PUA Forum :: Was picked up by an PUA and need advice

So I have a crazy story and need advice. But first, let me state two things: I am new to dating after focusing more on school, work, and family, and second, I am not familiar with pick up artistry.

Like others have said, I don't want to go into too much detail as I don't know if he comes to this forum. Anyway, I met this guy online, he convinced me to let him come to my place way too soon. We talked, laughed, he lunged and I didn't resist for long. I was too easy, but I thought we connected. He closed the deal far too easily, then we talked for a while about lots of stuff. He told me he's studied pick up artistry, but I didn't pay that any mind at the time. He spent the night and most of the next day hanging out at my place. It's been over a week since I've really heard from him. He sent a tiny little text a couple days ago and I replied...then I called but had to leave a message. I don't know his game, but I feel like I'm falling hook, line, and sinker. I guess I'm just curious to know what to expect, if anyone knows. I hate that this game was played on me....or is it always a bad thing? I'm so inexperienced, it feels overwhelming to me, especially because of the way he made me feel. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks.

Too easy meaning what sex?

Sorry but im bit naive.

Maya, how old are you?

Your boy,
870

I dont expect much more from him. If he already did what he wanted, the only thing you can expect is fuck buddy!

Guys love challenge, girls who fucked there plans. Im not criticize your aproach but dont wait him to be your prince charm and any emotional relantioship.

But real PUA normally dont adversite to girls who just met that they read PUA, is a way to trying to impress a girl.

Where r u from do you have any pics to send me ?

Honestly this is going to hurt- Just because he slept with you or whatever and didnt text back doesn't really mean he is a PUA or even studies the techniques.

I used to do this all the time when I was a teen before I even heard of all this stuff.
Im sorry guys are just like this sometimes, one track minds and all that. Women can be equally as cruel.

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Wow...I don't know what to believe anymore. This is no longer a question about my being naive, it's more about being jerked around...I'm flabbergasted.

Author:	Maya3194 [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 9:11 pm ]
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So I have a crazy story and need advice. But first, let me state two things: I am new to dating after focusing more on school, work, and family, and second, I am not familiar with pick up artistry. Like others have said, I don't want to go into too much detail as I don't know if he comes to this forum. Anyway, I met this guy online, he convinced me to let him come to my place way too soon. We talked, laughed, he lunged and I didn't resist for long. I was too easy, but I thought we connected. He closed the deal far too easily, then we talked for a while about lots of stuff. He told me he's studied pick up artistry, but I didn't pay that any mind at the time. He spent the night and most of the next day hanging out at my place. It's been over a week since I've really heard from him. He sent a tiny little text a couple days ago and I replied...then I called but had to leave a message. I don't know his game, but I feel like I'm falling hook, line, and sinker. I guess I'm just curious to know what to expect, if anyone knows. I hate that this game was played on me....or is it always a bad thing? I'm so inexperienced, it feels overwhelming to me, especially because of the way he made me feel. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks.

Author:	phangan [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 9:17 pm ]
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Quote: So I have a crazy story and need advice. But first, let me state two things: I am new to dating after focusing more on school, work, and family, and second, I am not familiar with pick up artistry. Like others have said, I don't want to go into too much detail as I don't know if he comes to this forum. Anyway, I met this guy online, he convinced me to let him come to my place way too soon. We talked, laughed, he lunged and I didn't resist for long. I was too easy, but I thought we connected. He closed the deal far too easily, then we talked for a while about lots of stuff. He told me he's studied pick up artistry, but I didn't pay that any mind at the time. He spent the night and most of the next day hanging out at my place. It's been over a week since I've really heard from him. He sent a tiny little text a couple days ago and I replied...then I called but had to leave a message. I don't know his game, but I feel like I'm falling hook, line, and sinker. I guess I'm just curious to know what to expect, if anyone knows. I hate that this game was played on me....or is it always a bad thing? I'm so inexperienced, it feels overwhelming to me, especially because of the way he made me feel. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks. Nice. Be grateful that you spent a nice night with a nice guy - and move on.

Author:	Snake Doctor [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 9:17 pm ]
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Too easy meaning what sex? Sorry but im bit naive.

Author:	Maya3194 [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 9:21 pm ]
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Quote: Too easy meaning what sex? Sorry but im bit naive. I can't tell if you're being serious or not...but yes, sex. And is he really a nice guy? Since I know nothing about PUAM, I feel like it's all a big game and like I was used...I just want to shake that feeling.

