So I took this girl out on a date last night and made sure to keep the kino on the high scale. Shes leaving in a couple days so I did not want to waste any time and wanted to make my intentions as obvious as possible (without being creepy).

So after awhile of talking at this store and having some wine we go out to eat. I decided to sit next to her and she responded with something along the lines of "oh, your one of those guys". I dont remember what I said, I think I just said nothing and just put my arm around her.

So after awhile I was getting more comfortable and kept trying to vamp up the kino. She was wearing a skirt so I put my hand on her knee, then slowly moved it up and back down ect.. I then put my head against hers, smelled her neck, and things along those lines. She would say things like "whoa who are you?", "whats going on", "I've never had a guy be so forward", and "You need to tone it down like 3 notches". But as she would say all of these things she would still be holding my hand and sitting close to me, no backing away or anything that would give me a sign that I was being too aggressive.

Date ended with a kiss and she said that we would hang out the next day. I've tried hitting her up but she didnt answer the phone and hasnt returned the call. So IDK whats going on.

So for future reference should I tone the kino back on the first date? Is it good to set next to the girl? Or should I try to set across from her? I'm use to not paying attention to what a girl says but rather what her body is saying. But after last night IDK if thats a solid rule to follow all the time.

So I took this girl out on a date last night and made sure to keep the kino on the high scale. Shes leaving in a couple days so I did not want to waste any time and wanted to make my intentions as obvious as possible (without being creepy).

So after awhile of talking at this store and having some wine we go out to eat. I decided to sit next to her and she responded with something along the lines of "oh, your one of those guys". I dont remember what I said, I think I just said nothing and just put my arm around her.

So after awhile I was getting more comfortable and kept trying to vamp up the kino. She was wearing a skirt so I put my hand on her knee, then slowly moved it up and back down ect.. I then put my head against hers, smelled her neck, and things along those lines. She would say things like "whoa who are you?", "whats going on", "I've never had a guy be so forward", and "You need to tone it down like 3 notches". But as she would say all of these things she would still be holding my hand and sitting close to me, no backing away or anything that would give me a sign that I was being too aggressive.

Date ended with a kiss and she said that we would hang out the next day. I've tried hitting her up but she didnt answer the phone and hasnt returned the call. So IDK whats going on.

So for future reference should I tone the kino back on the first date? Is it good to set next to the girl? Or should I try to set across from her? I'm use to not paying attention to what a girl says but rather what her body is saying. But after last night IDK if thats a solid rule to follow all the time.

Seems like you were afraid to go all in...


If your going to escalate that far you need to seal the deal on day one. Don't stop at her knee.. Reach all the way up and if she's wearing a thong.

As for this chick, just forget it. She'll hit you up if she wants to see you again.