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Author:  Florg [ Thu Jan 05, 2012 2:00 am ]
Post subject:  Want a good idea for what to do
So I was texting this girl that I'm interested in, here is how the conversation went.

Me:So what have you been up to on break, super busy I'm guessing?
her:haha yeah we're always shopping. yeah pretty busy.. It's been great though. What about your break?
Me: my break has been nice, hanging out with friends a lot. Are you free this week?
Her: hmm nope D: maybe on the weekend
Me: I'll see if i'm free, if so lets do something :)
Her: Okie Dokie! :D

So basicially i want an idea on where to take her or what to do from here.

It seems she is interested from our breif interactions in class and stuff, and the texts seem to say she is willing to come out i think. So yeah, Ideas?
Author:  EddieFews [ Thu Jan 05, 2012 2:09 am ]
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Bro.. You're going to need to place a solid phone conversation in before trying to take her anywhere.

She didn't give you a definite opening therefore she isn't really that interested.

My only advice would be to call the girl and talk to her on the phone for at least 30 mins and then figure out where you want to take it from there.
Author:  Florg [ Thu Jan 05, 2012 10:10 am ]
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thanks man, I guess I'm kinda jumping the gun here

I'm finally trying to get my shit together and actually get some dates and experience under my belt.

I'll try calling her pretty soon and I'll see where it goes from there.

If things go well then thatll be pretty cool, but if not, then i guess on to the next chick.


It's just been way too long, and im getting impatient,
Author:  papichulo818 [ Thu Jan 05, 2012 10:18 am ]
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Hmm, why'd you cut things short after you she said she'd maybe be free on the weekend? Makes it look as though you didn't like that she wasn't ready to jump on your dick so you bolted.

In such situations it's best to keep the convo going a bit longer just so it looks as though you weren't hard-up for a "yes" answer on going out.

It's evident that there's not much attraction going on here but she's indicated she may be available on the weekend (which can mean a number of things). I'd go about establishing more rapport with her via text and phone, just chi-chat stuff but make her laugh and be interesting (to her). You need to escalate to the point where she finds you interesting and wants to meet up with you to learn more.

You aren't really interesting her at this point, plain and simple. Think of some interesting and/or funny conversations you can engage her in before your next contact. As the man it's your task to do the majority of the communication in the beginning and get her on the line.
Author:  Florg [ Thu Jan 05, 2012 10:36 am ]
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She seemed interested in person when I was around her, but i agree I need to build up some more interest. Like i said before I'll call her probably tomorrow or something, too late right now. (well i guess too early actually)

I'm not a big fan of texting because I'm not nearly as good at humor when i only have writing to deal with.
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