These are my notes on seduction. I decided to share them, may be someone will find them interesting.
Why do women reject?
Rejection is basically a provocation. When she rejects you she throws you a provocation, she throws you a dare, and she is hoping that you will accept it and will start doing something.
Men don't like rejections and prefer not to do anything because they don't like being hurt. Better I don't do anything but at least I won't get hurt. And you don't see what is really happening. She is throwing you a dare and you are always declining it.
It's like a duel where she is throwing you a challenge and the only way to preserve your dignity is to accept it.
Women reject men to build their world with your hands.
I have never met a woman that said "yes" when it's the first sex. She will never say "yes" if it's first time. That is the reality of it.
Women look pretty, make up, fashion, plastic surgeons to attract and reject. To build their world with your hands. Women attract and reject, that is what they do for living. Because she knows that if she gives you sex, all the restaurants, drinks, movies, all of it will finish.
Gold digger is a wrong expression. She is not a gold digger. You are a gold digger. You are digging gold for her.
Woman is your enemy. They are not on our side.
FUN WAY TO REJECT A GUY (for girls) Theses are some fun rejections I got from girls. Others were just boring so no point even talking about them.
1.Tell them what a great person they are but they are just not your type.
2.Say "You already talked to me". A girl once said to me 'You already talked to me 4 times'
3."I wish I could give it to you"
4.Can I have your number? "Yes you can, and run away.
"5.Give a number of a radiostation like spin.
6.'It's 9'
7.'08522toogoodforyou'
8.Give a number with the last digit empty. Say 'I want you to guess the last digit'
9."I have a husband and ten kids."
10.guy-WhAts ur number? she-Number 1
11.'08never'
There are obviously way more other ways to reject a guy, the most important rule is to keep it fun. Just because he asks you for a number, doesn't mean that he even want it. It's not about the number, it's about fun.
How to get laid?
a guy-how do i get laid?
me-if you think how to get laid, probably you never will get laid. When you think about sex, your effectiveness falls by 80%. Your goal should be good mood, playful mood.
I do not help men get laid. This is what I do not do. right now anyway. There are more interesting things in life than sex. For example to experience emotions here and now. This is way more interesting to to feel emotions.
Emotions
What kid of emotions can you give a girl?
TOUCH: Touching does not mean touching in a localised areas of a body. Touch receptors are found throught the body. Including private areas. Sex is touching. Massage is touching. Kissing is touching, dance is touching. You need to touch a girl a lot to give her this emotion. I am very touch person myself.
HUMOR: Laughter, joke-it's all from the same field.
WHAT IS THE OUTCOME OF TRYING TO PLEASE A WOMAN?
When you do what she likes, she looses interest in you. Women will deny everything, they will deny with the sweat on her face, cross it out a thousand of times. But when it comes to reality it is the way I describe in my notes. It's a reality, hand on experience knowledge from reality, not what she said. Never listen to women by the way. So much rubbish they say. Wanna live peacefully, don't listen. Get ear plugs. Not really but you get the idea. And do what you like.
I say to a gilr. Men say-give sex, give sex. Women say-give money, give money. And everybody lost. Start playing. And she told me "hello I am for sex" whereas the same girl said to me when we were in bed "Do not abuse my good will"
Reality and what she said are two opposite things. The only way to know women is to actuall hand on experience. Women will bullshit you like there is not tomorrow. But reality is the best source of information.
SOME FUNNY OPENERS
Well in general any question is an opener.
What is your favourite movie? She says what it is and you say. Do you want to watch it with me? You close by asking her number.
HOW TO GET HER DIGITS?
Here are a few fun ways to ask a girl her number. This list should give you an idea to start approaching on your own, and what direction to go.
1.Excuse me. I am looking for directions to your phone number - initiate question in a way that people ask regularly every day.
2.Are you American? Yes-give me your digits No-then give me your number
3.Pa-pa-pa And you point down You look beautiful, what's your phone number
4.Point at something she has You have a bag. What's your number?
5.Silent and point to phone
6.(even more direct) I am looking for your number.
7.Can you try this for me? And give her the women's clothes. (In a store)
8.Can I get cashback and your phone number (at the groceries store)
9.Excuse me miss. I really like you. Can I get your phone number? -No. (then you say)Can we have sex now?
