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Author:  spaceman99 [ Wed Jan 04, 2012 3:11 am ]
Post subject:  Composure vs. lashing out
1. After having read some articles on PUAs, it is advised that a man keep his "composure" when a woman begin to test you. I am beginning to doubt this notion.

2. HB7 says things that make me want to just lash out on her and cuss her the hell out, but over the years I have learned to act like its not big deal and remain silent.

3.Examples HB: " You are selfish and crazy". "You men are obsessed and just all about yourselves." etc

4. Should I keep my composure and let her fly with things that are condescending or should I react like a MAN should and cuss her the fuck out!

Please advise!

PS: Its hard to just let it fly. I say things like "ok"..."Whatever".
Author:  EddieFews [ Wed Jan 04, 2012 3:33 am ]
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Would you lash out if a 2 year old child said these thing to you?

And what kind of man, lashes out and cusses someone out in public like an idiot? Are her accusations true? If so, maybe you should listen and make a change. If not, then why the fuck are you responding?
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Wed Jan 04, 2012 3:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Composure vs. lashing out
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PS: Its hard to just let it fly. I say things like "ok"..."Whatever".
You aren't keeping your composure, you're being weak. You're saying, "Walk all over me, it doesn't bother me" and then a little later you say "You bitch! Stop fucking walking on me!" and she is confused, because you can't make up your mind.

Set your boundaries clearly. Have your beliefs firmly established in your mind. Nothing that she says can touch or harm those boundaries, even if she refuses to respect them. This is the meaning of composure, the knowledge that the worst she can do is make you reject her.
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