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| Author: | "The Gift" [ Mon Dec 12, 2011 1:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | HB10 Hired Gun/Shot girl - Confused as hell! |
Alright. Last week me and my friend were in a club. There was a really hot girl at the bar, HB10 and her friend. I made eye contact with her and then I got interrupted by my friends. They left. Half an hour later I see her on the dance floor, I thought great. I need a plan of action to approach her. Then I saw her carrying the tray. Damn it I thought, she's a shot girl. It explains why she's so hot. I felt that my confidence was knocked and didn't have as much belief in my self knowing she was a 'hired gun'. I saw her come over, I made sure not to stand to her full on but to the side. She came with a tray of shots. I bought one for me and my friend, they were jelly shots. Difficult as hell to consume. I actually had to break the thing apart to get it out LOL. Made sure to do it after she left. Throughout the whole night she kept coming back to me and my friend as we bought a couple earlier. I kept saying "You again?" with a cheeky smile. I made sure to get her to lean in to me to talk to her, I never leaned in. I told her to try again a little later. The banter, rapport was building all night but nothing developed. What could of been IOI's was probably her just being naturally flirty due to her role. Well, on Friday night I went to the same club. There she was, but she wasn't working. She noticed me and recongised me, I was quite suprised but didn't act it. I said to her "So you're not working tonight? I may get the chance to talk to you without you trying to sell me something". She smiled, I said I have to go and find my friends I'll talk to you soon. I came back a bit later she kept playfully punching me, messing around. When she was at the other end of the room we kept making eye contact and smiling. I approached her a few times during the night but she seemed interested but reluctant. I kept getting mixed signals, I didn't know where I stood. She kept walking past, pinching me and then looking behind her to see if I were following her etc. End of the night, she was by her self. I said to her "I can't keep following you around all night...lets go some where quiet." She looked confused, I walked ahead. She followed. She said she had to go but asked if I had facebook. I got her name. She left at 3:30am. Now this is where it gets confusing. I viewed her Facebook profile before I added her. I saw she was in a relationship...I added her at 5:00am. She accepted within minutes?! and her relationship was hidden. I talked to her on Facebook chat until about 7:00am. I've talked to her a couple of times since, but the conversation isn't that great. It's quite jokey but she's very blunt sometimes. It's like she's playing hard to get? I don't know. The fact she hid her relationship status as soon as she accepted me is good. I'm not sure if it's just a jokey relationship for Facebook or real. I can't find any photos of them together. I talked to her again at 3:00am and I said well Facebook is killing my phones battery. We'll have to suffice with good old SMS (Inserted my number). Never got a text, but checked my facebook and she just said i best be getting to sleep too. Good night loser xx Now, thanks for anyone reading all that dribble. But what the hell do I do? where do I stand? |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Mon Dec 12, 2011 11:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HB10 Hired Gun/Shot girl - Confused as hell! |
Quote: Alright.