10.Excuse me miss. Is it how you spell can I have your phone number? (Point to phone where you wrote that)
11.Can I ask you a question? What's your phone number?
12.Ask a girl -Why are you looking at me, as if you want to give me your phone number?
13.Is this the bus stop to your phone number? Ask a girl that is at bus stop. Does this bus/luas go to your phone number?
14.Girl is standing with flowers in hand. -Oh its for me? You shouldn't have. What's your phone number?
15.In Trinity College Dublin. -Is this What is your Phone number College?
16.What's you phone number? -It's 08... -You have a very good memory.
17.'Give me one reason why I should give you' -because you are afraid (she laughs)
18.What is your phone number Cristina? (Digits show)
19.Can you give us a lift to your phone number? (a girl in a car)
20.Is this like the closest way to ur ph number or something?
21.Show the phone and say -Is this the quickest way to your phone number?
22.-You know what you can try? You can try giving me your phone number. (In a clothes shop)
23.-Do you sell ur phone number? Do you sell phone numbers of other people? (To a staff girl.)
24.-Can I buy this pen and your phone number? (In a shop)
25.Just letting you know that you look very pretty and what is your phone number?
26.Notice anything interesting about a girl and ask her "does it come with your phone number". For me it is usually something that is sexy on her such as lipstick, sexy stockings, tan. -Does your lipstick come with your phone number? (She was wearing a very sexy red colour lipstick on The Script concert in Avia stadium)
27.A girl asks your name. Or any other question. And you say -You want my phone number? Say, as if that is what you heard. Also say it and with body language and face as if you are surprised and shocked and that it is highly innaproppriate of her. (Girlfriend of neill straus)
28.I need female opinion on what's your phone number.
29.Get underwear and say -Can you try this for my girlfriend? (In a store)
30.What is the password to your phone number?
31."Guess what" opener. After she sais 'what' "I want your phone number"
This is fun too http://www.digitsshow.com/
APPROACHING A GIRL
Your mood should be playful. It is a game. She and her surrounding people will always try to get you serious. Always. There is not point being logical and trying to find out something. It is not a debate like in Trinity College debating society. It's way more simple and way more fun. Playful mood and no logic. If you do not want to play go do something else for a while. Be playful, be in playful mood, give her emotions. Because on emotions she will do a lot of irrational and not logic things. She will give you 100 reasons why she did something. And she will give you 100 reasons why she didn't. All she does is finding answers to what has happened. But why she did it she can never know, otherwise we would always know what will happen in our day. Women will never say that on emotions they will do a lot of irrational and non logical things.
Here are a few tips on how to draw a girl in playing with you. These are the basics of talking to a girl. This will be enough for most approaches.
1 inititate the contact. It can be anything. The contact is initiated when she is looking at you.
2 open the girl. The conversation is opened when she is answering your question. So any question is an opener.
3 intrigue. The girl is intrigued when she is asking your questions, when is wants to find out something, when she finds you interesting. Don't give her all the answers, keep her guessing. Anser to questions with the yes and no meaning. such as "may be i did" or say "no" and wink your eye. So she will never know which is which.
4 close the conversation. conversation is closed, when ended. I susally close conversation by "give me your phone number". I would hold a phone in my hand when i ask that, and i would indicate with my body language that I am about to write it down.
WHY DO MEN CHEAT?
We cheat because we do not give birth.
The best way to stop your guy from cheating is to say, cheat all you want. If you will stop him from cheating his interest to cheating will grow and he will cheat eventually very often. He will cheat way more often if you stop him from cheating.
SEDUCTION
Seduction is a game. You need to play. Your mood needs to be playful.
You only want sex-she is not interested. You only want money-he is not interested.
Women say-give me money, money. And men say-give me sex, sex. Everybody lost. Everyone is a loser with a big L over their head. Everyone is thinking this way, give me what I want so I can be happy and forget about playing. And everybody lost. Everyone is trying to use eachother, but nobody wants to play. And you are loosing a lot in life.
If you are not enjoying the game, then you are a looser. Once you took something serious-you lost.
The best seducers are those that play and enjoy the process more.
