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| Author: | Decessum [ Thu Jan 05, 2012 8:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Just got out of a relationship, getting back in the game. |
Hello everyone. I just ended a 2 year relationship, which has been the most serious relationship in my life (I am 21 years old). I ended it because I didn't felt being on a serious relationship at my age, specially for that long was healthy. Anyways, during the course of my relationship I felt how, slowly, but surely I was losing my confidence. I could talk to any girl, and date them, but now I find myself wanting to talk to a girl but being scared of doing it, the relationship basically destroyed my confidence. And I know, I am a good looking guy... even a friend of mine said I should get a "Astonishing blonde, perfectly for you" to which I ask "Why?" and she says "Well, you're hot and handsome, someone like that would be perfectly for you" ... I don't have a problem with meeting up girls from the internet, but seriously, I don't want that ... I want to do it the old fashioned way, but I am just scared to talk to them again. How can I regain my confidence ?? ... should I start from ground zero in training? Basically talking to girls not trying to pick them up, but just for the chat ? ... |
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| Author: | Ruggedized [ Thu Jan 05, 2012 8:18 am ] |
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Hey dude, Unfortunately, inner game is one of the more important concepts in pick-up. You have to know that no matter what happens, you are going to enjoy the interaction and bring something to the table. Since you've been out of it for a couple years, I would say start by making friends with girls like you said. Just enjoy the talking, and get to know them. The more interactions, the better. When you're ready, escalate. -Ruggedized |
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