
I dropped her home and she called after 1am saying she felt a bit emotional and wanted a chat...
I'm confused as to what she may want and I don't want to make a fool of myself telling her that I'd consider a relationship with her.. any help/advice would be much appreciated
Author:  EddieFews [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 2:59 am ]
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You mean to tell me that after 3 years your still considering going back in time to relive something that you already lived?

You have you not grown or improved as a person? Are you not a better man now than you were 3 years ago? Do you not have more knowledge and experience?

If you answered yes to at least one of those questions, why on earth would you go back to someone you had when you were less of the man that you are now?
Author:  EdinD [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 3:07 am ]
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^ Well said, I was once in the same situation, took me a long time to get over my old girlfriend, with time it happened, we got back together, I realized I lived it, got over her and we didn't belong, go out there and live your life, go out and meet new women, "That ship has sailed."
Author:  max383 [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 3:27 am ]
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yea of course I have.. I've met heaps of women since her but I can't say I've really clicked with any like I have her.. I'm looking at it as we were 17/18 when we got together and lasted 3.5 years, we both went out and lived our lives now we're both ready for somethin but I'm not sure if the signs I'm seeing are leading to that.. appreciate your advice boys
Author:  waty19 [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 4:11 am ]
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I'd just look at it like this:

She dumped you thinking she could do better. She went out and explored and didn't find what she was looking for. Your the fall back plan because she is lonely and her clock is ticking... She might be afraid of being single for the rest of her life and your better than nothing. She wants you.. but doesn't want you. That's why she get lovey dovey with you at times and then when she feels she might have you.. she cuts the emotion by just saying its about sex. Take it for what it is. No telling what she's going to say. Women are nuts at times. Just keep pulling numbers and keeping you options open in case this ship sails sooner then expected.
Author:  max383 [ Mon Jan 23, 2012 5:40 am ]
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shit, I never thought of that! I guess I can't rule that one out
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