Seduction is like a game with an opponent, like boxing or any other type of sport like karate.
It's a game, start playing.
What is seduction? Some people call it pick up.
But all it is is a game, game between a woman and a man. It is like boxing with an opponent.
She will never start playing with you if she didn't consider you a worthy opponent. She is hoping that you win her, so hoping! She is playing with you to find a worthy opponent in you.
Your job is to draw her in playing with you. You are the casino and she is the client.
And women play with men really just for one reason, it's to experience emotions.
Here are a few tips on how to draw a girl in playing with you. These are the basics of talking to a girl. This will be enough for most approaches.
1 inititate the contact. It can be anything. The contact is initiated when she is looking at you.
2 open the girl. The conversation is opened when she is answering your question. So any question is an opener.
3 intrigue. The girl is intrigued when she is asking your questions, when is wants to find out something, when she finds you interesting. Don't give her all the answers, keep her guessing. Anser to questions with the yes and no meaning. such as "may be i did" or say "no" and wink your eye. So she will never know which is which.
4 close the conversation. conversation is closed, when ended. I susally close conversation by "give me your phone number". I would hold a phone in my hand when i ask that, and i would indicate with my body language that I am about to write it down.
ALPHA MALE-CRAPTA MALE
It is true that a man is a dominant one in a game. If she is cooler than you, she is not interested. But it is not true that women want alpha male. I still don't know what is alpha male. I am starting to think that this is just men trying to solve their own problems with their personality and ego.
Women are attracted to guys that are playful, not overly serious. You can approach a girl playfully and say i am alpha male, gizz you digits. But it's only for fun.
Girls are actually scared if they find out that you are alpha male. They just want a decent guy. Girls don't want a guy with that arbitrary label alpha male.
Don't forget that you are a man. You want sex and it is normal. You are young, and it's inching in your underwear and you cannot do anyting about it righ? Do not feel ashamed about it.
Women like sex more than men. It's just that at the beginning she is testing you whether you have strong genes for her baby. But when you have sex and you are in relationship, usually women never stop begging men for sex. They usually also reject at the begining to make it harder for men to get sex, so that we would be a little bit loyal. That is to do with the biology of women. If men were giving birth, we would behave the same way as women.
Women say "all men want is sex". Just say, yes, we do. Think with your head, what else do we want? It really doesn't matter what she says. You can as a general rule, just ignore whatever you don't like she say as if you didn't hear it. And keep doing what you want. Girls like bad guys.
GAME
Communication between man and a woman is a game. Start playing. Stop wanting sex/money. Sex and money is never enough. Stop wanting it. Start playing. If you do not play, you loose. If none of you playing, you both loose.
Life is a game. Instead of thinking how to get what you want so that I will be happy and forget about playing, START PLAYING.
You are her toy. A baby is playing with a toy for one reason, to experience emotions. Be her toy, when she plays with you she should experience emotions, you need to give her emotions when she is playing with you or she will stop playing with you.
You win not when you have sex with her. You win when she started playing with you. Essentially she looses when you pull her in the game with yourself. From the very beginning she lets you to get in her brain.
I do not need sex. I need her as she is entirely with her brain and her body.
Never take women seriously. It's a game, remember? People that take everything serious loose a lot in life. If I took serious everything women say I would have lost my mind a long time ago. Never listen to women, only hear them. Her body will tell you what she really want and is not telling you.
Women say they don't like something so that you didn't know that she likes it. And they say that they like something so that you didn't know that she doesn't like it. Feel her body, it's your measure point. Her body is obvious. Whereas her brain is a black box at the very beginning. Leave that job for psychologists. What she tells you is usually from the field of morality. And morality is sometimes agains you. Women have different morality to men. It's just that we take on morality of women because our mother taught us to be "good". So we evolved to listen to women and take on their morality.
Everyone is trying to use eachother but nobody wants to play. Women-give money, give money. Men-sex, sex. Everybody lost.
She will never start playing with you if she does not consider you a worthy opponent. And she is hoping that you win her.
LOVE
Love is attachment to one person. Even to objects. It is focus on one target. Love exists to improve quality of life for children. It is important to love women. She should see love in your eyes even when you slap her ass hard. If you do not, nothing is going to help you.
How to make her love you?
