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| Author: | Hejsan [ Fri Dec 30, 2011 10:42 am ] |
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Hey Lads, Since one month I am not a vergin anymore and its good to know that even I can make it. I lied about having some previous girlfriends but I guess when you can fuck that girl on the first lay for 1 hour until your muscles ace she believed that lie. She is 23 (HB7) and me 2 so our lives are still open. However after the first lay the girl feeled the urgent need to tell me some crazy stories about her past via the facebook and SPAM chat. She had been sexually abused more or less from the age of 7 to 17. Then she lived with the police and started to study. Then she met her ex fiance and they were together for 2 years. During that time she got more or less addicted to some drugs. However she broke up and is clean now for the last 2 years. In the last two years she started to study again and shes going to finish her master this summer. She does not like herself, her live and takes some antidepressiva. People warn from engaging relationships with some LSE persons. However I am not sure if there could be still something made out of this. She is close to her previous family. She does have a cat to which shes also very close. Thats also uncommon for a LSE person as far as I read it. However since this is the first girl I banged I dont want to drop my first success so quickly. Whats your opinion about this? |
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| Author: | tedwood [ Fri Dec 30, 2011 11:51 am ] |
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Now it would depend upon the context as to how you laid her. Did you take her home the first night you met her or did you date her before she gave away the goods? If you met her on the first night stay away from the LTR option. Personally I've dated a girl who I laid on the first night and later on I found out she had all sorts of issues. Unfortunately I had to find out the hard way, luckily this girl Is telling you all about it. You should be looking to keep her as a fuck buddy but nothing less, just leave her if she just wants to be friends. Good luck! |
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| Author: | Hejsan [ Fri Dec 30, 2011 12:01 pm ] |
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Okay stuff is we met over university so the previous stuff and all the attraction building up has been made at the lecture room. Like over 5 or 6 times meeting without any sexual background. I made her laugh a lot and did some presentation everybody was scard of but for me it was just normal business. Thats where the attraction and social proof came from. The first official date did take place at my appartment in Sweden with some dinner and then she escalated and 3 more lays followed. After the first one she told me her story to make me decide if I want to continue this or not. I told her honestly I dont have any clue if I could make it but I want to try. She wants definately some LTR. However there is also one other issue: Now I am back in Germany for 10 more days before it gets back to sweden. She however stays in Paris for some internship. This will be until next august. She is into me and wants to meet me here in Germany or back at her place. She is willing to invest thats amount of travel (4 hours by train/car). I however dont want some DLTR with about 6 hours of travel from Sweden to Paris. |
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| Author: | tedwood [ Fri Dec 30, 2011 12:14 pm ] |
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Quote: I however dont want some DLTR with about 6 hours of travel from Sweden to Paris.
There you go. You're going to have to let her know so no confusion is caused. She could come over and have sex with you but if you feel that way about the distance then I wouldn't go for a relationship.
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| Author: | Hejsan [ Fri Dec 30, 2011 2:11 pm ] |
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Yep, we discussed it already at some point and the outcome was a lay. However she stated all the time that she wants a LTR whereas I was concerned about the distance. Also I don't want to dump her just by ignoring her phone calls. Is there any good way at the moment that I can convert her into a normal friend? I am willing to chat one or twice per week or so with her. I mean its good to have some friends all over the world. |
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