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Younger girls are obviously easier because they're up to try new things. But if your a mature guy and serious older girls respond better to that. Younger girls are more into the fun guy or "party guy".

I would not call younger girls lower value they're just less experienced and are willing to experiment.

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Well I'm 'mature' in that I'm quiet, but I've been told I'm emotionally immature, which is hardly surprising considering I'm a virgin!

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I would not call younger girls lower value they're just less experienced and are willing to experiment.

No I don't mean are they actually lower value, I mean do they think they're lower value because they're younger? Does an older guy automatically have (relatively) high value (and therefore more chance of getting sex with her) just because of his age?

I'm in my mid 20s and if I can't get women my own age (either through not looking manly/old enough or not being very mature or confident) would I be better off trying for younger girls a few years younger than me, like 18-20? Does their younger age make them less experienced & 'lower value', and hence 'easier'? Or is that just a misconception?

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So older girls don't like you. Why don't you try fixing yourself instead of thinking the girls are wrong?

Work on your own maturity. Develop a skill, which takes time and hard work. Work on your own values and life goals. See a clear path for your life (not a set in stone one, just steady improvement) and the maturity will come.

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So older girls don't like you. Why don't you try fixing yourself instead of thinking the girls are wrong?

I don't think the girls are 'wrong' at all, I just think I'm obviously inadequate for them. Therefore I'm trying to find some way to try and find a decent-looking girl who actually wants me. If this means going for girls much younger than me (or maybe women with psychological problems or very poor/deprived women) just to find someone decent-looking that I'm actually good enough for, then so be it, I guess that's just the lot I've drawn in life.

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But I've already worked very hard all my life for my grades, degree and now very well-paid steady career with good prospects. Yet that still doesn't seem to be good enough for girls as a 'clear path for my life' that I've worked for with plenty of time and hard work. :S

My main life goals are to make money and to get girls; anything else is just a trivial passtime, like twiddling one's thumbs. I've succeeded well in the first goal, but failed miserably on the girls one. :S Where can I find golddiggers whose love I can buy?

This is a really cool post for me. It's like you're describing exactly the mistake you're making. You even realize that it's a mistake, through your own experience, saying "I'm obviously inadequate" and yet "I've already worked very hard."

Those two statements do not go together for me. Working hard will always make you adequate to the person who values the things you've worked hard for.

So let's look at your case. You have worked hard to get money. You're looking for golddiggers who value money, and I expect you could get one. Unfortunately I don't know where to find them.

So what do girls who aren't golddiggers value? What could you work hard for that would inspire them to like you?

Well, in my experience, a lot of things. Strong social skills is the one that's pushed most often on this site. Having good social skills is certainly useful, and everyone on the planet values them. But there are plenty of other things!

Musical or artistic talent. You may think you "cant" have these for whatever reason, but I promise you can. Drawing and painting have often been developed since the artist was 5 years old, so it's a little hard to compete. Photography is a great one though, if you want to get some decent results early on. It will still take time to get good. Lots of time and work. Music is the same, but there is no instrument that you can pick up and instantly be good at. TIME AND WORK.

Athletic talent. Get good at a sport. What girl wouldn't want to see her boyfriend go dominate at a soccer game?

Spirituality. Here's a strange one. Being spiritual is something that you can develop, and it's something attractive. Here's why. Spiritual people put out an aura, a positive vibe to those around them. This is a fact that I have observed countless times. Being able to talk about spirituality is also very attractive to girls. If you decide to begin this quest, I recommend reading these 3 books in order: The Power of Now, The New Testament, Plato's Republic. From there let your own interest guide you.

Good luck!

I seriously couldn't give a damn what skills or talents a girl has; she could be illiterate, dirt-poor, barely able to speak, no social skills at all, not good at anything or interested in anything, and she would still be good enough for me as long as she looked nice and wanted to shag me.

The only thing I want is to find a decent-looking girl who wants to do sexual things with me, without me having to pay her for it. If I could just find a girl like that, it would send my self-esteem & happiness sky-high. That's seriously what I need to feel valued and feel like my life is actually worth living: the fact that any decent-looking girl actually wants me.

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That is exactly why, you are still a virgin.

I'm sure your old enough to know how big of a role attitude and perception plays in life.

NO woman wants a man that thinks the way you just expressed yourself there.

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Once again, the reason you are a virgin...

