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| Author: | 2dope [ Sat Dec 24, 2011 11:40 am ] |
| Post subject: | Worth trying to get my girlfriend back? |
So my ex and i broke up randomly while i was out of the city online. Her parents are pretty strict and found out we've been talking and saw some dirty/retarded things i said and basically made her life hell 'till she was done with me, and i didn't want to be an asshole and make her stay with me while her parents hated her so we ended it and we both told eachother we hoped things would go better later. For months we didnt talk until i saw her at a party randomly. I didnt approach her or anything, but right before she left, she came and hugged me, and it was a legit hug that i could tell she really missed me, then left. We talked a little on tumblr cuz its pretty private and her parents wont find out, after the day at the party, then i told her to text me and she never did. I never messaged back after that. My friend that went to school with her randomly texted me and told me she still missed me a lot and is obsessed with me, and i guess its a good thing. But she also told me that she found out she got a new boyfriend which made no sense. I know that my friend didn't just say it to make me feel good and that she still has feelings for me, but she got a new boyfriend.. wth. As pissed as i got when i found out she got a boyfriend (and i saw a picture she posted to know its real) it made me extremely jealous, but made me also remember a lot of really good times i had with her, and that i actually might want her back. Basically my question is.. should i completely forget her for getting a new boyfriend, or should i man up and talk to her again? -i know it was a major bitch move for getting a bf especially after the reason i thought she dumped me was cuz her parents are strict, but then i have no idea.. By the way, i know the new douchebag boyfriend, and he's some sleazebag that would hit on every girl to try to get lucky. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Sat Dec 24, 2011 11:49 am ] |
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her new boyfriend sounds cool, well, move on man, your own fault for not managing your expectations and living for yourself, be considerate of others, but love yourself first, you come before her, be selfish, this is your life, its your show, you run the show not her, what she wants is not important, it should be considered, but maybe in the future if you want to date a girl, you have to just ask yourself what do I want, then express that, instead of doing what other people want you to do just to please them, do what you want, be a leader not a follower |
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| Author: | 2dope [ Sat Dec 24, 2011 11:56 am ] |
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I like her a lot, and i know she likes me, and im not gonna let some douchbag get my girl.. any tips on how to even start to try and get her back? |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Sat Dec 24, 2011 12:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Worth trying to get my girlfriend back? |
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Basically my question is.. should i completely forget her for getting a new boyfriend, or should i man up and talk to her again?
completely forget her for getting a new boyfriend
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| Author: | 2dope [ Sun Dec 25, 2011 12:15 am ] |
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I just don't get that if she would have so many feelings and emotions for me, why she would go get another bf.. but yea best thing is to forget her |
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| Author: | Holden [ Sun Dec 25, 2011 1:04 am ] |
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Quote: I just don't get that if she would have so many feelings and emotions for me, why she would go get another bf.. but yea best thing is to forget her
You were a happy part of her life. She liked what you HAD. Your in the friend zone at this moment. Want to get her back? Start getting numbers and dating/laying other chicks. No one is attracted to an emotionally attached shut-in. Prove you're still a catch and that you "got away" from her. My advice: Move on, because she has. Don't close the door to the future possibility of being with her, But don't be a bitch doorman waiting for her arrival. |
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| Author: | 2dope [ Sun Dec 25, 2011 2:13 am ] |
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Damn, perfect answer.. thanks a lot dude |
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| Author: | Snake Doctor [ Sun Dec 25, 2011 2:22 am ] |
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Think Fuze nailed it! |
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