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| Author: | Ivy2012 [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 5:55 pm ] |
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This is my first post on this forum and I need help with something I encountered recently. I am currently a junior in high school, and one of my best friends who graduated last year came back for Christmas break and began hanging out with the girl he knew I liked. He has know for a Long time. Anyway, he ended up asking her out, and she said yes. I think she never expected me to ask her out. I like her a lot. What should I do to get her back and break up with this guy who lives far away at college anyway? He isn't much of a friend anyway |
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| Author: | Reo [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 6:23 pm ] |
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How could he steal something you never had? No one to blame here but yourself the girl never knew you liked her like that. Did you expect her to wait around for you to finally get the courage to ask her out? Your friend came in saw you weren't making any moves to get the job done and just said fuck it I'm going to get her. You could learn a lesson from your homie. Next time you like a girl make your move ASAP. |
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| Author: | Ivy2012 [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 7:13 pm ] |
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Quote: How could he steal something you never had?
No one to blame here but yourself the girl never knew you liked her like that. Did you expect her to wait around for you to finally get the courage to ask her out? Your friend came in saw you weren't making any moves to get the job done and just said fuck it I'm going to get her. You could learn a lesson from your homie. Next time you like a girl make your move ASAP. Understood. But considering I like this girl a lot, should I try talking to her still? Or should I leave her be? I'm hoping eventually with the long distance it wont work out. |
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| Author: | Snake Doctor [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 7:33 pm ] |
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Trully you are not best friends. He for going behind your back when he knew you like her.. And you for seeking revenge. Go find better friends. Leave this girl be, and be happy with the guy who had balls to ask her out. Nice lesson to be learned. |
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| Author: | Bouncerr [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 7:33 pm ] |
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Dude one quick note: your friend hasn't got the girl yet;) Now there are a few options: -Try to pick the girl up for real -Leave it -Befriend her -Use her for exercise Choose the one you like:) |
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| Author: | papichulo818 [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 7:40 pm ] |
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How can you "get back" that which you never had to begin with? |
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| Author: | Ivy2012 [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 7:46 pm ] |
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Quote: How can you "get back" that which you never had to begin with?
Well she and I were really good friend and now after all of this she barely talks of texts me . I just want her friendship back. But now everything is kinda awkward
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| Author: | 0uch [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 9:17 pm ] |
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Sorry to say, you were in the friend zone. If you don't sexually escalate with women, this is where you end up. You never had her, so your best friend didn't steal her from you. |
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| Author: | Slip n Slide [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 9:22 pm ] |
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Well she and I were really good friend and now after all of this she barely talks of texts me . I just want her friendship back. But now everything is kinda awkward
lol no you don't. You never wanted her friendship. You wanted her love and approval. Your chance with this girl has passed, find another. |
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| Author: | Vietman100 [ Tue Jan 03, 2012 8:57 pm ] |
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You never made a move, therefore, you can't go around spouting that your best friend isn't much of a friend. You're just angry because you didn't have the balls when your friend did, and he came back with results. And now you're wishing and seeking advice to turn his efforts into failure just so you can pick up the remaining pieces. Listen pal, its not your best friend who isn't the friend. YOU ARE THE SNAKE HERE. Leave your friend and the girl alone, meet another girl, and grow a fucking pair. |
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