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| Author: | Netsky [ Wed Dec 14, 2011 2:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | Can't escalate on SHY GIRL |
Long story short, I met this young hot babe at a friends party. Started gaming her before she even got to sit down. I could tell she was very nervous since her responses were so kiddish. At the end of the night, I walked her to her dorm since she was complaining about being tired the entire time (think she was saying that cuz she had nothing better to say) and her friend she came with was leaving. Got her number and 10 mins later she texted me wanting me to come out to see her. I hung out with her several times afterwards and she still acted coy. Tried plenty of times to kiss her and she would deny every moment by looking away. I didn't know if it was her being unattracted or coy so i respected her choice to not allow the situation to happen. She is very bad at texting so i stopped initiating texts and we would barely talk after weeks. Every now and then she texts me to hang out (which i think shes doing to keep me there), I've declined because I was busy a few times. We've gotten together a few times afterwards and then we stopped for about a whole month. Just friday she asked me out again with her friends which I know her new friend enticed after her friend saw me. We hung out, she acted the same way around her friends but when we were alone she was more open but still very hard to kino and move in on for a kiss. I didn't see why though, he friends addressed us as we were together calling me her "boo". My problem is, I don't know what this girl wants. I really haven't initiated a kiss on someone who doesn't meet me halfway. All the girls i've kissed have made it very easy for me. Every girl I've game'd this well has reciprocated more than asked and it's worked for me this whole time til now. I don't know how to land that kiss without forcing it or getting her to want to open up. Any help!? |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Wed Dec 14, 2011 7:50 pm ] |
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Good post, this is actually very common. You mentioned two telltale signs which line up nicely with your issue. She is young and shy. And you said Quote: "I really haven't initiated a kiss on someone who doesn't meet me halfway"
When we debate low level, caveman style Pick up (60 YoC, Gary Brodsky, Furious, etc) vs. High level, coquette gaming Pick up (MM, Love systems, Swinggcat etc) we should realize that some styles work better in different demographics and environments. What you have described here is the type of girl who is young and shy that is going to react better to a low gaming, highly confident (caveman) style of game. So in your case I would just assume she is super interested and just super shy and not confident, and she is looking for a strong, alpha make type like you to sweep her off her feet and tell her what you want her to do by showing her. So my advice is go Caveman on her, and don't over-game or even game her much. She is a show and not tell type of girl where she is at. Quote: I didn't see why though, he friends addressed us as we were together calling me her "boo".
- to me this indicates that she already told her friends how much she likes you.I predict she will react positively to any strong move you make with authority and you will have unexpectedly positive results, let me know if I'm wrong. |
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