No girl can give me all the things I need to be happy. I'm happy without a woman. Hell, I'm good looking, i make decent money and I'm smart as hell, honestly It's tough out here to find any womans thats close to good enough for me. Why wouldn't every woman and her mother want me? Why should I give this girl or that girl my time? How will I benefit from having sex with this girl. What does she have to offer. - Try that attitude.. Say it 50x a day for 2 weeks, it should stick

I'm not going to pat you on the back and baby you bro..

Confidence is an aura, the women do have an idea whats going on in your head because 80% of what you saying isn't your words. Also a womans intuition is 10x greater than a mans. So they can pretty much feel what your thinking, luckily women arent as judgemental as men.

I know fat guys, that don't look like half a shit, they are pulling decent ass. I see it all the time. Unless you feel like you deserve the sexy girls you wanna bang so bad, you will NEVER get them.

Stop wimping around, are you even making attempts at approaching the sexy girls you want.?

Thats also one way to jump start you confidence. All the education in the world isn't going to get you in a womans pants...

Hell, just pay for sex dude or stop crying an do something about it.

Living proof that money can't buy happiness, and your a fool if you think a woman is the way to happiness

Author:	danthedan [ Mon Dec 26, 2011 5:01 pm ]
Post subject:	Are younger girls easier?
I'm in my mid 20s and if I can't get women my own age (either through not looking manly/old enough or not being very mature or confident) would I be better off trying for younger girls a few years younger than me, like 18-20? Does their younger age make them less experienced & 'lower value', and hence 'easier'? Or is that just a misconception?

Author:	AmazingArt [ Mon Dec 26, 2011 6:47 pm ]
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Younger girls are obviously easier because they're up to try new things. But if your a mature guy and serious older girls respond better to that. Younger girls are more into the fun guy or "party guy". I would not call younger girls lower value they're just less experienced and are willing to experiment.

Author:	danthedan [ Mon Dec 26, 2011 7:08 pm ]
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Quote: Younger girls are obviously easier because they're up to try new things. But if your a mature guy and serious older girls respond better to that. Younger girls are more into the fun guy or "party guy". Well I'm 'mature' in that I'm quiet, but I've been told I'm emotionally immature, which is hardly surprising considering I'm a virgin! Quote: I would not call younger girls lower value they're just less experienced and are willing to experiment. No I don't mean are they actually lower value, I mean do they think they're lower value because they're younger? Does an older guy automatically have (relatively) high value (and therefore more chance of getting sex with her) just because of his age?

Author:	Warped Mindless [ Mon Dec 26, 2011 7:09 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Younger girls are obviously easier because they're up to try new things. But if your a mature guy and serious older girls respond better to that. Younger girls are more into the fun guy or "party guy". Well I'm 'mature' in that I'm quiet, but I've been told I'm emotionally immature, which is hardly surprising considering I'm a virgin! Quote: I would not call younger girls lower value they're just less experienced and are willing to experiment. No I don't mean are they actually lower value, I mean do they think they're lower value because they're younger? Does an older guy automatically have (relatively) high value (and therefore more chance of getting sex with her) just because of his age? Stop thinking of shit in terms of "value." Its weird and creepy! And yes, younger chicks are easier.

Author:	Slip n Slide [ Mon Dec 26, 2011 8:02 pm ]
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Quote: I'm in my mid 20s and if I can't get women my own age (either through not looking manly/old enough or not being very mature or confident) would I be better off trying for younger girls a few years younger than me, like 18-20? Does their younger age make them less experienced & 'lower value', and hence 'easier'? Or is that just a misconception? So older girls don't like you. Why don't you try fixing yourself instead of thinking the girls are wrong? Work on your own maturity. Develop a skill, which takes time and hard work. Work on your own values and life goals. See a clear path for your life (not a set in stone one, just steady improvement) and the maturity will come.

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Author:	danthedan [ Mon Dec 26, 2011 8:16 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: I'm in my mid 20s and if I can't get women my own age (either through not looking manly/old enough or not being very mature or confident) would I be better off trying for younger girls a few years younger than me, like 18-20? Does their younger age make them less experienced & 'lower value', and hence 'easier'? Or is that just a misconception? So older girls don't like you. Why don't you try fixing yourself instead of thinking the girls are wrong? I don't think the girls are 'wrong' at all, I just think I'm obviously inadequate for them. Therefore I'm trying to find some way to try and find a decent-looking girl who actually wants me. If this means going for girls much younger than me (or maybe women with psychological problems or very poor/deprived women) just to find someone decent-looking that I'm actually good enough for, then so be it, I guess that's just the lot I've drawn in life. Quote: Work on your own maturity. Develop a skill, which takes time and hard work. Work on your own values and life goals. See a clear path for your life (not a set in stone one, just steady improvement) and the maturity will come. Thanks for the advice, but I feel I've already worked very hard all my life for my grades, degree and now very well-paid steady career with good prospects. Yet that still doesn't seem to be good enough for girls as a 'clear path for my life' that I've worked for with plenty of time and hard work. :S My main life goals are to make money and to get girls; anything else is just a trivial passtime, like twiddling one's thumbs. I've succeeded well in the first goal, but failed miserably on the girls one. :S Where can I find golddiggers whose love I can buy?

