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| Author: | temskron [ Sun Jan 08, 2012 11:40 am ] |
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Hey guys. It really started to interest me: How do I recognize these test what girls shoot at me? or How to handle them? and What to answer? maybe There is some list where are most common 1ns written and I haven't found it yet. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Sun Jan 08, 2012 12:05 pm ] |
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reaction seeking, qualification, compliance reaction seeking- things that come at you at random, possibly rude comments, maybe overtly sexual comments where she is saying things to see how you react, best way to deal with these, are don't let things that she may say have a huge impact on you, dismiss her frame when she is seeking a reaction her:you're so gay me:gayest gaylord ever to win a gay contest, you jealous of my gayness? her:I think your friends ass looks good you:you should tell him to strutt for you (point is don't get all emotional about it and have reactions like it means something to you, adopt the attitude, that nothing she says or does is a big deal) qualification- girls are like little fact finders, they want to figure you out so they can see if you line up to their checklist of a perfect man, when they see too many things that don't line up, and you congruently do not have the potential to become what they want, they will lose interest in you, best way to handle her testing out what is congruent for you, is to not let her know what is congruent for you, by selecting what tests you take and what ones you don't, key words what ones you don't her:how old are you? you:guess her:you want me to guess high or you want me to guess low? you:are you not a random guesser, kind of girl? her:what kind of car do you drive? you:a rocket car her: no seriously you:lets not talk cars, lets talk about pickles, man... I sure love them, AMIRIGHT?!? compliance- between two people, there is always someone who is more dominant then the other, that person puts in less effort to do what other people want, and when you start doing things that people want you to do, you sort of grow a tendancy to become comfortable doing what that person wants, if you reverse that logic, people will also become comfortable with not getting their way from a person, if that person is not compliant, they notice what is congruent for that person and accept that personality as ''normal'', the more compliance you request and the less you give, the more the frame is set to the affect of, we do what this person wants, keep in mind there are different levels of investment and compliance, getting someone to check out a funny youtube video on your fun requires alot less compliance, then getting them to cut their arms off for you (sex is somewhere in between) her:buy me a drink you:go buy me a round first, then I'll get the second one her:come here you:say please most of these tests are handled by dis-guarding her frame, you can address them by, ignoring the test, re-framing the test so it looks ridiculous, or just testing her back without taking her test |
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| Author: | temskron [ Sun Jan 08, 2012 1:42 pm ] |
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Amazing reply  When I have sniffed that she is wanting to test me, sofar I have ignored most of the test, but putting some funny touch in answers is lovely idea and I'll work on that. So when she wants back massage it goes to copmliance right, but I like giving massage and have learned it a-bit too and it's no big effort for me. Still it gives her more domination over me. When I think about it, I should ask her to give me massage 1st then I can return it if I want. |
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| Author: | thekidd [ Sun May 06, 2012 11:56 pm ] |
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This is pure gold. Brilliant post pumpington! This is going straight into my journal. |
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