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Author:  danthedan [ Wed Jan 11, 2012 10:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Why do black guys seem to have better game?
Geeks are very rarely black, and black guys (stereotypically) seem to be more confident & charismatic, being smoother socially and with girls. Why is this? I'm not suggesting it's genetically due to their skin colour, but is it related to some aspect(s) of their upbringing? Is it related to their apparent dominance of sports, being typically faster & stronger than white guys?

Or is it just a stereotype?
Author:  Aegis88 [ Wed Jan 11, 2012 11:52 pm ]
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I dont know who your sources are but they arent doing a good job.
Who ever said black guys have better game?
I've never seen that written anywhere heh, but it sure seems like
you think too much about unimportant matters. Be well
Author:  soul70 [ Wed Jan 11, 2012 11:59 pm ]
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I believe the biggest thing is confidence, I am not racists nor have opinions on this, however maybe this is the answer of your question.. 'They' have confidence and experience that you seem to want and do not have
Author:  Hakuna [ Thu Jan 12, 2012 12:13 am ]
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Several studies indicate that black people tend to produce far more testosterone / creatine than most other races (Google it if you don't believe me). Testosterone is the lifeblood of game, the key to becoming Lord of all that is cunt and poon.
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Thu Jan 12, 2012 2:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why do black guys seem to have better game?
Quote:
Geeks are very rarely black, and black guys (stereotypically) seem to be more confident & charismatic, being smoother socially and with girls. Why is this? I'm not suggesting it's genetically due to their skin colour, but is it related to some aspect(s) of their upbringing? Is it related to their apparent dominance of sports, being typically faster & stronger than white guys?

Or is it just a stereotype?
I've noticed that black guys tend to be very direct. You'll often see on a girl's profile picture, two white guys will post. One will say "You look gorgeous!" He doesn't have game. Another will make some sarcastic, joking comment. He probably doesn't have game.

Then a black guy will post. "Damn girl you got a nice ass!" Now that's game.

Everyone else is lying about what theyre actually thinking. The black guy says it. Honesty trumps all.
Author:  DJ_Z [ Thu Jan 12, 2012 2:12 am ]
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I asked a buddy of mine who grew up in the hood about it.

It isn't black guys who are better, it's guys who grew up in the projects, in the bad neighborhoods. If you've been mugged, if you've seen your friends get shot and your neighbors get arrested for running drugs, ending up in jail for years, you really don't care if a girl gets upset you find her sexy as hell.
Author:  psykotikz [ Thu Jan 12, 2012 2:17 am ]
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yeah dude prob testosterone levels. I know if I don't beat off for 5 days my testosterone goes through the roof, i'll hit on anything. it takes over. but i rarely make it past 2 days so i have to resort to other tactics! :)
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Thu Jan 12, 2012 4:06 am ]
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I asked a buddy of mine who grew up in the hood about it.

It isn't black guys who are better, it's guys who grew up in the projects, in the bad neighborhoods. If you've been mugged, if you've seen your friends get shot and your neighbors get arrested for running drugs, ending up in jail for years, you really don't care if a girl gets upset you find her sexy as hell.
truth
Author:  skills360 [ Thu Jan 12, 2012 4:17 am ]
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Quote:
I asked a buddy of mine who grew up in the hood about it.

It isn't black guys who are better, it's guys who grew up in the projects, in the bad neighborhoods. If you've been mugged, if you've seen your friends get shot and your neighbors get arrested for running drugs, ending up in jail for years, you really don't care if a girl gets upset you find her sexy as hell.


exactly! Also the hip hop culture(constantly bombards kids or teach player lifestyle songs, clubs etc...) and most of the black guys hang out with other black guys who already got game, so it gets absorb and/or transfer, the guy that taught me game was a natural black guy, i just learned by hanging out with him, tell me who you hang out with and i tell you who you are syndrome...If you hang out or around 60 yoc, cajun etc... eventually you are gonna be good by hanging out with them...
Author:  OG_Kdub [ Thu Jan 12, 2012 7:06 am ]
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What you say is somewhat true but the same can be said of latin guys, its down to how they grow up. If you grow up street smart, there's a certain swagger and confidence that goes with it they pick up things from the older dudes on the block.
Author:  Gifted1ne [ Thu Jan 12, 2012 8:31 am ]
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It's not about your skin color, it's about confidence and believing in yourself. I'll admit I am black and yes I do pull females but it's not all about what you say it's how you say it and I learned and gain alot of confidence from doing door-to-door sales. Can you imagine how many times I was rejected a sale,after I stop caring who would open the door and stood my ground and sold my damn product. I starting to not give a fu*ck because I wasn't going to let a NO dictate my attitude towards my next sale. That's how you have to go about life, suffer the consequences for actions you make or let society bring you down and not let you succeed.
Author:  JoePro228 [ Thu Jan 12, 2012 11:59 am ]
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Quote:
I asked a buddy of mine who grew up in the hood about it.

It isn't black guys who are better, it's guys who grew up in the projects, in the bad neighborhoods. If you've been mugged, if you've seen your friends get shot and your neighbors get arrested for running drugs, ending up in jail for years, you really don't care if a girl gets upset you find her sexy as hell.
I will have to agree with this statement. I think the more shit you have gone through, the less you're concern of what people think of you. On that note, I think Israeli have better game just because they are force to serve their country making them mature faster.
Author:  SmoothOp [ Thu Jan 12, 2012 2:11 pm ]
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I asked a buddy of mine who grew up in the hood about it.

It isn't black guys who are better, it's guys who grew up in the projects, in the bad neighborhoods. If you've been mugged, if you've seen your friends get shot and your neighbors get arrested for running drugs, ending up in jail for years, you really don't care if a girl gets upset you find her sexy as hell.
Are you saying black guys are all badass and from the projects?? I know plenty of black dudes and none of them had hard lives but they are just smooth at talking. To men, women, whoever. I also know many people who grew up going through tough shit and they are socially retarded. Jail and the streets don't teach you social skills bro. If what you're saying is true then men from war torn parts of Africa should be mad pimps! or middle east. True players.

North America for black men is like Asia for white men. There will be a huge group of women who have a fetish for you. If I lived in Japan, had hot asian girls wanting my balls full time, from the outside view I would look like I'm good with women right? But I don think they are generally more confident and agressive then white people when it comes to picking up women. And confidence is number 1 right?
Author:  P-Style [ Thu Jan 12, 2012 5:42 pm ]
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I think it's because they have bigger cocks...
Author:  Kalel [ Thu Jan 12, 2012 10:49 pm ]
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It's a cultural thing. I think that a lot of the problem with guys nowadays is that we have been taught to be overly respectful of women and not treat them as sex objects or degrade them. Which is a good lesson, just taken too far. To the point that guys nowadays are taught that their sexuality toward women is a bad thing that need to be controlled and repressed. We simply do not allow ourselves to express our sexual nature as we should be able to.

But in black culture, this stigma doesn't exist to the same extent. They tend to be more open and free about their sexuality and sexual needs and interests. This is also the case in Hispanic culture as well. Which I can speak on personally. In Mexico, to this day, guys get women's attention by whistling and making clicking sounds with their mouths, like calling a dog. There is no shame or stigma behind it. They acknowledge that they are men and that they are attracted to beautiful women and that there is nothing wrong with showing that in public. It is natural and normal to them.

No fear, no shame, no repression. No societal stigma. That's why they are better. They have nothing holding them back.
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