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Author:  Fantazia [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 11:50 am ]
Post subject:  Was that an insult or a compliment? :D
So I've been gameing many girls and at some point, they say, that I look gay.. :D
Everyone who knows me knows that im the manliest man they'll ever meet, but I like keeping myself tidy.. no insanity, no make-up or nail polish or glitter or anything.. :D So do they mean that as i'm really good-looking ?
Author:  Danage [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 4:20 pm ]
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In my opinion if your constantly getting the 'you look gay' comment you may want to look at your attire. I mean you could respond with 'By that I take it you mean I dress well' or words to that effect but if it keeps happening look at what your wearing and how you carry yourself e.g. how you walk, drink your drink, hand gestures and your clothes. If your going out with a bright pink shirt on a flared trousers of course they're going to think that.

Hope i've helped...
Author:  papichulo818 [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 4:39 pm ]
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Not a compliment, Sir.
Author:  EddieFews [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 4:39 pm ]
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I disagree with all of these guys, I don't think you should give a fuck enough to check out any part of you. Fuck them... Literally, fuck them and let them call you gay then.

If you start questioning you attire and what you have on and why or how you look gay your going to lose your frame instantly. Take it as a compliment, who cares what they're intentions are, say "thank you" and continue gaming. I promise you'll get laid more. Every thing a girl your meeting for the 1st or 2nd time says is a joke anyway, don't ever, ever , ever allow a women to make you feel like you should question yourself in anyway..

What are you going to do, buy a whole new wardrobe just so you don't get called fay? Fuck no :)
Author:  papichulo818 [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 4:51 pm ]
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Oh come on Fuze that just plain wrong, if the dude is getting called gay by girls hes not doing something right. Personal Improvement is the key.
I agree. If the guy had a serial killer haircut, and was told so by those around him, he'd be well served to change that Do so as to attract more members of the opposite sex. Some guys on here have a bit too much of "fuck what everyone else thinks" attitude, yet the irony is they care more than the next guy but are feigning as though they don't.
Author:  EddieFews [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 5:11 pm ]
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I have to disagree again, I have pulled chicks in pajama pants and I have pulled chicks in suits. I have slept with girls that told me " get away your creepy"... Why should he care what a woman feels about the way he looks? I honestly don't understand that. No one is perfect and your always going to look like something... People will always have something to say, your either too fat, too skinny, to muscular, too masculine, too ghetto, too big, too small... WHens the last time someone told you that you were perfect? If you seek to change yourself everyone someone makes a comment about you, you will NEVER get to know who you are. Keep getting to know what other people think you are and you will be unhappy for the rest of your life..

P.S. Russle brand looks gay as shit, I don't see that stopping him.
Author:  papichulo818 [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 5:21 pm ]
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I have to disagree again, I have pulled chicks in pajama pants and I have pulled chicks in suits. I have slept with girls that told me " get away your creepy"... Why should he care what a woman feels about the way he looks? I honestly don't understand that. No one is perfect and your always going to look like something... People will always have something to say, your either too fat, too skinny, to muscular, too masculine, too ghetto, too big, too small... WHens the last time someone told you that you were perfect? If you seek to change yourself everyone someone makes a comment about you, you will NEVER get to know who you are. Keep getting to know what other people think you are and you will be unhappy for the rest of your life..

P.S. Russle brand looks gay as shit, I don't see that stopping him.
Simple in-group/out-group dynamics. Yes, you don't want to simply go with the tide of whatever is popular at any given point in time, but you also don't want to lie outside the norm and be deemed as strange, odd, or a freak. Sure this is a judgment call but if you want to attract the widest variety of mates, it'd serve to your best interest to remain somewhere in between these 2 extremes.
Author:  EddieFews [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 5:26 pm ]
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If i ask you what color green is and 50 ppl say its green while you say its purple do you think it makes everyone else think its purple too? Hardly.

Point? If more than 5-10 girls think the dude looks gay, he looks gay and needs a style update no matter what he himself thinks of it. Sure there might be pullable chicks with the same style but he has a greater chance when improving.

Nothing is ever perfect and non-improveable no matter how huge the ego is.
My point is, I don't think that him looking gay is stopping him from picking up girls, I have plenty of metro sexual friends that pull some really good pussy. Who cares if he looks gay, that will not determine wether he gets laid or not I promise you that. As long as a man smells good and is well groomed clothing will not stop him from getting laid.

Also women love gay guys, it subconsciously allows him to bypass some of there defenses which in fact makes it easier from him to get laid than it would for you if he game is on point
Author:  Fantazia [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 5:29 pm ]
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thanks for the replies guys, I don't mind anyone saying that and of course i've even thanked them for it:D Well about how I look.. I wear a black coat, a gray/black scarf, gloves that match the scarf, loose pants( like cool ghetto pants, dunno how to describe), and boots. My hair is combed, my eyes are said to be beautiful, and overall there aren't many women that haven't called me cute etc. I have only 1 pink shirt and I don't remember when i last wore it :D And my posture is perfect :p And I'm 196cm tall if it matters.. :D
Author:  Fantazia [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 5:34 pm ]
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I repeat, I'm very manly :D I don't act gay:D For all I know, I look manly, not just kind of filthy way :D I have no freakin idea why they have said that I'm gay. Maby It's because all the women I meet love talking to me and I can see things from theyre point of view.. I have no idea:D
Author:  Fantazia [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 5:37 pm ]
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I'll try to post a picture here someday, then u can comment wtf looks gay about me:D
Author:  Envying [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 5:37 pm ]
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I think it's almost like a girl's version of a neg, used on you. Just like normal negs, it isn't meant to be a compliment or an insult.
Author:  EddieFews [ Sun Jan 22, 2012 5:59 pm ]
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No man but if you feel like you got game the way it is then change is useless. Just go with what feels best!
Thats so not what I said in my first post :)
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