Author:	Slip n Slide [ Mon Dec 26, 2011 8:35 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Quote: I'm in my mid 20s and if I can't get women my own age (either through not looking manly/old enough or not being very mature or confident) would I be better off trying for younger girls a few years younger than me, like 18-20? Does their younger age make them less experienced & 'lower value', and hence 'easier'? Or is that just a misconception? So older girls don't like you. Why don't you try fixing yourself instead of thinking the girls are wrong? I don't think the girls are 'wrong' at all, I just think I'm obviously inadequate for them. Therefore I'm trying to find some way to try and find a decent-looking girl who actually wants me. If this means going for girls much younger than me (or maybe women with psychological problems or very poor/deprived women) just to find someone decent-looking that I'm actually good enough for, then so be it, I guess that's just the lot I've drawn in life. Quote: Work on your own maturity. Develop a skill, which takes time and hard work. Work on your own values and life goals. See a clear path for your life (not a set in stone one, just steady improvement) and the maturity will come. But I've already worked very hard all my life for my grades, degree and now very well-paid steady career with good prospects. Yet that still doesn't seem to be good enough for girls as a 'clear path for my life' that I've worked for with plenty of time and hard work. :S My main life goals are to make money and to get girls; anything else is just a trivial passtime, like twiddling one's thumbs. I've succeeded well in the first goal, but failed miserably on the girls one. :S Where can I find golddiggers whose love I can buy? This is a really cool post for me. It's like you're describing exactly the mistake you're making. You even realize that it's a mistake, through your own experience, saying "I'm obviously inadequate" and yet "I've already worked very hard." Those two statements do not go together for me. Working hard will always make you adequate to the person who values the things you've worked hard for. So let's look at your case. You have worked hard to get money. You're looking for golddiggers who value money, and I expect you could get one. Unfortunately I don't know where to find them. So what do girls who aren't golddiggers value? What could you work hard for that would inspire them to like you? Well, in my experience, a lot of things. Strong social skills is the one that's pushed most often on this site. Having good social skills is certainly useful, and everyone on the planet values them. But there are plenty of other things! Musical or artistic talent. You may think you "cant" have these for whatever reason, but I promise you can. Drawing and painting have often been developed since the artist was 5 years old, so it's a little hard to compete. Photography is a great one though, if you want to get some decent results early on. It will still take time to get good. Lots of time and work. Music is the same, but there is no instrument that you can pick up and instantly be good at. TIME AND WORK. Athletic talent. Get good at a sport. What girl wouldn't want to see her boyfriend go dominate at a soccer game? Spirituality. Here's a strange one. Being spiritual is something that you can develop, and it's something attractive. Here's why. Spiritual people put out an aura, a positive vibe to those around them. This is a fact that I have observed countless times. Being able to talk about spirituality is also very attractive to girls. If you decide to begin this quest, I recommend reading these 3 books in order: The Power of Now, The New Testament, Plato's Republic. From there let your own interest guide you. Good luck!

