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Author:  ShootME [ Thu Jan 19, 2012 4:04 am ]
Post subject:  Help on 1st Date!
Well i recently started talking to this HB9 in Highschool and everyone has told me she diggs me and shit but i suck at talking English and i find it very hard starting a conversation with here :/ So i decided to invite her to a date on Sat and i found out what she likes so im taking her there :) im just scared i might run out of stuff to say and it will be akward this is actually my first date -.- lol so i decided to change this also can someone show me a way i can get to kiss her? like a move or something and some fun topics in which i can develope a great conversation. If i told her i was nervous because of her would everything get ruined?? i really just want to mess around with her and come up with the excuse of me leaving to college in 5 months so idk if anyone can help me or give me tips please do so :D Flowers a good thing or nah??
Author:  detox75 [ Thu Jan 19, 2012 4:10 am ]
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If she is attracted to you already make her comply and facilitate you. Don't worry about your language skills, just own your crappy English and expect her to try hard to build rapport.

If you are trying to use language as your main attraction amplifier after you have already hooked, your frame is incorrect.
Author:  Call_Me_X [ Thu Jan 19, 2012 6:23 am ]
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Here are the stuff I suggest you talk about:
Roleplaying: "(if you are driving) you know, I feel like a taxi driver, so imagine I'm a taxi driver and you just got in my car..." make up shit.
Make belief: "If I had super powers, I..." make up something funny
Time distortion: "imagine we have known each other for 6 months...."
Story about how you met someone: "So I met this guy... ... and he became my best friend"
Story about helping someone: "I have a friend who was suffering..."
make up stories about random people: "see that guy over there, he's totally hitting on that girl and the girl is getting creeped out."
if you run out of stuff to say, talk about imaginary things and you guys can just imagine together and that way the conversation is not always one sided.

As for going for the kiss, don't kiss if you feel like it's awkward. sit next to her and hold her hands. say something like "give me your hands, I want to tell you something." pick a value demonstrating story and tell the story as slowly as you can and put in the loooooooooooong pause and if it feels right, then kiss, if not then release the hands and go use the bathroom.
Author:  detox75 [ Thu Jan 19, 2012 7:15 am ]
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Bro I didn't even see the flower thing until now.

No on the flowers ever, until shes your girlfriend. Are you trying to buy her affection? Way too try hard
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