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Author:  Torn Stitch [ Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:05 am ]
Post subject:  How to change from friendly frame to sexual frame?
Known a girl for a little over a year now. She was in my class, I took her out on one date a while ago. Always kinda kept an afc friendly frame and realized I need to have a strong sexual frame.

Just reunited with her after not talking for four months. Now how do I effectively change from a friendly to sexual frame? I know that I risk losing her as a friend and am not worried about that.

Thanks
Author:  cheater [ Fri Jan 13, 2012 5:27 am ]
Post subject:  tips
well, doing that is a risk, u knew that, playing tha game is like gamble. but here waht i would do, but if u just want sex that might be hard, but i would get her as my gf and dump her after bang her a couple time. then u will be the next justin bieber.

anyways

meet her , i hope u know the terms,

all the girl like amog, so act like amog while chile out with her& make sure u r with her firend. make fun of thing, not her, well it depedn how hot the girl is, if she is hb8-10 then neg her, if not dont.
i got 3 sacel fo rating girls
ug 1-10 avg 1-10, hb1-10
ugly average hotbabe

if average dont neg her, as u show her that ur the amog, and make sure u do thing( have u ever heard of a tiger show his teeth out and trying to creep up his target, no right ? so u need to do an indirect appoach.

there is soo much thing to cover up so if u r interested how to do it, pm me and the question is how can i help you ?
Author:  Torn Stitch [ Fri Jan 13, 2012 3:16 pm ]
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dude that didnt make much sense. Why would I amog myself? Can someone who has been on this forum for longer than a week help with this? I need to gradually present a sexual frame without creeping her out. Since we have known each other for awhile, I cannot simply act sexual 24/7 while around her..or can I?
Author:  TLEE [ Fri Jan 13, 2012 6:19 pm ]
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I understand that i have not been on this forum for long at all, but i just want to give my input to try and help.

Say you see her and she hugs i'd go " Are you touching my arse?!?!?!" things like that

And throw in C & F comments, accuse her off trying to seduce you (Someone else gave out this advice, I'm taking no credit for any, i'm just passing it on)

Also start kino, start touching her (Not in That way! Yet ;) )


If that isn't you Then:

Just compliment her, " Wow! You scrub up well! You sexy little devil! " Something like that.

I understand i am New, but just thought i'd try help you.... Good Luck man
Author:  TLEE [ Fri Jan 13, 2012 6:25 pm ]
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Also, i forgot to say, When cheater Was talking about Amog, He might off meant about social proofing, talking to everyone, making friends, being the life of the party. Then your Higher Value than her.
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Fri Jan 13, 2012 6:35 pm ]
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Say you see her and she hugs i'd go " Are you touching my arse?!?!?!" things like that

And throw in C & F comments, accuse her off trying to seduce you (Someone else gave out this advice, I'm taking no credit for any, i'm just passing it on)

Also start kino, start touching her (Not in That way! Yet ;) )
(Yes in That way!)

Have no fear my friend. There's the key. The best naturals I know will spank ANY girls ass. No matter how they know her, no matter if she's been telling them off for the last ten minutes. You need to touch touch touch and never apologize for it. This is easier said than done, but you need to represent physicality as your natural state. You could talk about the weather for an entire date, and as long as you touch her enough, you're in.

Three other points. Yes, like Eddie said, it's helpful to blame her for your sexuality. More along the lines of "You're really sexy, you're making it hard to keep my eyes on the road" (if driving. "I can't focus on my food" if eating, etc).

This leads into my next point. You can't hide the fact that you like her! In fact you should tell her AND SHOW HER. This means indicating unequivocally that you're sexually attracted with both words and deed. "Wow, I didn't feel this attracted to you back in school" while touching her knee under the table. I doubt that you'll be able to fully do this, but at least you'll know what to work on.

Lastly, girls need to be challenged. If you're complimenting her all the time, there's no challenge. There is naturally a push/pull in any flirty conversation. When you sense her pull away from you, pull away yourself. "I'm not sure if you could handle me, I might be too much for you."
Author:  Torn Stitch [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 11:02 pm ]
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Thanks for the advice. I should mention that on our date, I did kino alot and we had a lot of fun(mini golfing then walked around). However, I got too nervous at the end and hugged. Obviously stupid and really ruined my chances.

