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| Author: | pocket_rockets [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 10:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | girl texting me after ignoring me five times in a row..weird |
I met a girl in like November and got her number. First impression was not solid. I texted her maybe four times and called her once over a period of like two weeks to try to get a chance to see her again. No reply at all. Fuck this. Delete. Last week I get a text from an unknown number saying something like "ooooh I just realized I met you from blah blah before a long time ago". I text back asking who it is and it's her. WTF really?! Why would I even be on her mind if she's completely ignoring me? Why is my number still in her phone? We text a little more, and I make sure she's the one to send the last text. Then yesterday I text her and she's back to ignoring me. Has anything like this ever happened? This is just bizarre. Would it have been smarter to just ignore her back after she identified herself or at least wait a looooong time before texting back? |
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| Author: | papichulo818 [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 10:53 pm ] |
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Could be many reasons, but I'd bet dollars to donuts she's just in an attention lull (not getting enough attention from dudes) and is trying to buttress her ego by messaging guys she know will bite and give her the attention she needs. Attention is like a fuel gauge, sometimes it's running low for whatever reason and we need a bit of 'fuel'; women do this all the time, keeping guys at bay just to make them feel attractive again. |
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| Author: | Lamont [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 10:59 pm ] |
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This is happening to me aswell. Met a HB at the clubs and now if I text she wont reply if she texts and i reply she'l send a couple messages then won't text back. This is attention seeking. So I don't text her and let her text me. This way I don't have play her silly games |
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| Author: | 0uch [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 11:10 pm ] |
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You know she could just be busy and have shit going. |
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| Author: | Lamont [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 11:39 pm ] |
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LOL yes, that's why I wouldnt suggest texting 4 times because that comes across as being creepy and needy. Just send 1 text leave it at that. If she ignores it, then move on to the next one. |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Thu Jan 19, 2012 12:11 am ] |
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Quote: You know she could just be busy and have shit going.
Nope not in this case..She just wanted some attention for wutver reason. Don't blame her though, you were obvious boring to her over the text messages or she wouldn't be reacting this way. Learn text game, take responsibility. |
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| Author: | papichulo818 [ Thu Jan 19, 2012 12:39 am ] |
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Quote: Could be many reasons, but I'd bet dollars to donuts she's just in an attention lull (not getting enough attention from dudes) and is trying to buttress her ego by messaging guys she know will bite and give her the attention she needs. Attention is like a fuel gauge, sometimes it's running low for whatever reason and we need a bit of 'fuel'; women do this all the time, keeping guys at bay just to make them feel attractive again.
^I said it best right here. Yes, I am bumping my own shit. Yes, I am a narcissist:)
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| Author: | wingintyme [ Thu Jan 19, 2012 1:57 am ] |
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they do that all the time. |
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| Author: | wingintyme [ Thu Jan 19, 2012 2:04 am ] |
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they do that all the time. |
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| Author: | pocket_rockets [ Thu Jan 19, 2012 6:02 am ] |
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Quote: LOL yes, that's why I wouldnt suggest texting 4 times because that comes across as being creepy and needy. Just send 1 text leave it at that.
It was over a period of about two weeks. I was being persistent. I thought persistence done in a clever, non-needy way is an attractive quality.
If she ignores it, then move on to the next one. |
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| Author: | akita [ Thu Jan 19, 2012 1:17 pm ] |
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just like they said just looking for an ego boost best way to go about this is go the meetup straight away no point trying to build the trap over time. also can be they are fucked off with their bf and looking for the i can still getem messages dont give them an ego boost unless they are willing to meet u and they are at a low point so can be a good time to get them |
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| Author: | Chris2k10 [ Fri Jan 20, 2012 1:02 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: You know she could just be busy and have shit going.
Nope not in this case..She just wanted some attention for wutver reason. Don't blame her though, you were obvious boring to her over the text messages or she wouldn't be reacting this way. Learn text game, take responsibility. You: Are you ticklish? Her: yeah You: ..Do you like good tickles or bad tickles... You: When I saw you today in class I felt like wanting to eat you out on that table You: I wanna do some innocent things to you You: What is your bra size? You: What is your favorite sex position? Her: I like to be underneath. You: Ah I see..at first you looked like you'd enjoy getting fucked doggy Now she actually has a male with a dick to be interested in. Profit. |
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| Author: | papichulo818 [ Fri Jan 20, 2012 2:14 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: Quote: You know she could just be busy and have shit going.
Nope not in this case..She just wanted some attention for wutver reason. Don't blame her though, you were obvious boring to her over the text messages or she wouldn't be reacting this way. Learn text game, take responsibility. You: Are you ticklish? Her: yeah You: ..Do you like good tickles or bad tickles... You: When I saw you today in class I felt like wanting to eat you out on that table You: I wanna do some innocent things to you You: What is your bra size? You: What is your favorite sex position? Her: I like to be underneath. You: Ah I see..at first you looked like you'd enjoy getting fucked doggy Now she actually has a male with a dick to be interested in. Profit. |
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| Author: | pocket_rockets [ Fri Jan 20, 2012 6:44 am ] |
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By text game, Fuze is referring to sexting. So stop being a balless fuck trying to make her laugh with your jokes and wit. Instead do this (example):
Try that this weekend and tell us how it goes.
You: Are you ticklish? Her: yeah You: ..Do you like good tickles or bad tickles... You: When I saw you today in class I felt like wanting to eat you out on that table You: I wanna do some innocent things to you You: What is your bra size? You: What is your favorite sex position? Her: I like to be underneath. You: Ah I see..at first you looked like you'd enjoy getting fucked doggy Now she actually has a male with a dick to be interested in. Profit. |
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| Author: | Lamont [ Fri Jan 20, 2012 7:06 am ] |
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When I number close at a club I always will text once later that night saying something about what you both talked about or did that night. Then maybe a couple days later text again, and if she doesn't reply then I don't worry about it. |
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