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Author:  Doodle23 [ Sun Dec 18, 2011 4:52 am ]
Post subject:  How to deal with a girl that is playing games?
Here is my situation: I have been seeing this girl for about a month now. We aren’t really a couple but we are definitely into each other. She is super cool with one significant drawback... She says that she wants to wait for sex until she is married. The weird part is that she isn’t a virgin. I have asked her why she does not want sex and she gave me this really weird response and said “ Because I have made mistakes in the past and I know what happens when I mess around “ She is also a Christian girl and says her beliefs are important. I have not tried to push the issue to hard because I don’t want to put out weird vibes out.

She is definitely into me and texts me either everyday or every other day. I have played it cool and basically told her that I have other girls on the line and she has to play her cards right to be with me. Well last night she was drunk and she “ accidently “ called my voicemail at like 3am.( It was one of those situations where she wasn’t talking but she had her phone on and I could hear everything ) Her and this other guy were laughing and they seemed to be very flirty with each other.

It seems to me like she did this just to try and make me jealous and that she is now playing games with me.It is also annoying me that she has kept saying how religious she is then she goes and calls me while ****faced. What is the best way to handle this bish?
Author:  LD [ Sun Dec 18, 2011 10:41 am ]
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Hey mate!

What do you want? You want to have sex before marriage? Yes? Then she is not the right girl for you. Tell her you really like her, but that you are somebody that loves sex and you dont wish to wait till marriage. If that is something she cant do, then you guys do not fit together.

In a relationship, the most important thing is that you get what you want from it in some form, or it is not meant to last anyway.

Chances are that she is going to see if you mean it and then come back. Then she was playing with you.
Chances are she really is breaking up with you, then she wasnt playing games, but still, you guys dont match in a fundamental way. Its too bad, because she might be really somebody you like, but if you want sex, and she doesnt, you will not last for a year. Splitting is the best option then. You can still be friends though.

DO NOT TRY TO PLAY GAMES YOURSELF. Do not try some manipulative trick or stunts, like trying to make her jealous or playing pulling and pushing or all of sudden be C&F or whatever stupidity would come to your mind. Women play games better then you.

cheers!
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Sun Dec 18, 2011 2:39 pm ]
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i have met alot of christian woman who talked about sex in that manner ..

it's funny that most of them already lost their virginity while they were like 14 or 16...do not believe her words.. it's bullshit.. woman always shit test and always pretend they do not like sex.

they say shit to you like that and meanwhile they suck dick of other guys on saturdays.. meanwhile you worry this whole deal...

just like in the church .. how many priests touch little boys in inappropriate places .. that's how strong their religion is , that's how strong her religion is.. nothing but a bunch of ideas.
Author:  Doodle23 [ Sun Dec 18, 2011 8:31 pm ]
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You guys are going off on these rants about sex or lack thereof. I appreciate that but honestly that isn't a big of a deal to me if that is what she really believes. The problem I am having with her is that she is telling me that she has all of these beliefs yet she " accidently " calls me while drunk at 3am while flirting with another dude.

It is the hypocrisy of the whole thing and not just the simple fact that she wont put out.
Author:  pumpington [ Mon Dec 19, 2011 6:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to deal with a girl that is playing games?
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Here is my situation: I have been seeing this girl for about a month now. We aren’t really a couple but we are definitely into each other. She is super cool with one significant drawback... She says that she wants to wait for sex until she is married. The weird part is that she isn’t a virgin. I have asked her why she does not want sex and she gave me this really weird response and said “ Because I have made mistakes in the past and I know what happens when I mess around “ She is also a Christian girl and says her beliefs are important. I have not tried to push the issue to hard because I don’t want to put out weird vibes out.

She is definitely into me and texts me either everyday or every other day. I have played it cool and basically told her that I have other girls on the line and she has to play her cards right to be with me. Well last night she was drunk and she “ accidently “ called my voicemail at like 3am.( It was one of those situations where she wasn’t talking but she had her phone on and I could hear everything ) Her and this other guy were laughing and they seemed to be very flirty with each other.

this is her being a bitch and showing dis-interest in the best way she can, the accidental im fucking someone else, this was no accident, girls do it when they are either pissed at you (the revenge fuck they want you to know about, if you see this expect it after a shitty breakup) or when they are not interested at all and wan't to get the point accross, aka they flirt with you but want you to know that is all, it is the same thing as flirting and bringing up her boyfriend all the time, or this guy she likes, or w/e else she wants to tell you about that is some other guy she wants to fuck, girls don't tell you that shit unless it is to dis-qualify you

It seems to me like she did this just to try and make me jealous and that she is now playing games with me.It is also annoying me that she has kept saying how religious she is then she goes and calls me while ****faced. What is the best way to handle this bish?
don't handle, don't fix, she is not interested enough, who cares about her, stop contacting her, move on to a new girl for real, don't call her up with stories of the fake girls sucking your cock that she could care less about, go out an actually get a real girl, have sex with her, and parade that girl around this girl, no more stories, do, don't say, make sure the girl is hotter then her

and next time some shit like this happens call it out right away, she talks about a bf, ''hey lets talk about something that matters'', she drunk dials you, send her a text, ''pay attention to your phone girl, it is calling me up in your pocket, that is crazy that your ass can dial numbers so good :P''

as long as you are not dating, you better not get jealous of possesive, after sex, sure why not, but when she isn't even with you telegraphing that sort of thing totally presents the ''you are my property frame'' and if she is continuously presenting that she is sleeping with other guys, you best drop off on interest and just put her in you call me category, and make something happen, if she sucks the D in one day, then she sucks the D in one day, thinking somehow waiting her out and flirting your way to a rejection will change that.. it won't, it is all just manipulation for validation with signs of dis-interest, get her alone, escalate to a yes or a no, don't wait for her approval

