PUA Forum
https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/

She flakes on the text
https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=123875		 Page 1 of 1
Author:  NickStar [ Wed Dec 21, 2011 6:37 pm ]
Post subject:  She flakes on the text
Met a girl on Sunday night, spend the night together. Generally she was very attracted gave loads of iois and even invited me to a party on Thursday and said she's gonna pick me up. I asked for logistics and she had to get up really early on Monday Night.

So exchanged a few texts on the night after we split up and she told me to text her when I go home. I texted that I'm gonna text her tmrw. And Yesterday I texted her once with a random message - she repplied. I texted her for 2nd time with flirty kiss routine but she never replied.

So my 2 questions are:
1 Do I text her tomorrow or Freeze her and wait for her to text me whenever?
2 If I text her tomorrow should I text her " When are you picking me up?" or something else?
Author:  charblad [ Wed Dec 21, 2011 7:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She flakes on the text
Quote:
1 Do I text her tomorrow or Freeze her and wait for her to text me whenever?
2 If I text her tomorrow should I text her " When are you picking me up?" or something else?
Why is the first thing you people do is freeze a girl out? That sh!t doesn't work like you think it will and explains why so many of you have problems.
Text her a day or 2 later, and text her something more fun; the first thing I text a friend when we're gunna hang out isn't "when are you picking me up?". Maybe text her "are you a drinker? I have to know so I can find a designated driver ;)" it will break the ice with a funny, non-pushy, kinda open-ended text that's focused on the party; then you can transition into asking her what time she's gunna pick you up
Author:  NickStar [ Thu Dec 22, 2011 2:05 pm ]
Post subject: 
thanks
Author:  Bamp [ Fri Dec 23, 2011 4:06 am ]
Post subject:  Re: She flakes on the text
Quote:
Quote:
1 Do I text her tomorrow or Freeze her and wait for her to text me whenever?
2 If I text her tomorrow should I text her " When are you picking me up?" or something else?
Why is the first thing you people do is freeze a girl out? That sh!t doesn't work like you think it will and explains why so many of you have problems.
Text her a day or 2 later, and text her something more fun; the first thing I text a friend when we're gunna hang out isn't "when are you picking me up?". Maybe text her "are you a drinker? I have to know so I can find a designated driver ;)" it will break the ice with a funny, non-pushy, kinda open-ended text that's focused on the party; then you can transition into asking her what time she's gunna pick you up
Exactly way to early to throw a freeze cause its not gonna work as you wish. Keep it playful and simple...put her off.balance by not being afc
Author:  Serj [ Fri Dec 23, 2011 5:24 am ]
Post subject: 
If you post the texts we can help you more to see where you went wrong.
Author:  NickStar [ Fri Dec 23, 2011 5:36 am ]
Post subject: 
So after we were in taxi together she left with her friend and I texted :
The taxi driver asked me "Why didn't you go with the girls, are you gay"
I got 3 texts from her after that: 1st " And your response was ... yes ... and what haha !x
2nd "Text me when you get in xx"
3rd ":)x"
at which point i so much know she's attracted... So I just sent her"And he said if u're gay get off my taxi now! And kicked me out ha. I'll text u tmrw "
Then she keeps textin me : " Oh my days...x" - that's an expression I used all the night instead of oh my god
I sent her back " Ay?!? " - which is part of her accent... and she sent me one more message that I don't even know what it ment " Krum!! xx"
Then On the next day I messeged her " So do you understand the plan ? :)?"
She said "What plan? x"
My response " For every thing I guess about you I get a kiss " - then she never texted back. I even texted her " Are you a drinker? I have to know so I can find a designated driver " today but as i was expecting she didn't reply... WHICH IS SO FUCKING WEIRD why if a girl is attracted would just stop texting you ....................................... but anyway I don't care now I met some cool girls tonight :D
Author:  charblad [ Fri Dec 23, 2011 7:45 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
My response " For every thing I guess about you I get a kiss " - then she never texted back. I even texted her " Are you a drinker? I have to know so I can find a designated driver " today but as i was expecting she didn't reply... WHICH IS SO FUCKING WEIRD why if a girl is attracted would just stop texting you
Unless you've already kissed I'd leave out her "owing" you a kiss for being right. It's sexual escalation not bam here it is, try talking about touching her, or some romantic situation, not "since i remember your name wanna bang?" lead up to the moment (and I wouldn't do it over text, but it's still do-able)
The line I gave you was supposed to be a opener, it wasn't meant to get her to want to reply to you lol sorry you misunderstood
Quote:
"Why didn't you go with the girls, are you gay" "And your response was ... yes ... and what haha"
This is a problem you needed to deal with before it was said, make sure she knows you arn't gay (in a not obvious way, saying "btw I only like women" has never worked for me before XD) Even though it may be a joke you need to make sure she doesn't really think this (this used to affect my game so much...)
Author:  pushkidman [ Fri Dec 23, 2011 8:54 am ]
Post subject: 
You really need to take it easy with these routines. Most of them turn girls off now.
Don't you guys have any imagination and wit at all?
Author:  NickStar [ Mon Dec 26, 2011 1:00 am ]
Post subject: 
thanks guys it's really helpful to tell me that i've done something wrong even though i know that and not telling me how to improve :)
Author:  Jay86 [ Tue Dec 27, 2011 12:46 am ]
Post subject: 
A little trick I like to use to open a text Convo after a few days or an awkward last Convo is the "mistake text" and that works like this...

Let's say her name I Sarah, the text I would send her could read

"hey Sabrina had so much fun the other day we have to go there again. Talk to u soon x"

She will text back asking why she got that text from you, failing that you text her 10 minutes later and explain...

"Hey Sarah, sorry about that I clicked on the wrong name lol, but how are you? Staying out of trouble I hope x"

This does a lot, it makes her think you haven't consciously been thinking wether to text her or not.
Shows her she isn't the only female in your life.
Tells her you have been having fun, everyone likes fun so she may be intrigued to know wher you went with "Sabrina"

Give it a go, always works for me

Jay86
Author:  [deleted] [ Tue Dec 27, 2011 2:13 am ]
Post subject: 
So you sent a couple bad texts a couple days ago and you want to restart?

At this point you need to use text messaging to build comfort. Later you can use it to promote attraction with push/pull texts or by setting up some kind of hang out where you two can chill.

Take your time sending this text but if its been about 5 days you can write something like,
"Hey [girls name] its been awhile...how have you been?"

Use that to start a convo. In the text conversation don't ask her to hang out and don't make it to sexual. right now you're just two friends texting each other. Don't ask her for anything except her facebook unless you already have that.
Page 1 of 1 All times are UTC
Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group
http://www.phpbb.com/