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Author:  knlp18 [ Fri Dec 07, 2007 11:53 pm ]
Post subject:  One-itis

So basically, there's this chick that I cannot avoid thinking about, no matter how hard I try. Here's why: our interests are common to the point that all my friends (musicians who I will likely see and play with for the rest of my life) are the same as hers, or at least know her. She always--and I mean always--comes up in conversation. I don't have to bring her up, but somehow we always end up talking about her. Her reputation is this: people all across the country are AMAZED to find out that there is a musician who, in addition to being a talented player, is an ATTRACTIVE FEMALE.

Facts to know about our relationship:
1) I had a huge crush on her a couple years ago and everybody knew it. I've never learned so much at one time because I've never fucked up my chances so much with one girl. But I did find out later that she had an iffy-crush on me as well, which is pretty amazing, because I did everything wrong.
2) She's extremely flirty, in a cute way--not dirty. Because of this, I'm never sure if I'm connecting with her, or if it's just that she's like this with any guy she finds remotely attractive.
3) I definitely think, however that there are little things that I have shared with her personally (stupid things like different faces we make at each other at various points throughout a day).
4) At one point in the past year, she was literally on top of me, and within my grasp. But there were three things stopping me: my friend was in the room at the time, I was hesitant (see # 6), and I was just nervous in general, and not on top of my game.
5) She lives across the country from me.
6) She has a boyfriend.
7) There are no better specimen that I know of--I can relate to no one as well as I can relate to this girl, the cause of my one-itis.

What the FUCK should I do?

--Peace

Author:  that_guy [ Sat Dec 08, 2007 12:05 am ]
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if she has a boyfriend and is willing to fool around, then u DEFIANTLY should not expect anything serious, if she were to say dump him for u, then expect her to do the same to you fro the next guy. but if ur just looking for some lovin' then i say go for it. Personally i would talk to other women to get try to lose the one-itis, but have her around.

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