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Author:  temskron [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 7:31 pm ]
Post subject:  How to give her big emotsional states?

Any ideas?

Author:  permisQus [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 7:40 pm ]
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I just want to say be careful. Emotional states are very powerful. Anger and passion are very intertwined. It is difficult, but absolutely nessesary to stay in complete control here. Also make sure you are not going around making psycos out of innocent girls. Always leave them better off mentaly than you found them.

Caution my friend.

Author:  Defy [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 8:00 pm ]
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I like pissing girls off early on in the interaction. It's fun for me, I get to screen her and see if she's cool, and if she is, we both have so much fun later on.

This is not so much about what you can say, but more about holding your frame. Terms from community that fit in here are push-pull, punishing and rewarding her behavior, seeing if she jumps through your hoops... Also stating something that can be interpreted as both good and bad and letting her project and calling her out on that.

As for what the guy above says about being careful with this. Yes, this is not something we are born with. This is something you learn by messing up hundreds of times. But who cares, push yourself and do this.

Author:  temskron [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 8:06 pm ]
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I've been working on push and pulls and rewarding lately. Hasn't worked out yet, but Ill keep trying, but what you mean about stateing something that is good or bad.

Author:  Defy [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 8:13 pm ]
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I've been working on push and pulls and rewarding lately. Hasn't worked out yet, but Ill keep trying, but what you mean about stateing something that is good or bad.
I can think of this two set I had, and can't really remember what I told them, but I do remember that it was something about them, and it could be interpreted as both good and bad. And one thought that was a compliment and the other on thought that was an insult. And I stared laughing and told them "Perception is projection" and teased them a bit more...

But honestly, this is all calibration and finding out what works for you. There are some push pull routines that looked great on paper, but I could never make them work. So, try out new things, and this will fall in place one day.

Best of luck,
Defy

Author:  Defy [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 8:24 pm ]
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As for NLP model of putting someone in a certain state, if I can remember correctly it goes something like "Can you think of a time when you felt really ..." And you go from there. This is some serious shit and fucking creepy btw, and you really don't need this to game girls.

Author:  papichulo818 [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 8:26 pm ]
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This is just a bad idea.

Author:  Defy [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 8:30 pm ]
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Papi,

I would really like to go out with you, see you in action, talk about it, and maybe then I would understand where what you're saying is coming from.

Author:  temskron [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 8:30 pm ]
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I didn't had any NLP in my mind. I know that NLP can be quite tough and I don't wanna put some random girls into hight emotsional states. I want my gf to feel them. 1st time when I did cube to her. I think that worked out quite well, but I can't do cube every time I want high emotsional states on my gf.

Author:  danthedan [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 9:44 pm ]
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I've been working on push and pulls and rewarding lately. Hasn't worked out yet, but Ill keep trying, but what you mean about stateing something that is good or bad.
Please be very aware of what you are getting yourself into. Emotions and emotional states are very powerful and not intended to be fucked around with. My friend who is a very skilled NLP PUA had girls sleeping outside his appartment and in the elevator because of strong emotional states. He has npw stopped gaming and sarging because of it. Be careful!
Lucky bastard. They deserve it for being so damn snobby about who they sleep with. Maybe if they'd be friendlier and not be so snooty about guys' social status then guys wouldn't have to use these kinds of mind tricks on them!

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