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| Author: | Optimus86 [ Sun Jan 08, 2012 10:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | learning to talk in statements |
can anyone that knows tell me what I said wrong? why she didn't reply? this is on facebook.. I got this girl talking where the previous message she didnt answer. I recently just started doing this online but when I try to do it in person its hard to think of what to say, I have to work on that. shes a HB9 ME : hey, how did your holidays go? Christmas used to be my favorite time of the year but it sucks now compared to the memories I had growing up. I remember one time when I was young I woke up to a white christmas, I looked out the window and my little eyes just lit up seeing everything covered in snow, especially the trees, its a beautiful scene if you picture it but you forget how cold it is outside. HER: hey it went pretty good...howd it go for you? did you get everything you wanted? but yes i know what you mean...i miss being a kid. christmas was so much better back then. its very different now ME: those were magical times, especially opening presents and getting what you want, I knew I wasnt going to get anything I wanted so I bought myself a hdtv, nintendo wii and a blu ray player.. I been admiring these things for a while so I made myself happy. I miss being a kid too, those times were fun and having no responsibilities was the best part of it. I remember being able to wear pajamas all day and no one saying anything and having no where to go. it's like you had no worries in the world and everything revolved around that day. |
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| Author: | GetFamiliar [ Sun Jan 08, 2012 11:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: learning to talk in statements |
Quote: can anyone that knows tell me what I said wrong? why she didn't reply?
To be blunt, you didn't send her anything interesting to which to respond. You would have been better off if you would've made a joke about something that she typed or asked her "how is it different for you now?"this is on facebook.. I got this girl talking where the previous message she didnt answer. I recently just started doing this online but when I try to do it in person its hard to think of what to say, I have to work on that. shes a HB9 ME : hey, how did your holidays go? Christmas used to be my favorite time of the year but it sucks now compared to the memories I had growing up. I remember one time when I was young I woke up to a white christmas, I looked out the window and my little eyes just lit up seeing everything covered in snow, especially the trees, its a beautiful scene if you picture it but you forget how cold it is outside. HER: hey it went pretty good...howd it go for you? did you get everything you wanted? but yes i know what you mean...i miss being a kid. christmas was so much better back then. its very different now ME: those were magical times, especially opening presents and getting what you want, I knew I wasnt going to get anything I wanted so I bought myself a hdtv, nintendo wii and a blu ray player.. I been admiring these things for a while so I made myself happy. I miss being a kid too, those times were fun and having no responsibilities was the best part of it. I remember being able to wear pajamas all day and no one saying anything and having no where to go. it's like you had no worries in the world and everything revolved around that day. You're talking way too much. Women want to talk about themselves, not read extensive paragraphs about your childhood. If you're going to open with a question like "hey, how did your holidays go?" , then leave it at that. Ask her questions about herself. You can insert tiny tidbits of information about yourself in between question but don't spend alot of time on yourself. If she wants to learn more about you,unless she's shy, then she will ask you a question. |
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| Author: | ItsAlwaysOn [ Sun Jan 08, 2012 11:24 pm ] |
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reread the messages you sent her. theyre boring, negative and depressing. why on earth would she want to continue a conversation like that? |
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| Author: | GetFamiliar [ Mon Jan 09, 2012 2:11 am ] |
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Quote: reread the messages you sent her. theyre boring, negative and depressing. why on earth would she want to continue a conversation like that?
This statement is negative and depressing. Why on earth would you want to post a comment like that?
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| Author: | Optimus86 [ Mon Jan 09, 2012 2:53 am ] |
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Quote: Ask her questions about herself
you can only ask one or two questions, thats the whole point of talking in statements, woman talk in statements.
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| Author: | Phoenix_ [ Mon Jan 09, 2012 3:09 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: Ask her questions about herself
you can only ask one or two questions, thats the whole point of talking in statements, woman talk in statements. |
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| Author: | GetFamiliar [ Mon Jan 09, 2012 3:10 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: Ask her questions about herself
you can only ask one or two questions, thats the whole point of talking in statements, woman talk in statements. |
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| Author: | Phoenix_ [ Mon Jan 09, 2012 3:50 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: Quote: Ask her questions about herself
you can only ask one or two questions, thats the whole point of talking in statements, woman talk in statements.open ended statement You-"Yeah I hate flying, I had such a bad experience when I was young, it scarred me for life!" Her-"OMG, what happen?" boring statement You- Yeah I hate flying. Flying made me feel bad when I was little. Alot of things made me feel scared like gophers and butterflies . Blah, blah, blah..... Her-( doesn't give a s***) This talking in statements stuff will get you no where fast. Ask her questions, how else will you get to know her? |
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