PUA Forum :: is it an ioi when she tells you her problems ?

i was talking to this girl and i said how was your day and she says bad, and of course i reply with why was it bad ? and then shes starts going on all about her problems with her friends and family, is this an ioi that she opens up to you with her problems ?

Never let a woman you really don't know well involve you into her problematic life. Why? Because the more you hear about her problems, the more she'll associate you with....wait....wait....PROBLEMS.

Whenever a woman starts rumbling about her issues, simply stop her and change the subject to something more enjoyable. Call her out on that:

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No, it's not an IOI...it's just annoying lol.

Never let a woman you really don't know well involve you into her problematic life. Why? Because the more you hear about her problems, the more she'll associate you with....wait....wait....PROBLEMS.

Whenever a woman starts rumbling about her issues, simply stop her and change the subject to something more enjoyable. Call her out on that:

Her: My day was shit...

You: Oh, really?! Well, thank god your day is over! Now it's time to have some fun, so relax...by the way, let me ask you_____

My 2 cents.

Author:	mr.? [ Sat Dec 17, 2011 4:52 am ]
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i was talking to this girl and i said how was your day and she says bad, and of course i reply with why was it bad ? and then shes starts going on all about her problems with her friends and family, is this an ioi that she opens up to you with her problems ?

Author:	PaulJanka [ Sat Dec 17, 2011 6:30 am ]
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Well I don't think I would classify it as one, and even if you did mystery says before you know you're "in" you need three IOI's so did you get any other IOI's if you got at least two more you could count it as one. Unless you got more than one, I wouldn't be 100% sure you were "in"

Author:	bansario [ Sat Dec 17, 2011 7:44 am ]
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Quote: i was talking to this girl and i said how was your day and she says bad, and of course i reply with why was it bad ? and then shes starts going on all about her problems with her friends and family, is this an ioi that she opens up to you with her problems ? No, it's not an IOI...it's just annoying lol. Never let a woman you really don't know well involve you into her problematic life. Why? Because the more you hear about her problems, the more she'll associate you with....wait....wait....PROBLEMS. Whenever a woman starts rumbling about her issues, simply stop her and change the subject to something more enjoyable. Call her out on that: Her: My day was shit... You: Oh, really?! Well, thank god your day is over! Now it's time to have some fun, so relax...by the way, let me ask you_____ My 2 cents.

Author:	Sharp25 [ Sat Dec 17, 2011 8:55 am ]
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Quote: Never let a woman you really don't know well involve you into her problematic life. Why? Because the more you hear about her problems, the more she'll associate you with....wait....wait....PROBLEMS. Whenever a woman starts rumbling about her issues, simply stop her and change the subject to something more enjoyable. Call her out on that: Exactly, women associate their mood with a person by what their conversations are with that person. If a woman is complaining about a previous BF cheating on her I will say along the lines of "Wow, that sucks... I imagine you're in a much better place now." Then ask her about all the good things she has done since. Take the conversation from negative to positive.

Author:	Ruggedized [ Sat Dec 17, 2011 9:12 am ]
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Quote: Quote: Never let a woman you really don't know well involve you into her problematic life. Why? Because the more you hear about her problems, the more she'll associate you with....wait....wait....PROBLEMS. . Hit the nail on the head. She is simply venting to you because she needs to let out a little steam. Sure, ask about her day. If it's bad, change! Get her talking about something deep and meaningful to her. -Ruggedized

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Author:	Beetle [ Sat Dec 17, 2011 9:13 am ]
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Agreed with the posters above, it's not good. If you listen to her, soon you'll hear about her other problems, about her friends, and soon, her boyfriend. And that's some heavy friendzoning.

Author:	Fvckitimout [ Sat Dec 17, 2011 11:51 am ]
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It is an ioi. Aka its an opening. It means shes comfortable to tell you things. However its not a direct interest in you. Most guys fvck it up by actually listening and chit chatting. Thats when you get friend zoned.

Author:	P-Style [ Sat Dec 17, 2011 11:57 am ]
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Author:	Ezo [ Sat Dec 17, 2011 12:05 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: i was talking to this girl and i said how was your day and she says bad, and of course i reply with why was it bad ? and then shes starts going on all about her problems with her friends and family, is this an ioi that she opens up to you with her problems ? No, it's not an IOI...it's just annoying lol. Never let a woman you really don't know well involve you into her problematic life. Why? Because the more you hear about her problems, the more she'll associate you with....wait....wait....PROBLEMS. Whenever a woman starts rumbling about her issues, simply stop her and change the subject to something more enjoyable. Call her out on that: Her: My day was shit... You: Oh, really?! Well, thank god your day is over! Now it's time to have some fun, so relax...by the way, let me ask you_____ My 2 cents. Yes yes, to Obi-Wan you listen. It means that you have comfort but not that you have attraction. Next stop, LJBF zone.

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