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| Author: | Sway321 [ Mon Jan 09, 2012 9:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | is this situation still salveageble? |
Long story short, this girl I've been seeing for the the past month and a half decided to give her ex for 3 years another chance due to "persuassion." Meaning the guy has been bugging her so much to get back with him for the past 3 months that she finally gave in. I know she is very very attracted to me..and I wouldn't mind dating her to be honest. what's my best next move from here ? any suggestions ? |
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| Author: | papichulo818 [ Mon Jan 09, 2012 10:39 pm ] |
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Lay back in the cut, let her experience the mundacity of something old while you offer her something new and exciting. Once you feel you've got her invested pull away. When she juxtaposes this to being cajoled into a relationship with her ex, the choice will be obvious (something exciting and new vs. something familiar, boring, and complacent). Don't limit yourself to her, put some more irons on the coal as of course with everything In life there are no guarantees. |
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| Author: | Sway321 [ Tue Jan 10, 2012 2:20 am ] |
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Quote: Once you feel you've got her invested pull away. When she juxtaposes this to being cajoled into a relationship with her ex, the choice will be obvious (something exciting and new vs. something familiar, boring, and complacent).
Don't limit yourself to her, put some more irons on the coal as of course with everything In life there are no guarantees. ok so I want to digest this responce fully. basically keep on gaming her while looking for other options no? |
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| Author: | papichulo818 [ Tue Jan 10, 2012 2:29 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: Once you feel you've got her invested pull away. When she juxtaposes this to being cajoled into a relationship with her ex, the choice will be obvious (something exciting and new vs. something familiar, boring, and complacent).
Don't limit yourself to her, put some more irons on the coal as of course with everything In life there are no guarantees. ok so I want to digest this responce fully. basically keep on gaming her while looking for other options no? |
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| Author: | juan47 [ Tue Jan 10, 2012 2:31 am ] |
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well...looks like its time to use boyfriend destroyers! |
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| Author: | Sway321 [ Tue Jan 10, 2012 2:34 am ] |
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awesome response. I shall try a few here and there. any particular BFD anyone recommends? Their relationship is pretty rocky from what I can tell. |
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| Author: | papichulo818 [ Tue Jan 10, 2012 2:41 am ] |
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Quote: awesome response. I shall try a few here and there. any particular BFD anyone recommends? Their relationship is pretty rocky from what I can tell.
He's telling you what you want to hear, there's no such thing. Also, if she sniffs out y ou are trying to break them out chances are she'll cut you off entirely as it's manipulative and undermines her decision. Good luck with that.
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| Author: | juan47 [ Tue Jan 10, 2012 2:42 am ] |
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well here are some tips first. never bash her boyfriend, like dont talk shit on him. she will take a defensive viewpoint, and suppoort him. Dont try to qualify yourself convincing her your better then him. With that in mind here is a boyfriend destroyer when she gloats about him or something- Wow you know, i think you and him are perfect for eachother! yup you guys are going to get married and live in a big house with a white picket fence and 1.5 children! be sure to have a smile while saying this however. |
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| Author: | Hakuna [ Tue Jan 10, 2012 2:50 am ] |
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The relationship will concave on itself, I've been in this situation before and honestly, never before have I seen pussy dry up faster than when it begrudgingly accepts an ex back because he begged for another chance. |
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| Author: | Sway321 [ Tue Jan 10, 2012 2:51 am ] |
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alright maybe trying to be agressive with her would not work.. my plan was to try to bash down the BF, seeing as shes told me terrible stories about him... but looks like that would only take me out of the picture faster. I'll try the more subtle/smoother approach. I know she is very attracted to me physically and I work with her so she HAS to see me AND consequentially, remember all the stuff we did for the short sweet month  . women, they complicate everything don't they! |
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| Author: | juan47 [ Tue Jan 10, 2012 2:53 am ] |
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well with whatever you do guy, best of luck. but yea you dont want to bash her bf...makes you look bad....you can make her remember the times you guys had, and anchor them. that would help. |
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| Author: | Sway321 [ Tue Jan 10, 2012 3:06 am ] |
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Quote: The relationship will concave on itself, I've been in this situation before and honestly, never before have I seen pussy dry up faster than when it begrudgingly accepts an ex back because he begged for another chance.
that's interesting. The guy is a total loser, (pretty bad looking/douchebag/dick etc) but he does have money and apparently very smart.. he just happens to hate the world and everything in it apparently. Quote: well with whatever you do guy, best of luck. but yea you dont want to bash her bf...makes you look bad....you can make her remember the times you guys had, and anchor them. that would help.
and thank you Juan, I really do appreciate the tips and what not bro, I will surely do that. |
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