| PUA Forum https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| How differently do you approach poss GF vs FB https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=126196 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | cunning_stunt [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 7:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How differently do you approach poss GF vs FB |
Just wanted to know how differently you would treat someone you just wanted to fuck against a girl you actually thought you want for the long term.. Do you still try and K or F close a potential GF on the first night? etc.. |
|
| Author: | SmoothOp [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 7:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Shit! Very interesting question... I would say wait but I really don't have any legit reasons behind it. I do lose interest in a girl fast if we have sex on 1st/2nd date, but I have never had negative emotions of their part. |
|
| Author: | LocoPuaBr [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 7:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
I disagree with SmoothOp. Waiting is what all the other guys out there would do. We are different (and she would probably start thinking: "what is going on, i thought we had something). Treat her as you would treat a girl you only want to F close(this way you can more easily avoid being friendzoned) , and if she turns out to be interesting all the best. |
|
| Author: | cunning_stunt [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 7:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
Its a weird one because I hear guys on the forum talk of finding a girl in a club, kissing her within 30 mins and then taking them home and fucking them at the end of the night. Thats great and all that... but would you marry a girl who would do that?.. What if you did marry her and 2 years into the relationship, things werent going well, she goes to a bar with some friends - meets a guy and fucks him that night aswell?.. is that paranoid or realistic?.. what do you look out for in a girl to avoid? |
|
| Author: | P-Style [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 8:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
It probably won't be the first time you've kissed a girl within minutes or less and fucked her later on that night. The same will go for her. Does it mean you are totally unreliable? A girl that wants to cheat will cheat and someone who doesn't won't. Plain simple. |
|
| Author: | LocoPuaBr [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 9:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
P-Style just said it all. She might not be hard to get, but that doesn't mean she is not what people call gf-material (even tough, imo, such a thing does not exist) . Especially in night-game, a quick close is not unusual. |
|
| Author: | Warped Mindless [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 11:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
I do the same with all women. However, if I find that a woman is really cool and I want to keep her around, I'll still sleep with her asap. The next day I call her and go out for coffee or something. From there just start hanging out with her. |
|
| Author: | om3n [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 11:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | |
I sleep with them ASAP because it feels great and it also changes the dynamic a lot. Anyway, you can see different patterns in every girls' behaviour which help you to determine if this particular one is going to be a fb or if she deserves more. |
|
| Author: | EddieFews [ Thu Jan 19, 2012 12:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | |
I always suggest, getting her to the point of sex and then saying something like, "no, im gonna wait" if your about to bang a potential MLTR on the first night just because it will help her perception of you in the long run. A girls going to act the way you treat her, if you treat her like your typical random one night stand thats what she will see herself as to you. |
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|