Author:	danthedan [ Mon Dec 26, 2011 8:57 pm ]
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Quote: This is a really cool post for me. It's like you're describing exactly the mistake you're making. You even realize that it's a mistake, through your own experience, saying "I'm obviously inadequate" and yet "I've already worked very hard." Those two statements do not go together for me. Working hard will always make you adequate to the person who values the things you've worked hard for. So let's look at your case. You have worked hard to get money. You're looking for golddiggers who value money, and I expect you could get one. Unfortunately I don't know where to find them. So what do girls who aren't golddiggers value? What could you work hard for that would inspire them to like you? Well, in my experience, a lot of things. Strong social skills is the one that's pushed most often on this site. Having good social skills is certainly useful, and everyone on the planet values them. But there are plenty of other things! Musical or artistic talent. You may think you "cant" have these for whatever reason, but I promise you can. Drawing and painting have often been developed since the artist was 5 years old, so it's a little hard to compete. Photography is a great one though, if you want to get some decent results early on. It will still take time to get good. Lots of time and work. Music is the same, but there is no instrument that you can pick up and instantly be good at. TIME AND WORK. Athletic talent. Get good at a sport. What girl wouldn't want to see her boyfriend go dominate at a soccer game? Spirituality. Here's a strange one. Being spiritual is something that you can develop, and it's something attractive. Here's why. Spiritual people put out an aura, a positive vibe to those around them. This is a fact that I have observed countless times. Being able to talk about spirituality is also very attractive to girls. If you decide to begin this quest, I recommend reading these 3 books in order: The Power of Now, The New Testament, Plato's Republic. From there let your own interest guide you. Good luck! Interesting stuff, thanks. But I'm still a little unsure and confused. Why will girls only sleep with a guy if he is good at something like sports, music, art or spirituality? I don't look that bad and I'm fairly muscular, so why can't a girl just sleep with me without caring about what talents/skills I have, just to enjoy my body? I seriously couldn't give a damn what skills or talents a girl has; she could be illiterate, dirt-poor, barely able to speak, no social skills at all, not good at anything or interested in anything, and she would still be good enough for me as long as she looked nice and wanted to shag me. I feel I could get into those kind of hobbies you list, but I'm just not passionate about anything like that. Also I can imagine spending years trying to get good at a hobby, only to find that girls in clubs don't care what musical instrument I can play or how well I can draw/paint. That would then be a complete waste of time. When I've gone speeddating in the past (rejected by every single girl, every time, naturally!) none of the girls seemed to have hobbies apart from 'going out with their friends', so I'm wondering how much value a hobby would give me. :S The only thing I want is to find a decent-looking girl who wants to do sexual things with me, without me having to pay her for it. If I could just find a girl like that, it would send my self-esteem & happiness sky-high. That's seriously what I need to feel valued and feel like my life is actually worth living: the fact that any decent-looking girl actually wants me. I thought having a good education, a great career and money absolved me of the need to have hobbies, charisma etc.

Author:	EddieFews [ Mon Dec 26, 2011 10:36 pm ]
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Quote: I seriously couldn't give a damn what skills or talents a girl has; she could be illiterate, dirt-poor, barely able to speak, no social skills at all, not good at anything or interested in anything, and she would still be good enough for me as long as she looked nice and wanted to shag me. That is exactly why, you are still a virgin. I'm sure your old enough to know how big of a role attitude and perception plays in life. NO woman wants a man that thinks the way you just expressed yourself there. Quote: The only thing I want is to find a decent-looking girl who wants to do sexual things with me, without me having to pay her for it. If I could just find a girl like that, it would send my self-esteem & happiness sky-high. That's seriously what I need to feel valued and feel like my life is actually worth living: the fact that any decent-looking girl actually wants me. Once again, the reason you are a virgin... No girl can give me all the things I need to be happy. I'm happy without a woman. Hell, I'm good looking, i make decent money and I'm smart as hell, honestly It's tough out here to find any womans thats close to good enough for me. Why wouldn't every woman and her mother want me? Why should I give this girl or that girl my time? How will I benefit from having sex with this girl. What does she have to offer. - Try that attitude.. Say it 50x a day for 2 weeks, it should stick

Author:	danthedan [ Mon Dec 26, 2011 10:48 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: I seriously couldn't give a damn what skills or talents a girl has; she could be illiterate, dirt-poor, barely able to speak, no social skills at all, not good at anything or interested in anything, and she would still be good enough for me as long as she looked nice and wanted to shag me. That is exactly why, you are still a virgin. I'm sure your old enough to know how big of a role attitude and perception plays in life. NO woman wants a man that thinks the way you just expressed yourself there. Maybe not, but how would they know I think that? Besides, if they somehow liked the way I look, why would they care what's going on in my head as long as I like the way they look too? Quote: Quote: The only thing I want is to find a decent-looking girl who wants to do sexual things with me, without me having to pay her for it. If I could just find a girl like that, it would send my self-esteem & happiness sky-high. That's seriously what I need to feel valued and feel like my life is actually worth living: the fact that any decent-looking girl actually wants me. Once again, the reason you are a virgin... No girl can give me all the things I need to be happy. I'm happy without a woman. Hell, I'm good looking, i make decent money and I'm smart as hell, honestly It's tough out here to find any womans thats close to good enough for me. Why wouldn't every woman and her mother want me? Why should I give this girl or that girl my time? How will I benefit from having sex with this girl. What does she have to offer. - Try that attitude.. Say it 50x a day for 2 weeks, it should stick Hmm thanks I'll try that, but I don't think I'm good-looking, I'm probably average at best, I mean no girls ever look at me so I can't be that special looking. As a (very randy & desperate) member of the human species, my only purpose in life is to have sex with sexy girls. It's impossible to think I have any worth as a sexual being when I'm constantly ignored by girls because I don't look hot enough for them. I'd benefit massively from having sex with a decent-looking girl, as it feels so damn good! I know how good it feels because I've been with escorts, and it would feel miles better if the girl actually wanted me! The big problem for me is, despite all the good things about me you listed, no girls want me, rendering all the good things null and void.

