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Author:  fila [ Sun Dec 18, 2011 12:12 am ]
Post subject:  Pre-Openers??
Hey guys,

I am having trouble opening in bars/clubs. Often I see girls and freeze up.
What is the first thing u say to a women when u see her? Ex.. I often say Hey u both look friendly and I wanted to meet u guys Im "fila"......so what do you guys think of X.

Or maybe.....hey are u guys having fun? Then go into an opener.


What are your pre-openers?
Im not sure if this is coming across clearly, but I hope someone understands :(
Author:  neyos [ Sun Dec 18, 2011 1:01 am ]
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go to them looking like this :? and say, "oh boy you look just the way I feel. had a bad hair day too?"
pretending to have had a lousy day is a great cover up for stress, nervousness, insecurities and lots of newbie flaws which otherwise radiate.

if this don't work, use the pop-PUA stuff. :lol:
Author:  Sharp25 [ Sun Dec 18, 2011 1:44 am ]
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I will either pull her onto the dance floor if there's music or just say "Hey, come here" and just start talking. Skip the small talk and get to the important stuff. If you ask what she does/studies in school? (Why did you choose it? Why no x or x? Where do you see yourself in 10 years?) What excites her or things she fears? Main point being you want her to get comfortable enough to share things generally reserved for close friends.
Author:  0uch [ Sun Dec 18, 2011 2:02 pm ]
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those are great opener, you don't need pre openers. Just have stop focusing on what your saying and work on your body language and energy. Be in moment, and things will come.
Author:  jurupa [ Sun Dec 18, 2011 9:02 pm ]
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There is no such thing as a pre-opener. What ever you first say to that girl is your opener.
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