She invited you to chase, you didn't chase. She's come back to you with an invite to her party, I'd go. She'll take a little work, but once you've found that connection it should come together. I wouldn't give up yet.
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| Author: | Mr. R.I.P. [ Thu Jan 05, 2012 3:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I don't know what to with this situation...please help. |
Met the girl at a new years party. We were talking holding hands and what not then she just awkwardly says I have to get back to my friend. I let her go (I shoulda kept on talking). At the end of the nigt we talk again. I get her fb info (shoulda asked her # but I was talking to her friend as well and wasn't comfortable asking for her number SPAM idky) so we chat on fb for like an hour. I end the convo by telling her I'm walking in the gym shoot me he number so we can talk/text whatever. She says have a nice workout and doesn't give me the number. (confused) I reinitiate the convo again and we just talk for another hour building comfort and rapport. All of a sudden she stops answering. In my mind I'm done I wasn't chasing again after that. A few days pass and she hits me up and invites me to her birthday party. I don't know if I should accept or decline. [/img] |
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| Author: | adam emre [ Thu Jan 05, 2012 3:57 pm ] |
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She invited you to chase, you didn't chase. She's come back to you with an invite to her party, I'd go. She'll take a little work, but once you've found that connection it should come together. I wouldn't give up yet.
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| Author: | Mr. R.I.P. [ Thu Jan 05, 2012 4:10 pm ] |
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Thanks for the info. FYI. I don't do well in clubs/ lounges,yet, I don't go out much. I've been getting into day game a lot as well. So I wouldn't know how to approach the situation. She's gonna be there with her friends. It's her "party". I'm the new guy. Any suggestions guys |
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| Author: | adam emre [ Thu Jan 05, 2012 4:33 pm ] |
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If it was me in that situation, and i'm assuming you're going to a club or something for her birthday, i'd get a group of my friends out as well to that club or if it's okay with her and you're only with like 2-3 friends, go to predrinks or whatever it is before hand and win her friends over, and hit on her casually, then go in for the kill later in the night. I hope this helps, i was a little unsure on what the exact situation was. |
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| Author: | Mr. R.I.P. [ Thu Jan 05, 2012 5:45 pm ] |
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I'm on my phone So I definitely am just trying and sending. Sorry for no proof reading. I've never been to the place myself. She just told Me its a restaurant lounge type of thing so It's more like a happy hour with some ppl dining. She says she didn't invite many people either |
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