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| Author: | JustinJamesAdams [ Sat Dec 24, 2011 9:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How do i translate a friend to something more? |
There’s this girl I want to translate from friend into being my Girl Friend, or at the very least get her in bed (again). I known her for two years, this girl knows I like her, and she has claims to like me but also says she’s unsure about me. We’ve went on dates and we’ve slept together once a few months back. What can I do to get her to be in a relationship with me or at the very least sleep with me again. |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Sat Dec 24, 2011 9:38 pm ] |
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So what is it that you want.. sex or a relationship. You sound desperate.. Thats error # 1 |
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| Author: | JustinJamesAdams [ Sat Dec 24, 2011 9:58 pm ] |
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I want a relationship |
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| Author: | JustinJamesAdams [ Sun Dec 25, 2011 4:49 pm ] |
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Ok, say you were me, how would you do with both scenarios . 1. Say If you wanted a relationship with a particular girl that you have a friendship with, but it was was a little more complex (you already slept together once before, she knows u have feels for her, she expresses some feelings for you but at the same time says shes not sure) 2. Now in scenario #2; Say you didn't really care if a relationship did develope, but wanted to continue having sex with her cause she is amazing in bed. How would you go about it in that manner? |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Sun Dec 25, 2011 6:20 pm ] |
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Quote: Ok, say you were me, how would you do with both scenarios .
1. Say If you wanted a relationship with a particular girl that you have a friendship with, but it was was a little more complex (you already slept together once before, she knows u have feels for her, she expresses some feelings for you but at the same time says shes not sure) 2. Now in scenario #2; Say you didn't really care if a relationship did develope, but wanted to continue having sex with her cause she is amazing in bed. How would you go about it in that manner? I would invite her over to my place to hang out and just get sexual and touchy. |
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| Author: | Bane82 [ Sun Dec 25, 2011 10:04 pm ] |
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Sounds like you have the comfort now you need to raise the attraction and make her see you in a different light. Break rapport with her, tease her, disagree with her and work on getting the qualities that women find attractive such as confidence, ambition and leadership. The kind of guy who inspires other people and is in control of his own destiny. Virtually everything I have learned has been from Adam Lyons, he is quite literally the only PUA ive come across that makes sense to me. I do have to stress that I havent read up on that many other PUA's so I am not discrediting the work of others in the community. David D spends hours and hours talking about theories and a bunch of stuff that wont help you and his cocky and funny material strikes me as being arrogant and weak. Tried it once and the girl said "you do realise that arrogance is unattractive, dont you" I felt like an arse because I was trying to be something I am not. I like the theory of the mystery method although opening with a neg and telling a girl a story about getting a blow off a stripper job story five minutes into an interaction and going out with pre scripted routines strikes me as weird. |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Dec 26, 2011 1:37 am ] |
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http://sashapua.com/get-out-of-the-friendzone/ |
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| Author: | JustinJamesAdams [ Tue Dec 27, 2011 1:03 am ] |
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I read the link, and i actualy agree with everything thats said, simply cause we used to work the same job, and as soon as a few girls liked me at my job, she wanted to hang out more. Same with cutting contact..if i don't talk her, in about 3 days she will contact me...but heres the problem She is in school to be a nurse, does and internshp and works a job, her social life at this point is almost null, so we dont hang out really and when she does get free time she dosen't want to spend it with me. So is there anything i could do with this? I feel like she could make an effort to see me more if get her back to flirting with her and such like we were mounths ago. |
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| Author: | JustinJamesAdams [ Thu Jan 19, 2012 8:41 pm ] |
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I found two intresting things. First with this girl, i ignore her for less then a day and she started to talk more. She even asked if i was mad at her cause I didn't say good morning to her. I also found that if i keep dialog short and one worded answers she seems to be more flirty. With another girl whom i asked out months ago, we went out on one date, then she gave me "lets just be friedns speech" She would hang out with me with other friends only and she would text me a million times a day. At a certain point her texting to me was getting annoying so i started to ignore her. and now she want to explore dating me again...soo wierd |
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