I goto malls all the time to practice Prashant so I know exactly what you're
talking about. You see the hot girl in front of you, you so badly
want to approach but then 1000 thoughts begin swirling in
your mind and you start doubting your own capabilities
and if you should even approach at all. I've had that
alot, it's not the greatest feeling in the world, but
trust me once you learn to acknowledge it in
your path it will evolve into learning
experiences rather than failures.
Thing is, if you want to approach quality women
you're going to have to know how to interact
with them accordingly in order to atleast
keep them interested/talk with you
for a brief moment. The interaction
doesn't even have to be long, it
can be under 10 seconds if
need be. Don't force
yourself into intimidating routines
until you learn the basics.
You don't even have to
approach 10's or girls
that are supermodels
at this time. Ease
yourself into it. Once you
feel more confident in yourself,
raise the bar a little bit higher and
approach better quality women.
At the bottom is my link to my youtube
channel, there you'll find a video I
did with my camera on a beautiful
women, the video is called
"Coffee Shop Opener", if you want to
move away from your approach
anxiety but still have a simple
yet effective opener, that is
the best one. I specifically
made that video for AFC's
or guys with approach
anxiety who want
to see how an easy
approach like that is
done. It's not meant to
be a super routine in getting
her number, its just to get you used
to interacting with women you find attractive!
I know what you're going through
in terms of approach anxiety man,
you might be scared of what she
might say, think or do during
the interaction. I can tell
you this, if you show
respect and don't come
off as a threat towards
women, plus show them
a friendly smile...they'll
be quite open to have a chat.
Hope that helps
