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| Author: | Ktine [ Wed Jan 04, 2012 1:50 am ] |
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There is this girl that we hang out and i told her couple of times that she is cute and i like her. Tried to push it for a kiss but it never worked. One night i got pissed and asked her why she is so cold and and all that crap when i try to kiss her. She replayed with "because i think that you want me only for sex", which i told her that if i wanted i could find it somewhere else, and it would be way easier, and i want her for her. After that a little bit more of talking and i asked her if she wants us to be just friends or more than friends. When i asked it she was preparing to leave and asked for a hug. At this point i was like fuck it, shes not giving me an answer. Then after the hug she grabs my head and starts kissing me with her tongue (my first tongue kiss btw) for about 10 sec , said "that is your answer" and then left me wondering wtf just happened. The next days i tried to kiss her but she pulled back and gave me just the chick, each fucking time. I don't understand sup with her, she did the big step to kiss me and now when i try its like not working. |
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| Author: | AznPersuasion [ Wed Jan 04, 2012 2:51 pm ] |
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Games games games. Freeze her out. Seriously, she's just playing around and doesn't really want to sleep with you. If she did, she would have already. She seems to be stringing you along and knows that you want her. She's going to keep you at arms length until she feels that you may be drifting away and/or gone. Give her the gift of missing you. It's not that you want to be ignore her completely so much as you want to stop initiating contact. She can get a hold of you, and that's okay, but let her realize you aren't willing to chase her down and be messed with so much like you have in the past. You don't need her and she shouldn't get that impression. |
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| Author: | Txacoli [ Wed Jan 04, 2012 3:28 pm ] |
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How old are you? I think it's actually just her ASD. Ask her on an actual date and make her your girlfriend. Very young girls can be like that. Don't become a total AFC, but she probably wants you to reassure her you're really interested in more than sex. That being said, you shouldn't become her little dog and everything AznPersuasion said is valid. But she just may need to feel you're really into her as a person and you'll stick around even after you have sex with her. |
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| Author: | andd95 [ Wed Jan 04, 2012 4:06 pm ] |
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agreed it seems like an age thing, most young/inexperienced women don't want to be seen as "easy" or what have you. I would also freeze her out or next time you hang out point to your cheek so she kisses you. Look disinterested and expect that she will follow through to your commands. |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Wed Jan 04, 2012 5:08 pm ] |
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Just stop trying to kiss her... I don't see why you keep doing the same thing over and over expecting a different result. A freeze out isn't necessary... Just treat her like she is one of your buddies, she'll begin making moves on you. |
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