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Author:  Agent_Smith [ Sun Jan 15, 2012 1:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Can I fix this situation - advice needed
the facts are:

1. meet this girl at a supermarket
2. walked up and the conversation went like this

me: " hey I saw you and I thought that you were goregous I had to say hi"
her: Oh thanks - (smiles)
me: what's your name
her: Jancinta
me: I'm Mutsuflex
her: nice to me you.
me: look i would like to meet you again can I get your number maybe we can catch up for a drink?
her: sure

Number exchange: complete

I then message her 30mins later to confirm some details about meeting up and just settle the dust about how it all happens so quickly!!!!

AND YOU NEVER GUESS WHAT HAPPENED????????????????????????

SHE DOESN'T RESPOND!?!?!?! (typical response it happens a million times but I'm sick of this SHIT!!!!!)

WTF!!!

Can I fix this ?? If so How??

I MUST FIX THIS!!!!
Author:  Snake Doctor [ Sun Jan 15, 2012 1:28 pm ]
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You need to build more rapport chat her up a bit.

In her mind she will love your confidence and balls. And will be dazed.

Then she thinks damn... I dont even know that guy.

I was too easy.

He might be a psycho killer.

Or he can want to drug me and have sex with me and sells my organs in the black market.
Author:  Chai [ Sun Jan 15, 2012 5:43 pm ]
Post subject: 
Agreed with SnakeDocter. Rapport is key in establishing some
comfort in the interaction, sounds also like your getting
some resistance cause of this...

This I don't agree with
Quote:
me: look i would like to meet you again can I get your number maybe we can catch up for a drink?
her: sure
I would have said "Look, I've got to run cause I'm meeting some friends soon,
but you seem real friendly and fun, what would be the best way to keep
in touch?"

By telling her that you have somewhere else to be you're conveying
to her that you have other interests and your a busy guy.
Also, by indirectly not asking
for her number she can give you a variety of options in order
to get her details without coming off as trying to pick her
up in the conventional manner like "yo give me your
number and lets hook up", you know how many
times she's probably heard that? This is
different to her and it comes under
the radar because she won't see
it as a pickup, but as more as
a networking...

As for the text, why 30 minutes after meeting her? You
should have done it immediately before you left, like
this "Cool, I'll just send you a text after I bounce
from here then we can organise something
later in the week..."

She will now be expecting to hear from you
straight after the interaction, which will build
up some curiosity but still keep the small
spark in the mood, the last thing you
want is for things to seem a little
awkward after a successful
pickup and have her giving
you some resistance as
yo what you can see
here...
Author:  Agent_Smith [ Mon Jan 16, 2012 12:28 am ]
Post subject: 
Yeah true about the rapport part but I seriously had to go after I spoke to her.

My question is what do I do now that I'm in this familar place.

If a girl doesn't respond I usually leave the situation and move on to the next.

But I want to make this Flaky Chick work out.

What would you suggest to get this train back on track???
Author:  Chai [ Mon Jan 16, 2012 1:37 pm ]
Post subject: 
Imagine what would happen if the girl never responded and
you saw her somewhere around town again, it would
become a little awkward... The best thing to do
is just to invite her out as soon as possible
to a simple evening out to a chill lounge
or a relaxing place you would
take a girl.

If you want to
impress her, go to a
place one week
before trying to get a viable night out
organised, go to a bar for 4 - 5 nights
(or wherever you intend on taking her to)
and get to know the staff and the regulars
there. What THIS will do is it will build up
social proofing among the usual characters
that hang in the vicinity (waiters, the manager,
barmen, hostesses etc) and you can up build up that social proof
to get preselection from others aswell as her in return.

If you show her
that you're a nice guy who is liked and
warmly welcomed by others it make
it easier to game her because
she can see you have other
interests in your life and
those aspects will make
you an interesting
person to get to
know. Who
wouldn't want to meet a guy
who gets warm reception at a lounge or a club?
Once a girl see's that you're wanted by others
she will grow attracted and give more
investment to you during the interaction.
Author:  papichulo818 [ Mon Jan 16, 2012 2:36 pm ]
Post subject: 
lol@the names
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