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| Author: | danthedan [ Mon Jan 02, 2012 12:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Getting too smiley/excited, talking too fast |
I'm usually a fairly shy guy, particularly given my non-existent track record with girls (zero #/k/f-closes), but I can come across as confident & witty sometimes, and make her laugh. Only problem is, especially if it's a pretty girl, I can get a bit overexcited that I'm actually in her presence and getting her attention. Then I think I get a bit too smiley, laugh too much (she laughs too), and start talking too fast. Is this going to be a big turn-off? If so, how can I control it? |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Mon Jan 02, 2012 12:46 pm ] |
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honestly, there are two ways you could go with that. the first way is to try to learn to control/hide/mask your excitement so you can come across as smooth and in control. however, the second way is to learn to focus that "energy rush" you get from a really hot chick and channel it into escalating. you might be able to create an uber-sexual vibe and just roll with it. |
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| Author: | Defy [ Mon Jan 02, 2012 5:57 pm ] |
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Quote: honestly,
It's very hard to control your emotions, they'll give you away. there are two ways you could go with that. the first way is to try to learn to control/hide/mask your excitement so you can come across as smooth and in control. Quote:
the second way is to learn to focus that "energy rush" you get from a really hot chick and channel it into escalating. you might be able to create an uber-sexual vibe and just roll with it.
This is actually a good advice.Long term solution for this is to expose yourself as much as you can to these situations, improve yourself as a whole. And one day you'll find yourself in a club and you'll be looking in hot girls eyes from a few inches and stand there in silence and be totally comfortable with yourself. And you'll know that you deserve that kinda girl. You'll feel worthy. Best of luck, Defy |
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| Author: | 0uch [ Tue Jan 03, 2012 9:54 am ] |
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I use to have this problem. Honestly, I think it's better then getting nervous. Shows that your having fun talking to girls. But is bad for sexually escalating and it lowers your value. Take this as a positive signs of you improving. But you have to control it and slow down the talking, and maintain good eye contact. |
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