Back story - Been seeing this girl for about a month. She travels a lot for work so we've only seen each other like 4 times. No sex, but making out and heavy petting. The last time I was at her place I tried to make a move and she said she wanted to but the shes not ready for "slumber parties" yet. I know this girl likes me but I think it's more of a "He's a great guy. He'd make a great boyfriend" type of thing. How do I get her to see me as a lover? I'd kind of like to keep her around.
Also, when we discussed this leading somewhere I told her that I thought this had potential and that even though I had some options I didnt really want to see anyone else. Her responses were pretty vague: "Ya I know what you mean. I just feel like I'm not being fair to you if I always cancel. And Im so in and out of town it would be hard to start something ya know?"
I told her we're both busy so there's probably never going to be a "perfect" time. Her response: "Well maybe one day our schedules will work together
"I told her we should go to this place we've been talking about for a while and talk and she said "I'll be around
" Again, kinda vague. Need some advice guys. I like this one....