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| Author: | amatpua [ Tue Jan 03, 2012 1:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Huge IOI, direct game |
I asked this question here - clear-ioi-bypass-game--vt119856.html?highlight= If you meet a girl, its your first meeting, her eyes convey what she wants and you ask her 2,3 questions about her then you reciprocate and convey your desire and she laughs in playful manner, you hold her hands and she lets you hold it, can you just straight away go for relocation and kiss or you need to go through PUA steps of rapport and comfort of atleast 15-20 mins. Asking this question cause : 1. Its a work environment case 2. I asked her once, tried to verbalize things, she said no. Then I realized I should have just done it, second time I tried to build some rapport and do some talking and that zen like attraction didn't occur again, it was like going from level 10 back to 6 to build momentum for level 10. But I have another chances. |
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| Author: | Giacomo Casanova [ Tue Jan 03, 2012 1:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Huge IOI, direct game |
I went through that link. You can't skip the process. They should all be gone through before you can make out with her. Skipping the steps are like making a house without a basement. The process of this whole game is Open, Attract, Build Comfort, Seduce and Close. By the look of it, you opened and attracted but didn't build comfort to start seduction before you close.  You asked her one and she said No. I didn't get what you were verbalizing.
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| Author: | amatpua [ Tue Jan 03, 2012 3:21 am ] |
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I asked her out i.e. external relocation since its workplace . It was afternoon time first she seemed interested but later her mood changed. I think I gave too much time to think. Anyone with strong direct game , did you try missing steps. Subsequently I did try to build comfort but my mid game is bit weak. I intermittently again face those zen like attraction states while talking when she likes something I say else my talking is rather not proceeding. I am trying micro escalation and kino but have to limit them as its workplace. She likes dhv, usually gets irritated with cocky funny and negs - I think I need to practice them but on subsequent talks I see the effect neg had as she starts qualifying herself. Now I try to just say that's I have plans with my friends this weekend and there are some excellent places to visit so she herself joins in but she doesn't . So in all I am beating around the bush when there is clear attraction. |
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| Author: | Bamp [ Tue Jan 03, 2012 5:17 am ] |
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Or maybe your approach is in the wrong environment. Get her out of the office for lunch and pick up your game there. Don't even ask just tell her lunch at this place at this time and be prepared to do this as many times as you see fit till she agrees. Never let a woman think about anything cause you rarely get a second chance but if this is where you want to be its obvious she is uncomfortable with an office relationship so move it outside. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Tue Jan 03, 2012 1:40 pm ] |
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steps, and direct game, do not go together, direct is just being congruent, and expressing your intent, and what you want (hopefully sexuality if that is what you want), you can number close in under two minutes and not have a flake with a simple you are cute, screen her for a bit, say you got to go, get her number, then start texting her right away and follow up, she either likes you or she doesn't, she either gives compliance or she doesn't, there are no magical steps and doing mystery method in complete order can hurt you just as likely as it can help you, it works good in night club settings where girls are used to needy pussy guys approaching them all night but is not the blueprint to all women, all women are different |
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