The next week we went to breakfast(she drove 30 mins, I drove 5) and afterwards, I tried to k-close in the parking lot. She backed up and I basically got rejected.

Fast forward six months, I have talked to her only a few times and now she seems excited that I am texting her again. She never initiates texts though :/
But I know she knows that I like her. So how strong of a sexual frame should I be in? Just full on or ease into it?

Also I rarely see her around at school so should I call to ask her out again or wait until I see her in person?
Author:  Giacomo Casanova [ Wed Jan 18, 2012 11:56 pm ]
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I don't believe in the whole idea of negging unless she's being bitchy. If you neg too much, you're probably loosing your chances with her. It's like being just cocky and not funny.

A good example of being cocky and funny - Tease. Teasing is a lot better than negging bro. Negging and teasing are like a kitchen kinfe and a minigun in your arsenal.

Teasing is good, everyone gets teased and people like teasing each other, it builds comfort.

Okay. I'm gonna break down 5 sexual frames that I learned from Sinn.

#1 Be Non Judgmental

Everyone has a self image, they wanna maintain a good social image or reputation, especially women. So what I gotta let ya know is that you shouldn't judge her or tell her what she did was bad.

Women like to do slutty thing yet are afraid what the society may think about her. You shouldn't be one among them. Show her that you don't care that she did something slutty or worry about what she does. Don't Judge her like 'You shouldn't have done it, that really bad, you're a bad person. That's mom shits.

By demonstrating you're non judgmental, you show the girl that she's free to do whatever she wants without the fear of social ramifications and consequences. You should encourage her to what she loves.

#2 We Are Discreet

It's just as simple as 'I don't kiss and tell'.

Show her that you're not the kinda guy that would talk things about her that would totally ruin her reputations. Built comfort and trust with her. You should never reveal any of her secrets to a third person. What happens between the two of you should stay between the two of you. Even when you two are totally pissed at each other and don't share that with your friend, on what happened. Ask some random girls instead on 'this happened with my friend', I take these sorta personal issue as openers. I share stories of my friends with these girls I meet, just because they're fucking real, it'd sound genuine. That's another topic. So back to where we were.

#3 It Won't Get Weird

This is what happens after sex. Normally, not for a player but for most typical guy. You approach, open, build comfort, seduce, close is the usual way, but most guys just stick around wanting a relationship out of it. They're wired up like 'We had sex, and that makes you my girlfriend'. Now, that's fuck as shit. Don't do that. You had sex, that's people do. Relationships, she's the one to start a relationship if she wants, not you. You be just flexible. The idea is that don't take sex so fucking seriously.

#4 She Goes For What She Wants

Tell a girl that she's a type of person who goes for what she wants. Who would love to be the person who go for what they want. Now if you deliver is correctly, you gave her a compliment and it's a frame. She starts think, yeah that's true. And fortunately, she'll start behaving like the person. This is a really powerful frame that she'll get rid of the obstacles if she finds your interesting.

#5 She's Sexually Aggressive.

You wanna show her that she's a sexually aggressive person. You can give her the cool girl test.

"Imagine you're walking down the street and you came to a fence, How tall is it? .... Now you climb the fence and you see strawberries or some fruits she like, how many strawberries would you eat? ...... (Now shake your head no matter what she says) And What about the farmer?

The fence is her goals and aspirations, your answer tell me you set the bars too high, but not enough that you can't reach it.

So about the strawberries, OMG, I can't believe that you said xxx strawberries. I could never take to home to mom, you could have me chained to a bed needing Gatorade or 'if she say's 1' most people only take a bite but you, OMG ....

Hope that helped. These are some sexual frames.
Author:  EddieFews [ Thu Jan 19, 2012 12:39 am ]
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its all in your thoughts..

You have to allow yourself to get extremly horny and sexually aroused around her and you will behave as such. Picture her butt naked sucking you off, picture her fulfilling your wildest sexual fantasy. Whatever works for you, but you have to get turned on by her. At that point, you'll know what to do.
Author:  papichulo818 [ Thu Jan 19, 2012 12:57 am ]
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Pull ur dick out your pants and rub it against her ass.
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