PUA Forum :: Does skin color matter?

Great question.

In short, colour does not matter.

In fact, I;ve heard somewhere that women are biologically wired to go for something differenct (because the genetics means that if a baby is produces, theres more genes to choose from; the effect being a higher chance of a healthy baby)...

This doesnt mean that all the women will be attracted to you just because your different, because attraction is no longer about looks as we have come to find... it's more about the way you behave and what you can demonstrate... DHV's etc.

Forget about the whole race thing. You need to learn about all the attraction switches you need to turn on in a woman; confidence being a big one.

So the fact that my friend told me that this girl only dates white guys or a girl says I only like white guys is BS. It can be changed?

girls have types, yes it matters, looks matter, social status matters, financial status matters, your personality matters, don't take it personally, it is the same as a guy only liking black chicks, just a preference, can you defeat it by being awesome?, fuck yeah you can, but if the girl is dead set on not getting with you, she is dead set on not getting with you, might as well not waste your time on a waste of time, spend your time finding girls that want to fuck you, the girls whos preference is you, don't get caught up on specific girls, just try to get girls in general and go out more

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Okay cause this girl I like only dates white guys she's a flirt. But she would always seriously flirt with me before I landed in her friend zone. I was just curious on how the dynamics works.

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Okay cause this girl I like only dates white guys she's a flirt. But she would always seriously flirt with me before I landed in her friend zone. I was just curious on how the dynamics works.

friend zone doesn't exist, there is only the too unattractive zone, and the pussy zone, do your best to not be in either of those zones, all that matters is compliance, will she talk to you if so it is compliance, will she let you touch her, if so it is compliance, will she be alone with you if so you have compliance, will she make out with you, if so compliance, will she let you feel her up? yes? compliance, on and on, you get the point, if you don't get compliance, just be a better person in every aspect you can (in other words be fun to be around and keep trying, without needing anything to happen), don't set your heart on specific girls, try to get all girls and don't get clingy or attached to a specific one, your thoughts and actions will align with this and neediness will shine through, go out and try to get girls in general stop fixating on this one, game her as normal as you would any other girl, but don't place any special importance on her, i know you wont listen, but you should, eventually you will realize you do this with girls that are the most invested in you, once you realize you can de-tach yourself and fix the neediness before it happens, preemptively solving the problem

Author:	s5lover [ Fri Dec 23, 2011 12:03 pm ]
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Hi I'm 17 and Indian from NJ. Everyone here is Italian. I love Italian woman I feel like all Italian girls go for italian guys though. I don't think it matters in the long run. I'm in high school and I have mexican guy dating one of the most hottest italian chicks. Some girls say they only like white guys is this bs I think it is. I'm Indian but I grew up around Italians so I act like them haha. What are your thoughts does skin color matter in the long run?

Author:	garuda1 [ Fri Dec 23, 2011 3:43 pm ]
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Great question. In short, colour does not matter. In fact, I;ve heard somewhere that women are biologically wired to go for something differenct (because the genetics means that if a baby is produces, theres more genes to choose from; the effect being a higher chance of a healthy baby)... This doesnt mean that all the women will be attracted to you just because your different, because attraction is no longer about looks as we have come to find... it's more about the way you behave and what you can demonstrate... DHV's etc. Forget about the whole race thing. You need to learn about all the attraction switches you need to turn on in a woman; confidence being a big one.

Author:	s5lover [ Fri Dec 23, 2011 5:50 pm ]
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Quote: Great question. In short, colour does not matter. In fact, I;ve heard somewhere that women are biologically wired to go for something differenct (because the genetics means that if a baby is produces, theres more genes to choose from; the effect being a higher chance of a healthy baby)... This doesnt mean that all the women will be attracted to you just because your different, because attraction is no longer about looks as we have come to find... it's more about the way you behave and what you can demonstrate... DHV's etc. Forget about the whole race thing. You need to learn about all the attraction switches you need to turn on in a woman; confidence being a big one. So the fact that my friend told me that this girl only dates white guys or a girl says I only like white guys is BS. It can be changed?

