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Author:  applepie12321 [ Fri Dec 30, 2011 6:36 am ]
Post subject:  face gone completely flush when talking to women
I have read a few books about pickup, and also watched the pickup artist by mystery.
but haven't done any field test yet, so i would consider myself as a complete newbie.

The problem that prevent me doing approaching is my face will go completely red when i talk to women, or even some random strangers. and sometimes i am sweating myself when talking to them.
it is not a slight red, it is the kind of asian flush red.

are there ways to make my face less red?
or is it just a lack of confidence makes me sweat and flush when talking to women and strangers??
Author:  detox75 [ Fri Dec 30, 2011 8:04 pm ]
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its lack of confidence, make approaching and opening a habit while convincing yourself that you are higher status then the person you are approaching, and it wont happen. I can say from shared experience, this nervousness is caused by low self esteem in relation to your target.
Author:  applepie12321 [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 12:26 am ]
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thank you very much.

didn't thought of that!!
any reading u recommend to give myself that motive??

is this part of the game called the 'inner game' btw?
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 12:55 am ]
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thank you very much.

didn't thought of that!!
any reading u recommend to give myself that motive??

is this part of the game called the 'inner game' btw?
I'm going to steer you away from PU books, but give you a couple suggestions. Awaken the Giant is a great guide for a successful life. The Power of Now can become your spiritual and practical guide for always being happy, confident, etc.

And yes, your mental-emotional state and your control of it is inner game.
Author:  applepie12321 [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 1:42 am ]
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thank you very much.

didn't thought of that!!
any reading u recommend to give myself that motive??

is this part of the game called the 'inner game' btw?
I'm going to steer you away from PU books, but give you a couple suggestions. Awaken the Giant is a great guide for a successful life. The Power of Now can become your spiritual and practical guide for always being happy, confident, etc.

And yes, your mental-emotional state and your control of it is inner game.
thank you, i will definitely look into those book
Author:  kasabi [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 2:21 am ]
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Besides women, what type of 'random strangers' trigger similar symptoms?
Author:  detox75 [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 2:23 am ]
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I don't like that giant book tbh, I find Anthony Robbins to be bubble gum and cheesy.

I would work on inner game, which would be anything by David DeAngelo, especially his 77 laws of success with woman.

I would also make a list of your best qualities and realize you are a worthy person that people would be happy knowing and in the case of woman, humping.
Author:  applepie12321 [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 6:26 am ]
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Besides women, what type of 'random strangers' trigger similar symptoms?
someone like a cool guy or some sales from fashion stores.
what's my problem :oops:
Author:  applepie12321 [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 6:29 am ]
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I don't like that giant book tbh, I find Anthony Robbins to be bubble gum and cheesy.

I would work on inner game, which would be anything by David DeAngelo, especially his 77 laws of success with woman.

I would also make a list of your best qualities and realize you are a worthy person that people would be happy knowing and in the case of woman, humping.
is anything a book?
or do u mean any matrial published by david deangelo??

and which book is th 77laws of success with woman in??
i would be interested to have a look

thanks
Author:  kasabi [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 6:34 am ]
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Besides women, what type of 'random strangers' trigger similar symptoms?
someone like a cool guy or some sales from fashion stores.
what's my problem :oops:
Look, I'm a country boy from a rural little town in Asia. I have NO IDEA what you mean by a 'cool guy'. Can you describe him form me? Also, What the heck is "sales from fashion stores"? What do these people look like? What do they do? How do they interact with you? You might not know them, but give me your thoughts on a typical 'cool guy's' background. What is the back ground of a sales person from fashion stores? How do they look? What is their personality?
Author:  applepie12321 [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 6:58 am ]
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Besides women, what type of 'random strangers' trigger similar symptoms?
someone like a cool guy or some sales from fashion stores.
what's my problem :oops:
Look, I'm a country boy from a rural little town in Asia. I have NO IDEA what you mean by a 'cool guy'. Can you describe him form me? Also, What the heck is "sales from fashion stores"? What do these people look like? What do they do? How do they interact with you? You might not know them, but give me your thoughts on a typical 'cool guy's' background. What is the back ground of a sales person from fashion stores? How do they look? What is their personality?
they are very enegetic, at least they look like it.
they wear fashion clothing, kind of like every sales in the store is peacocking.
they just walk to u when u are in a store and talk to u about what they sell,
i guess it is a bit like i am being approached??

and when i say cool guy, i mean people with girls around, tall, muscular guy, people with wide social circle........ and mostly, people who wear differently, peacocking.

i also blush when i am doing presentaion in front of people, or when everyone is looking at u for some reason.
Author:  detox75 [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 6:27 pm ]
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Hey Slip, the best thing I ever found on inner game was 77 laws, its a short audio presentation by DDA and it kicks ass, I think its about 90 minutes. Amazing stuff for inner game.

Apple I know exactly what your describing. I remember as a high schooler and even in college I would walk into a store with "cool" guys like a surf shop or shoe store and I would hope they ignored me. When they started asking me if I needed help I would start sweating and get nervous. As I said before that was because I thought they were so much cooler then me, that they would laugh and mock me if they knew what an uncool nerd I was. So what you described I empathize with completely. In addition if you feel this way around attractive woman, which I did, you have 0% chance of getting with them, no way no how, so your need to overcome this feeling is 100% legitimate.

Now that I'm a confident man with very good inner game I scoff and laugh at people like this trying to act cool. I know I have great positive assets that exceed theirs(thats what I have programmed myself of at least) so I have no reason to be nervous around them or most woman. This is where you need to get to and it will take time. Work on yourself.
Author:  0uch [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 8:09 pm ]
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RSD - Blueprint.

It's long. I watched it about 4 times. The more approaches and better you get at pick, the more sense it will make to you. It literally sky rocket your inner game or confidence.
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Sat Dec 31, 2011 8:49 pm ]
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Hey Slip, the best thing I ever found on inner game was 77 laws, its a short audio presentation by DDA and it kicks ass, I think its about 90 minutes. Amazing stuff for inner game.
Just watched the first 12 minute segment on youtube (began with #8?). Fantastic recommendation.

I've found a new level of success with women recently, and its been by adopting a lot of those principles that he talks about, its great to see them vocalized. I'll keep watching and this will almost definitely be a recommendation to others.

Also going to check the Blueprint out.
Author:  applepie12321 [ Sun Jan 01, 2012 8:13 am ]
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Hey Slip, the best thing I ever found on inner game was 77 laws, its a short audio presentation by DDA and it kicks ass, I think its about 90 minutes. Amazing stuff for inner game.

Apple I know exactly what your describing. I remember as a high schooler and even in college I would walk into a store with "cool" guys like a surf shop or shoe store and I would hope they ignored me. When they started asking me if I needed help I would start sweating and get nervous. As I said before that was because I thought they were so much cooler then me, that they would laugh and mock me if they knew what an uncool nerd I was. So what you described I empathize with completely. In addition if you feel this way around attractive woman, which I did, you have 0% chance of getting with them, no way no how, so your need to overcome this feeling is 100% legitimate.

Now that I'm a confident man with very good inner game I scoff and laugh at people like this trying to act cool. I know I have great positive assets that exceed theirs(thats what I have programmed myself of at least) so I have no reason to be nervous around them or most woman. This is where you need to get to and it will take time. Work on yourself.
i think i am in the same boat u was before.

how did u gain that confident?? i tried keep saying to myself that i am Superior to them, or things like that, but it doesn't work quite well. especially when i didn't expect them to come by.

thanks you very very much anyway
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