Author:	870 [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 9:22 pm ]
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Maya, how old are you? Your boy, 870

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Author:	Maya3194 [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 9:23 pm ]
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Quote: Maya, how old are you? Your boy, 870 Too old...I should know better. I am well-educated, but not when it come to men and their tactics. Let's just say I'm over 25.

Author:	NickStar [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 9:28 pm ]
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Where r u from do you have any pics to send me ?

Author:	Snake Doctor [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 9:31 pm ]
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So every man when try to pick up a girl (he doesnt need to be a PUA) has one ultimate objective to satisfy is biological needs. I dont expect much more from him. If he already did what he wanted, the only thing you can expect is fuck buddy! Guys love challenge, girls who fucked there plans. Im not criticize your aproach but dont wait him to be your prince charm and any emotional relantioship. But real PUA normally dont adversite to girls who just met that they read PUA, is a way to trying to impress a girl meaning in my book desperate to become interesting.

Author:	cameroon85 [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 9:39 pm ]
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Honestly this is going to hurt- Just because he slept with you or whatever and didnt text back doesn't really mean he is a PUA or even studies the techniques. I used to do this all the time when I was a teen before I even heard of all this stuff. Im sorry guys are just like this sometimes, one track minds and all that. Women can be equally as cruel.

Author:	Maya3194 [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 9:42 pm ]
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Quote: I dont expect much more from him. If he already did what he wanted, the only thing you can expect is fuck buddy! Guys love challenge, girls who fucked there plans. Im not criticize your aproach but dont wait him to be your prince charm and any emotional relantioship. I guess deep down, I'm wondering if there's anything I can do on my end? I want to see him again, I really like him. Is there any way I can reverse the game onto him? (probably not if he's not really texting much or returning my calls...why am I bothering?) Quote: But real PUA normally dont adversite to girls who just met that they read PUA, is a way to trying to impress a girl. Then why would he have told me he's a PUA? To impress me?? That's just odd.

Author:	Snake Doctor [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 9:43 pm ]
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Quote: Where r u from do you have any pics to send me ? See maya true PUA. Using direct game. You have to see the difference

Author:	Maya3194 [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 9:43 pm ]
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Quote: Honestly this is going to hurt- Just because he slept with you or whatever and didnt text back doesn't really mean he is a PUA or even studies the techniques. I used to do this all the time when I was a teen before I even heard of all this stuff. Im sorry guys are just like this sometimes, one track minds and all that. Women can be equally as cruel. Wow...I don't know what to believe anymore. This is no longer a question about my being naive, it's more about being jerked around...I'm flabbergasted.

Author:	guruman [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 9:49 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Honestly this is going to hurt- Just because he slept with you or whatever and didnt text back doesn't really mean he is a PUA or even studies the techniques. I used to do this all the time when I was a teen before I even heard of all this stuff. Im sorry guys are just like this sometimes, one track minds and all that. Women can be equally as cruel. Wow...I don't know what to believe anymore. This is no longer a question about my being naive, it's more about being jerked around...I'm flabbergasted. Really? You're over 25 but this news is surprising you?

Author:	Snake Doctor [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 9:52 pm ]
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Stop calling him sending him txts. If he contacts or sent you a txts, take much time to respond and be short and to the point. But polite. If he sets up a date try to postpone it, and be more dificult. I ussually just fall in love with girls, who are challenge to me. Im bored with girls who are too easy. Do you like him? I know girls have to rationalize why they had sex with a stranger Maybe he was running out of game, no more interesting stuff , so he jumped to something that will make girls melt. If I aproached a women THROW SOME TECNIQUES like cube routine, palm reading, and then tell her Ive learn that from reading Pua. It will make me an interesting person, it something girls like to talk and can related. Doesnt meaning Im am but im put you on a talkative state.

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Author:	Maya3194 [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 9:58 pm ]
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I did say I was inexperienced with men. I'm learning quickly, but keep experiencing new things that surprise me. I know people are jerks, but to hear about things and go through it are two different things. I am genuinely a nice person, so to witness the games people play in order to remain invulnerable and strong themselves, it's amazing. Ok Snake, I will try to play it cool. The thing with this guy is, he may be as well. Taking a long time to talk to me, making me antsy. So when I do hear from him, I immediately want to reply, I want more. Is this his game too? I don't want to fall into it...I don't want to play at all...I just would like honesty.