Recently i've been seeing tons of posts about whether or not looks matter,
probably from average/under average looking guys who feel a bit unconfident
because of so many reasons i can think of.
The truth is : They do!
But it doesnt mean that you have to get out of your mother's womb
looking like fucking brad pitt.
Looking attractive doesn't mean being beautiful and it never will.
I've seen tons of semi good looking girls take a few moments(Try hours!!!) to
tend to their looks and viola :
we end up saying to ourselves "Check out that hot babe, i bet if i take a wet towel and wipe her face i'll probably reveal a troll beneath
but i dont care, she's hot right now"
This can also be said to you average looking guys searching the forum looking for the lost answer to the question "How can i look beautiful?"
when lets face it : some of us dont have the genes!
So how do you look attractive?
Simple...Try bringing out the best of yourself in every aspect, and right now
i'm only discussing physical appearance
I'll take myself for an example :
I got curly hair, dark oily skin that even at my age of 23 loves to surprise me with that complimentary zit once in a while,
height about 1.79 Cm, i was really skinny a few years ago,
had hair on my chest more than you'd like to have and not the best taste of clothing
How did i deal with each of these so called flaws?
- Clothing : Bought new clothes that fitted me best, were stylish and not geeky in any manner.
- Curly hair : Every 2 weeks i take a hair cut in order to prevent a total train wreck on my head
- Skinny : Went to the gym...Amazing how positively this affected my life
- Oily skin : Bought tons of cleansing soaps and shit, and if i feel the need i put a bit of makeup on my face...why?
cause i wanna look the best i can, and feel the best i can!
- Body Hair : Bought a shaving machine and every 2 weeks treated myself with its gental touch until i decided to do laser surgery. feels fuckin awesome!
Furthermore, I grew a nice goatee, I shave every 2 days even though I hate doing that cause i find the alternative of looking like a primate to be quite crappy, I try to smell good every part of the day,
I always wear a bit of jewelery but that's just one of my own fetishes
and I smile alot cause i got great teeth.
Now im not telling you this for you to say "Wow thats so awesome, good for you" even though i wont mind if you will
Im telling you this so you'll understand that everything has a solution and if you feel that something is bothering you, it can be changed/treated in any method you choose.
Of course that there is a limit to every solution,
but each one of us should try to bring out his 100 %
the only problem is - these things cost money so be aware that you'l'l invest a small sum, but there's nothing more important than feeling good with yourself!
Thats the whole point of the game...oh yeah and women too.
So dont be afraid to : Shave your private parts,
grow a cool beard,
buy new clothes that you never imagined to set foot in your wardrobe,
try on a new cologne that's fashionable, go work out a bit or whatever!
Just try and be your best, cause thats fucking attractive!