Hey guys, I've been working at a restaurant for about 6 months now. There is one girl who I hit it off with in the beginning, but then I got friend-zoned.

I got pissed about it and stopped talking to her, now I starting going out again with the work crew to bars and I'm getting good feedback. Since then there has been another new girl who I started chasing, but shes out of my league, so I'm thinking it would be good to just practice my flirting skills with her, or could that backfire if the other chick hears or see's me do it?

Now this is another issue, i'm trying to get into the social circle. How exactly do I get in. I was thinking of having parties at my place and selectively inviting people, would that up my social value and get me in? even though i know they would just be using me for a place to party. What do I do if after my parties the queen bee still doesn't respect me, do I invite her to the next party or not? would she convince people not to show up if I left her out?

TL:DR Friend-zone but spark was reignited, whats the next move and how do you get into a social circle? having parties?

Thanks

Uh be her friend.. Is she your only option? Can you not get with any other women? Keep a friend, and just move on to another woman. Guys act like little girls about things like this. If your game wasn't on point enough, which it wasn't (emotional issues? thats bullshit dude) just keep her as a friend. And really be genuine about it, treat her like she is one of your boys. DONT try and escalate anything with her. Treat her like a guy and maintain a solid friendship with a female. There is nothing wrong with that. Not ever girl has to be turned into a fuck toy. There are plenty of other women for that out there.

She'll obviously want you when she sees you don't need her and are perfectly fine with being her friend. However, you will have moved on so far(i hope) that you won't want her anyway.

And Stop being a wimp, your texting her way too much. Thats why you were friend zoned in the first place.