Author:	EddieFews [ Mon Dec 26, 2011 11:03 pm ]
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I'm not going to pat you on the back and baby you bro.. Confidence is an aura, the women do have an idea whats going on in your head because 80% of what you saying isn't your words. Also a womans intuition is 10x greater than a mans. So they can pretty much feel what your thinking, luckily women arent as judgemental as men. I know fat guys, that don't look like half a shit, they are pulling decent ass. I see it all the time. Unless you feel like you deserve the sexy girls you wanna bang so bad, you will NEVER get them. Stop wimping around, are you even making attempts at approaching the sexy girls you want.?Thats also one way to jump start you confidence. All the education in the world isn't going to get you in a womans pants... Hell, just pay for sex dude or stop crying an do something about it. Living proof that money can't buy happiness, and your a fool if you think a woman is the way to happiness

Author:	gtdave [ Tue Dec 27, 2011 12:28 am ]
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When I was younger than 25 I found younger girls easier but once I turned 25 older girls became easier All seems to be easier than girls my own age lol Could never work that out!! It's a joke among my mates how older women seem to go for me at the moment

Author:	danthedan [ Tue Dec 27, 2011 12:48 am ]
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Quote: I'm not going to pat you on the back and baby you bro.. Confidence is an aura, the women do have an idea whats going on in your head because 80% of what you saying isn't your words. Also a womans intuition is 10x greater than a mans. So they can pretty much feel what your thinking, luckily women arent as judgemental as men. I know fat guys, that don't look like half a shit, they are pulling decent ass. I see it all the time. Unless you feel like you deserve the sexy girls you wanna bang so bad, you will NEVER get them. How is this? What do they care what I think I deserve, all they care is what my face looks like. :S I'd like to meet these fat guys and find out their secret! Quote: Stop wimping around, are you even making attempts at approaching the sexy girls you want.? Yes I have asked a few girls out (rejected each time!) and have been speeddating a few times, but I got rejected by all the girls every single time, despite being confident & friendly with each one, and even trying different approaches & conversation styles! I didn't even get any Maybes! You try going through all that with NO yesses, and see how your self-confidence looks afterwards! Quote: Thats also one way to jump start you confidence. All the education in the world isn't going to get you in a womans pants... Yeah they should teach 'getting girls' at school/University, it is after all the most important & yet insanely frustratingly difficult skill in life. Quote: Hell, just pay for sex dude or stop crying an do something about it. I do pay for sex, but I need a decent-looking girl to actually want me in order to feel worthy of continuing to live! Quote: Living proof that money can't buy happiness, and your a fool if you think a woman is the way to happiness Yeah I was thinking actually, even if I won the lottery I would be no happier because I still wouldn't be getting girls, all I would get is more escorts!

Author:	EddieFews [ Tue Dec 27, 2011 12:57 am ]
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well good luck to you dude.. If you don't feel you life is worth living without a woman you could also buy a nuance, or over dose on sleeping pills. Good Luck

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Author:	young adonis [ Tue Dec 27, 2011 10:53 am ]
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You seem frustrated man, get yourself together. To me it seems that your frustration plays yourself apart, you start with the attitude that you will fail. You always have to feel that you will succeed, eventhough you might never have succeeded, because you will portray this convidence to the girls instead of the frustrated attitude which you have at the moment. And for younger girls being easier, this has 2 sides in my opinion. 1. The girls want to gain experience and try things to get to know what they like and they are more 'playful' and don't care as much about being a slut. 2. Older guys act more alpha to younger girls since they have the feeling that they have more value over the girls, which might not be true, but this idea will boost their convidence which will be portrayed in their actions and they will take the roll of a leader on them. Every girl would like such an alpha man, but not enough guys realise that if they would have the same attitude with older girls, they also would succeed.