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| Author: | hotcold [ Fri Dec 16, 2011 7:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Girl wants to get back with ex but had been hooking up |
Girl obviously wants to get back with her ex. Stopped hooking up with me. How do I proceed? |
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| Author: | charblad [ Fri Dec 16, 2011 7:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: DO I MAKE CONTACT or SHOULD I GIVE UP? |
Quote: Her: Well whats your point then? Do you blame her for not replying? even I wouldn't reply to this text...Me: I guess what I was getting at was I actually managed to find someone who can party just as hard as you. Only difference is shes doesnt bite which I must admit is a bit boring. Your cute drunken ass was still missed. A) you answered her question, which in texting is almost always bad B) you obviously tried to make her jealous, comparing her to another girl every text C) you called her a "cute drunken ass", which I don't know any girls that would find that appealing D) you said you still miss her E) your text was more than 140 characters You can just want to be friends with her, or ditch her altogether unless she initiates more contact; unless you get a miracle those are your best options in my eyes. |
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| Author: | hotcold [ Fri Dec 16, 2011 7:44 pm ] |
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Thanks. So I guess I screwed it up big time. Is there anything I can send to try and fix the mistake I made. I kind of thought making her a bit jealous was a good thing especially as she had blown me off. |
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| Author: | hotcold [ Fri Dec 16, 2011 7:49 pm ] |
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Id really like to have something with this girl again when she moves back to NY next year. Ive always been very sweet to her but I think she likes the whole player attitude opposed to the nice guy. She split from her ex (her choice) he was so upset she didint seem to be affected. Then when he changes tune and agrees they should just be friends now I think she wants him back. I need to create that switch. Any advice? |
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| Author: | WiselyWitty [ Fri Dec 16, 2011 7:50 pm ] |
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ohh man how drunk were you when you were texting her? You should try to apologize and say you were drinking at the time, although doing so may or may not lower your value. You're kind of in a pickle my friend, might as well give it a shot, but the odds arent in your favor. like hotcold said, a mircle |
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| Author: | hotcold [ Fri Dec 16, 2011 7:56 pm ] |
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We were very close for two months and she said she reagrds me as someone very close in her life. She also despite (not feeling like she wanted to hook up anymore) said shed miss me... I really like this girl and got her by being and acting very cool. Should I text her and just say Hey, Did I upset you yesterday? Really didnt mean too darling, was just playing around. Just had so much fun with XX & XXX Or any suggestions? |
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| Author: | charblad [ Fri Dec 16, 2011 8:05 pm ] |
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It's hard to explain why, but apologizing almost never ever works. I don't really have suggestions, just what you shouldn't do lol |
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| Author: | hotcold [ Fri Dec 16, 2011 8:10 pm ] |
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Hahahahahaha. Kinda need a solution. I thought the fact that I annoyed her and then not inniate any more contact would push her buttons to start to miss me. Up until now she had subtly complained that we had been in contact soooo much (we use to text 10 times a day. Until I left a few days ago. Then Ive had very minimal contact with her. Just want to get her thinking about me again |
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| Author: | hotcold [ Fri Dec 16, 2011 11:04 pm ] |
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So I tried to be sweet and sent her the following message which she has read but not replied........ My friends who didnt realise id left, were telling me its a big weekend in London. Still cant believe I never managed to really have one big night out with you. Could have been fun. Hope your having fun & have a drink for me. Do i just leave it now and wait to see if she ever responds or do I ask her whats up? |
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