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Author:  AthleticSmartass [ Mon Jan 09, 2012 11:41 pm ]
Post subject:  How to ask a girl to watch a movie at your place?
This question might be completely trivial to many of you but nevertheless I'd appreciate your input.
I went out with a HB 7.5 a few times during the last two months. We went to the cinema, had a few coffee dates and went to a party but so far I haven't made a move. She seems to be interested but I'm not sure. Probably she wonders why I haven't done anything yet. I was thinking of asking her to watch a movie at my place. I guess this should make my intentions clear to her because few things scream SEX as loud as inviting a girl for this, right?
I'm thinking of one particular movie she might want to watch but I don't know if she has already seen it. What's the best way to ask her? So far I initiated almost all our dates by email or text but she always called me. Also, what should I do if she has already seen it? Just suggest the next movie, and the next one and so on? Doesn't that sound too desparate?
Oh, and just in case you might wonder: I know this approach seems pretty un-PUA but I think by now I need to forget gaming etc. and just see if she is interested and if so, finally man up and make a move, which is hard enough for me...
Author:  om3n [ Mon Jan 09, 2012 11:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to ask a girl to watch a movie at your place?
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This question might be completely trivial to many of you but nevertheless I'd appreciate your input.
I went out with a HB 7.5 a few times during the last two months. We went to the cinema, had a few coffee dates and went to a party but so far I haven't made a move. She seems to be interested but I'm not sure. Probably she wonders why I haven't done anything yet. I was thinking of asking her to watch a movie at my place. I guess this should make my intentions clear to her because few things scream SEX as loud as inviting a girl for this, right?
I'm thinking of one particular movie she might want to watch but I don't know if she has already seen it. What's the best way to ask her? So far I initiated almost all our dates by email or text but she always called me. Also, what should I do if she has already seen it? Just suggest the next movie, and the next one and so on? Doesn't that sound too desparate?
Oh, and just in case you might wonder: I know this approach seems pretty un-PUA but I think by now I need to forget gaming etc. and just see if she is interested and if so, finally man up and make a move, which is hard enough for me...
I am going rather straightforward, so I would go something like this (using phone, no texting!):

"Hey xxx, are you busy? Come over and watch a movie or two with me. If you can make it here in under 30 minutes you get a free cookie!"

You should have a couple of movies prepared, stating you always wanted to watch them but have been busy lately. This allows you to let her choose. For your own mental sanity, avoid movies you really don't want to watch. And, she would find out anyway.
Author:  40 year old virgins broth [ Tue Jan 10, 2012 1:50 am ]
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Do what most guys here do...say "pull up a tire and sit down and watch this here movie"

:D
Author:  papichulo818 [ Tue Jan 10, 2012 1:57 am ]
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"watching a movie tonight, come join me"
Author:  Vietman100 [ Tue Jan 10, 2012 2:23 am ]
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"Hey, I'm going to watch xxxxx in an hour. You should come by and watch it with me."

If she says no, leave it at that or else you'll look needy.
Author:  Vietman100 [ Tue Jan 10, 2012 2:23 am ]
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"Hey, I'm going to watch xxxxx in an hour. You should come by and watch it with me."

If she says no, leave it at that or else you'll look needy.
Author:  40 year old virgins broth [ Tue Jan 10, 2012 2:25 am ]
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Quote:
"Hey, I'm going to watch xxxxx in an hour. You should come by and watch it with me."

If she says no, leave it at that or else you'll look needy.
Especially if u say the same thing twice :D
Author:  papichulo818 [ Tue Jan 10, 2012 2:30 am ]
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Key is making it sound like you're watching it anyway, and if she's up to it she can join you. Figure the phrasing out on your own.
Author:  Kalel [ Tue Jan 10, 2012 8:43 pm ]
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It's how you sell it too. You have to make it seem awesome, and a fun thing to do. Your enthusiasm will sell it. If your excited about staying at home and watching a movie, your enthusiasm will rub off on her, and she will be more inclined to do it. But if you act like it's a boring and mundane thing to do, she will find something more fun to do.

I have a media player with a lot of new releases, so I'm genuinely excited to watch some of them. And I constantly have all kinds of people coming over to watch them, including girls I'm dating. But I am genuinely excited, so I don't even really have to try that hard. I usually have them asking if they can come over.

Also, if you get a girl addicted to a show like Breaking Bad, or True Blood, or something like that; you have guaranteed repeat dates to continue watching the series. You also have tons of stuff to talk about later related to the show, including inside jokes and what not. Currently, I have a girl who comes to my house for walking dead, and one for Breaking Bad.
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