-ask him/her to give you presents, anything, do something for you
-ask her/him to tell you how she feels about you. The more he/she feels for you the more she/he love you.
-do something that will make them think of you. send sms and say "i have a good news, tell you later when home" she will think of you. Give present that they will use a lot.
Give she
Love on average in a man lasts 7-9 months. After that we become attached via morality. And emotions if she gives you any.
Love is the most important in relationship. If the is no love, then nothing else is going to help you. None of the techniques, none of the books will be of any help.
Fist comes love. Love the person, love the woman. Two-your moood should be playful. You need to play. And in order to play your mood needs to be playful. If your mood is not playful then you lost. It is easy to talk about beling playful. But how to be playful? The secret lies not in your head, but in moving your body. Start moving your body and you become playful, like dancing at music. Like kids, the do not think how to be playful, they just move. And three-give emotions. Your emotions are good, they are important for you. But when it comes to another person, a woman, it's about their emotions. You need to give her emotions.
When I tell girls that I am playing with them. They often get ofended. They say something like this-"so you are only playing. It is not serious for you." nearly say that I don't care about her. This is because she thinks you don't love her. She just needs to feel that you love her. Often women also say that they want a guy to be natural, and that they do not like pua. This is for the same reason. I am suspecting that this is because women do not feel that men love them. Playing is important, but love comes fist!
Women sometimes say I do not want to be manipulative. They say that pua is manipulative. But all you are trying to do is to be with the person you love. Why is that a crime?
When you slap her ass hard and push her around, she needs to see love in your eyes.
Also if you want your kids to be successful in life and positive about life, you need to love your kids! It is very important. If there is not love, not all the money in the world are going to help you.
I realised that what really makes a doctor a good doctor it is really love for people. People are foccusing too much on the points, marks and money. This is least important. If a doctor does not love people, nothing is going to help them. Patients will feel that doctor does not love them. I really feel concerned about the medicine. In my medical class I really did not feel that students loved the people. Honestly I didn't. Regardless, our teachers that prepared us to medical school didn't teach us to love people. What makes a good doctor is love for people.
Here is an exersize: write down a list of people that you think love you. And a list of people that you love.
HOW TO MAKE A GIRL INTERESTED IN YOU If she is not
Why do women talk to men? You think it's money? But it's not. Read..
Give a emotions. Women talk to men really just for one reason. It is to experience emotions.
When you see a girl you like, you for some reason think that she feels the same to you. Your feeling are yours. They are important but only for you. When it comes to other people, women, it's about their emotions. You really need to give her emotions.
Emotions:
music
taste
smell
visual
Being an asshole provokes women and gives them emotions. Even though they say they hate assholes, they still like them because they give them emotions. They do not do what they say. They are not controllable, therefore emotionally give emotions than everyother guy that does it "right". The guy that does it right gives not emotions.
surprises. It has a moment of questioning. It makes her ask herself questions, think of you, experience emotions.
touch
sex
As you can see there is a range of emotions you can give women. And if you do not you then you look a bit gray to her. The more emotions you give her, the more she will notice you from other men.
Same goes to women. Give him emotions.
Sometimes people may call you crazy applying these techniques. It's not about doing it normal, pretty, or beautiful. It's about does it work? Is it effective from the point of view of seduction? Never substitute effectiveness with prettiness.
A lot of things are pretty but not effective. Like buying a new car won't make you rich. Sure it looks pretty but will it make you rich? It will make you poor. Same with seduction. Buying flowers and expensive wine is beautiful but is not effective.
I've made some beautiful presents and got kick in balls and crying girl. Forget about what's normal, acceptable, pretty. Girls like unusual men. Think effective? No?-throw in bin.
Girls often say 'pua is bullshit. I want a guy to be natural' And I say "Ok, then I have a fair proposition, stop using make up. I want a girl to be fucking natural. With no make up-fake up" Not gonna happen, so not gonna stop. Women use pua from birth And we men don't even notice.
Women say 'u r abscesses with pua'
"It's my hobby. Everyone has hobbies. This is mine"
General rule, what women say is probably a lie. And they ask us not to lie to them. It's a never ending war between men and women. There is no fair, there is only effective or not effective.
Joe Preston