Where do you stand in the PUA process... You are somewhere in the early stages of building comfort after attraction. Last week me and my friend were in a club. There was a really hot girl at the bar, HB10 and her friend. I made eye contact with her and then I got interrupted by my friends. They left. Half an hour later I see her on the dance floor, I thought great. I need a plan of action to approach her. Then I saw her carrying the tray. Damn it I thought, she's a shot girl. It explains why she's so hot. I felt that my confidence was knocked and didn't have as much belief in my self knowing she was a 'hired gun'. I saw her come over, I made sure not to stand to her full on but to the side. She came with a tray of shots. I bought one for me and my friend, they were jelly shots. Difficult as hell to consume. I actually had to break the thing apart to get it out LOL. Made sure to do it after she left. Throughout the whole night she kept coming back to me and my friend as we bought a couple earlier. I kept saying "You again?" with a cheeky smile. I made sure to get her to lean in to me to talk to her, I never leaned in. I told her to try again a little later. The banter, rapport was building all night but nothing developed. What could of been IOI's was probably her just being naturally flirty due to her role. Well, on Friday night I went to the same club. There she was, but she wasn't working. She noticed me and recongised me, I was quite suprised but didn't act it. I said to her "So you're not working tonight? I may get the chance to talk to you without you trying to sell me something". She smiled, I said I have to go and find my friends I'll talk to you soon. I came back a bit later she kept playfully punching me, messing around. When she was at the other end of the room we kept making eye contact and smiling. I approached her a few times during the night but she seemed interested but reluctant. I kept getting mixed signals, I didn't know where I stood. She kept walking past, pinching me and then looking behind her to see if I were following her etc. End of the night, she was by her self. I said to her "I can't keep following you around all night...lets go some where quiet." She looked confused, I walked ahead. She followed. She said she had to go but asked if I had facebook. I got her name. She left at 3:30am. Now this is where it gets confusing. I viewed her Facebook profile before I added her. I saw she was in a relationship...I added her at 5:00am. She accepted within minutes?! and her relationship was hidden. I talked to her on Facebook chat until about 7:00am. I've talked to her a couple of times since, but the conversation isn't that great. It's quite jokey but she's very blunt sometimes. It's like she's playing hard to get? I don't know. The fact she hid her relationship status as soon as she accepted me is good. I'm not sure if it's just a jokey relationship for Facebook or real. I can't find any photos of them together. I talked to her again at 3:00am and I said well Facebook is killing my phones battery. We'll have to suffice with good old SMS (Inserted my number). Never got a text, but checked my facebook and she just said i best be getting to sleep too. Good night loser xx Now, thanks for anyone reading all that dribble. But what the hell do I do? where do I stand? Where do you stand with the girl... You are the new fun option that just showed up in her life. She may be confused as to what to do about her "current' relationship and why she's not escalating easily for you cause there is definitely chemistry there. What do you do? Wait until you see her in person next time keep up with the flirty fun stuff, try to isolate like you did before, and ask her if she's seeing anyone. |
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| Author: | acid604 [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 2:26 am ] |
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If you see her again socially (when she's not working, and no 'bf' around) escalate like a motherfucker. She's obviously interested, isolate+escalate. Just my opinion. Good luck!! |
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| Author: | "The Gift" [ Wed Dec 14, 2011 12:22 am ] |
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Thanks guys! She has just gone back home for Christmas. Not good as that's where her boyfriend is. If that is her boyfriend. Oh well, will see how she is on Facebook chat with me. I've noticed I've always started the chat...shall I wait for her to open chat? Advice above is bang on though! |
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| Author: | "The Gift" [ Wed Dec 14, 2011 12:57 am ] |
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She has just started talking to me on Facebook. She has to be interested, but she's quite blunt. She has serious game ha...it makes me want to chase her, and want more! Gunna try keep it cool, and give her the same kind of replies as she gives me. |
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| Author: | DJ_Z [ Wed Dec 14, 2011 2:42 am ] |
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Don't stop gaming other girls just because you may have a shot with her. Pun intended |
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| Author: | acid604 [ Wed Dec 14, 2011 6:23 am ] |
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Quote: Don't stop gaming other girls just because you may have a shot with her.
haha I lol'd. But yeah this is true, definitely keep your mind off her by talking to other women. She's definitely a viable option (because she's interested) but she's not the only one....
Pun intended |
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| Author: | That1Guy [ Wed Dec 14, 2011 7:00 am ] |
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Quote: Don't stop gaming other girls just because you may have a shot with her.
that was a masterful pun. i approve whole heartedly, also the advice is solid
Pun intended |
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| Author: | "The Gift" [ Wed Dec 14, 2011 8:09 pm ] |
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Don't worry. Ben another guy from the Leeds lair can confirm, I have quite a few on my plate at the moment, all good for learning. She has gone back home for Christmas. But will still try and keep the rapport flowing |
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