Author:	charblad [ Fri Dec 23, 2011 5:52 pm ]
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Quote: So the fact that my friend told me that this girl only dates white guys or a girl says I only like white guys is BS. It can be changed? Yes it can be changed, I really don't date black women, but there are exceptions. Same with girls

Author:	pumpington [ Fri Dec 23, 2011 5:58 pm ]
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girls have types, yes it matters, looks matter, social status matters, financial status matters, your personality matters, don't take it personally, it is the same as a guy only liking black chicks, just a preference, can you defeat it by being awesome?, fuck yeah you can, but if the girl is dead set on not getting with you, she is dead set on not getting with you, might as well not waste your time on a waste of time, spend your time finding girls that want to fuck you, the girls whos preference is you, don't get caught up on specific girls, just try to get girls in general and go out more

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Author:	s5lover [ Fri Dec 23, 2011 6:38 pm ]
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Quote: girls have types, yes it matters, looks matter, social status matters, financial status matters, your personality matters, don't take it personally, it is the same as a guy only liking black chicks, just a preference, can you defeat it by being awesome?, fuck yeah you can, but if the girl is dead set on not getting with you, she is dead set on not getting with you, might as well not waste your time on a waste of time, spend your time finding girls that want to fuck you, the girls whos preference is you, don't get caught up on specific girls, just try to get girls in general and go out more Okay cause this girl I like only dates white guys she's a flirt. But she would always seriously flirt with me before I landed in her friend zone. I was just curious on how the dynamics works.

Author:	pumpington [ Fri Dec 23, 2011 6:44 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: girls have types, yes it matters, looks matter, social status matters, financial status matters, your personality matters, don't take it personally, it is the same as a guy only liking black chicks, just a preference, can you defeat it by being awesome?, fuck yeah you can, but if the girl is dead set on not getting with you, she is dead set on not getting with you, might as well not waste your time on a waste of time, spend your time finding girls that want to fuck you, the girls whos preference is you, don't get caught up on specific girls, just try to get girls in general and go out more Okay cause this girl I like only dates white guys she's a flirt. But she would always seriously flirt with me before I landed in her friend zone. I was just curious on how the dynamics works. friend zone doesn't exist, there is only the too unattractive zone, and the pussy zone, do your best to not be in either of those zones, all that matters is compliance, will she talk to you if so it is compliance, will she let you touch her, if so it is compliance, will she be alone with you if so you have compliance, will she make out with you, if so compliance, will she let you feel her up? yes? compliance, on and on, you get the point, if you don't get compliance, just be a better person in every aspect you can (in other words be fun to be around and keep trying, without needing anything to happen), don't set your heart on specific girls, try to get all girls and don't get clingy or attached to a specific one, your thoughts and actions will align with this and neediness will shine through, go out and try to get girls in general stop fixating on this one, game her as normal as you would any other girl, but don't place any special importance on her, i know you wont listen, but you should, eventually you will realize you do this with girls that are the most invested in you, once you realize you can de-tach yourself and fix the neediness before it happens, preemptively solving the problem

Author:	s5lover [ Fri Dec 23, 2011 7:19 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Quote: girls have types, yes it matters, looks matter, social status matters, financial status matters, your personality matters, don't take it personally, it is the same as a guy only liking black chicks, just a preference, can you defeat it by being awesome?, fuck yeah you can, but if the girl is dead set on not getting with you, she is dead set on not getting with you, might as well not waste your time on a waste of time, spend your time finding girls that want to fuck you, the girls whos preference is you, don't get caught up on specific girls, just try to get girls in general and go out more Okay cause this girl I like only dates white guys she's a flirt. But she would always seriously flirt with me before I landed in her friend zone. I was just curious on how the dynamics works. friend zone doesn't exist, there is only the too unattractive zone, and the pussy zone, do your best to not be in either of those zones, all that matters is compliance, will she talk to you if so it is compliance, will she let you touch her, if so it is compliance, will she be alone with you if so you have compliance, will she make out with you, if so compliance, will she let you feel her up? yes? compliance, on and on, you get the point, if you don't get compliance, just be a better person in every aspect you can (in other words be fun to be around and keep trying, without needing anything to happen), don't set your heart on specific girls, try to get all girls and don't get clingy or attached to a specific one, your thoughts and actions will align with this and neediness will shine through, go out and try to get girls in general stop fixating on this one, game her as normal as you would any other girl, but don't place any special importance on her, i know you wont listen, but you should, eventually you will realize you do this with girls that are the most invested in you, once you realize you can de-tach yourself and fix the neediness before it happens, preemptively solving the problem Well I told her I liked her and it's akward between us for now cause I sit with her at lunch and all our friends found out she said now she's 2 years younger btw. I got put in the needy I can use you for attention zone. Oviously it will get akward. Before this she would rub her hands on me and let me poke her. Now she's uncomfortable around me the first day but I was on the phone with her brother he's one of my good friends and she said hi and what's up and I told her to forget about this. What I'm saying is I have to make massive improvement before I can try again and succeed. She's a player flirt kind of girl so I really want to score this to prove it to myself. Keep in mind I'm also going to be going after better girls. This is just a LONG term goal.

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