GOOD LUCK
Author:  MynameisFisher [ Mon Dec 19, 2011 7:11 am ]
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Yayks. It would be okay for a girl to be playful and mess around a little with my head. It would be okay for her to have believes and I'd respect that and just move on. BUT it would not be okay, that she pretends to be Saint Mary while she's sucking a huge black monster cock and wanks ALL the jizz right in my face. Stop caring about the stupid bitch. Fuck her already, or just move on, but don't let her fuck you up.
Author:  LD [ Mon Dec 19, 2011 7:44 am ]
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You guys are going off on these rants about sex or lack thereof. I appreciate that but honestly that isn't a big of a deal to me if that is what she really believes. The problem I am having with her is that she is telling me that she has all of these beliefs yet she " accidently " calls me while drunk at 3am while flirting with another dude.

It is the hypocrisy of the whole thing and not just the simple fact that she wont put out.
Yo mate,

you are a bit missing the point here, and so did I. You are angry because you believe that she is playing you (in all honesty, i think the same).

There is nothing you can do about it. She did it. You hated it. Do you really wanna be with this girl? Are there really othere girls on the line like you told her or did you just make that up? If you made it up, then you this is what you get when you play tricks yourself :).

decide what it is you want with this girl. If you want a relationship, and dont mind the sex thing till you got married (if the relationship even lasts that long), come clean with your feelings. Tell her first you think she is playing you. See how she reacts. depending on her reaction, tell her how you feel and that you want to move on, either with or without her. Still, i dont really trust women who play games for a LTR, and i still believe she aint right for you. But it is up to you ofc.

If you only want a one time fuck, then just her cold. if she comes after you and asks why she doesnt hear you anymore, just plain tell her that all you want is a good fuck and obviously she aint the right person for that.

cheerios!
Author:  Warped Mindless [ Mon Dec 19, 2011 7:48 am ]
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Stop playing games with her and she might stop with you. But really, go find another girl. Your value dont align, go find a chick whos values are inlign with yours.
Author:  tedwood [ Mon Dec 19, 2011 1:06 pm ]
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I dated a girl who didn't put out and trust me that's a form of playing games as well. Avoid these girls they want to feel needed and make you lose your balls in the process. These types are also the ones that will make you jealous the most because she's not putting out but I guarantee she will openly flirt with your friend in front of you. Leave her and find a new girl.
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Mon Dec 19, 2011 1:26 pm ]
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walk up to her and tell her she can suck your fucking dick..

you feel 1000 times better than hooking up with her only to find out she's a lying manipulative bitch
Author:  Doodle23 [ Tue Dec 20, 2011 3:20 am ]
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LOL that is one option. But I decided to take some of your advice and move on. I didn't respond to her drunken phone call and I haven't bothered to text her or make any contact of any sort over the weekend. But She just texted me saying " Hey stranger ! " and I haven't responded yet.

I now know that this girl isn't long term relationship material. I don't want to toss away pussy just to keep my pride in tact. I think my biggest problem was that I put too much effort into this one girl.
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Tue Dec 20, 2011 4:22 am ]
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LOL that is one option. But I decided to take some of your advice and move on. I didn't respond to her drunken phone call and I haven't bothered to text her or make any contact of any sort over the weekend. But She just texted me saying " Hey stranger ! " and I haven't responded yet.

I now know that this girl isn't long term relationship material. I don't want to toss away pussy just to keep my pride in tact. I think my biggest problem was that I put too much effort into this one girl.
Don't say yet, just don't respond.

Ya put the pussy on a pedestal. You gave her the power of controlling the relationship by selectively giving and withholding the pussy. Don't put up with it dude. It's real simple, if you want sex, the girl better want sex too or your values can't line up. So drop her, let's see if she comes back to you wanting sex.

Don't reply to calls or texts until she asks you whats going on, or whatever to that effect. Then tell her that you dont have the same values, so it won't work. Simple as that.
Author:  Bamp [ Tue Dec 20, 2011 5:28 am ]
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You are way over thinking this for what just a month? I wouldn't waste 1 more second trying to decipher what you think she may or may not want. Btw I dated a pastors kid and while she wouldn't have vaginal sex she loved it up her ass...if you insist on pursuing try that angle
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Tue Dec 20, 2011 2:18 pm ]
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You are way over thinking this for what just a month? I wouldn't waste 1 more second trying to decipher what you think she may or may not want. Btw I dated a pastors kid and while she wouldn't have vaginal sex she loved it up her ass...if you insist on pursuing try that angle
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Author:  LD [ Wed Dec 21, 2011 7:50 am ]
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You are way over thinking this for what just a month? I wouldn't waste 1 more second trying to decipher what you think she may or may not want. Btw I dated a pastors kid and while she wouldn't have vaginal sex she loved it up her ass...if you insist on pursuing try that angle
hehehe, i have heard that it is a sharp angle that one. I love this post :D
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